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I wanted to give another update. My wife and I are seriously increasing our dialogue about the LS and peeling back previous limitations on a consistent basis. Today it was gang-bangs. While I have no clue how the logistics work at a party/club, I asked her how she felt about me participating in one if invited. She encouraged it! I stopped at that point to check in with her about how she really felt and assured her it was safe to share concerns/discomfort. Nope! She said she loves all the things we've been talking about doing! We hugged each other and both shared how happy we were that the desires and dialogue have been so positive! No clue how things will actually unfold in person, but we're gonna start crossing some bridges when we come to them, that's for damned sure!! EDIT: We also set up a joint email account for the LS. We've had a joint checking for years, but an email we both monitor....for social and sexual purposes...this is new.

I'm 5'3". My late wife was 5'9". I grew up thinking I was less-than-desirable because of my height. I almost never asked a woman taller than I to dance, much less for a date. Laura was asked "Why did you marry a man so much shorter?" Her answer was, "I prefer to measure a man from the bottom of his heart to the top of his mind. Measured that way, my husband is the tallest man I've ever known." God, I loved that woman. I still do. Alura

You WERE sharing by allowing others to watch. It's a variation of same room sex (the softest of all swinging, but swinging none the less). The rules and limits that you have are yours to set, but you've taken that first step down this path. Welcome to the club. Watching and being watched is WAY BETTER than the best porn.

A slut a day helps keep the doctor away. I do want to clarify. I never thought the word "slut" in this context, among consenting partners was a negative. I use it with my wife as a term of endearment. I know men have always been able to strut their 'Don Juan' ways with pride and I want women to be able to do the same. To be a slut is to be open, experimental, to own ones sexuality. Women should wear the moniker with pride.

My girlfriend and I like watching each other playing with the opposite sex and also with the same sex. Girls eating each others pussy and the guys sucking each others cocks. We also like sharing a guy's cock between us. I love it when she puts a guys hard-on in my mouth or I get to lick her pussy as she is being penetrated. I enjoy being a "fluffer" when he pulls out from between her legs, allowing me to lick her juices off his dick. Then I get to grab his hard-on and place its flared slippery head back at the entrance to her love canal, crawl back under them as they are enjoying each other on all fours and lick his shaft and balls as he is thrusting back and forth fucking her. My favorite position is laying underneath them in a 69 position, her sucking my cock as I am looking up watching her getting fucked, hoping he will pull out every now and then, letting his cock drop down to my waiting mouth. After a while of me orally pleasuring him, I again grab hold of his member and place it back in her pussy so he can finish giving her the creampie that drips his spent load from her sloppy wet kitty lips, all over my face.

May the fourth be with you. ?

Robert Heinlein...the original sci-fi swinger writer.

Yes, I've seen that with my wife. Talk to yours, when she isn't masturbating. Find out what goes on in her head when she's doing it, what (if anything) she'd like from you. Then do that . . .

Robert Heinlein wrote, "All women are the same height lying down." Men, too.

Everyone is different and has different tastes. For some people, being "too short" or "too tall" will be a deal-breaker. For others, it won't matter at all. It's important to remember, in swinging, you will get turned down... a lot... for any reason or no reason at all. But for every couple that turns you down, there is another couple to ask. You just have to keep looking.

I thought about mints but strips are a good option. My only concern would be giving a female partner a yeast infection.

That's why when we have an MFM I like to go second. I don't have any negative feelings, just lose some interest. In MFMF, if they're still going at it, we (me and the other woman) just hang back and we start getting excited again.

Tell her how you feel. Listen to how she feels. Don't try to convince her, change her, sway her or trick her. Just be honest and listen honestly. Go from there.

I'm a single Male, but ya, I like sucking cock. I really get into it, and love it there is a female watching. I've always wanted to share sucking a guys cock with his partner (female) and maybe swapping cum

Petra asking - What about in her bum? The three guys that I have sex with all like this almost as much as in my pussy and better than in my mouth. Also no mention of DP, but although I can't get off on anal alone, DP is wonderful, both the stimulation and having two men cum in me at the same time, although only the swimmers in my vag get to spend any quality time in me.

My first time was I with a friends wife doggie style and he was licking her at the same time. As I came and pulled out, he took me in his mouth and cleaned me off. I liked tht and have done it many times on both sides many times. the wife loves it that way.

"Is it hard to see your partner with someone else?" Yes! It was hard, so hard that it took me two years for me to let my husband have sex with another woman, even though he let me have a boyfriend. When it happened I was crazy with jealousy - and wanted him to do it again with her and other women. I was hooked, craved the feeling that seeing him pleased by another woman brought, and wanted him more than ever. Even now after ten years, it is a rush watching him with the two other women in our poly family.

Some times I feel like a slut, sometimes I don't . . .

I appreciate you sharing your experience with us! We're pretty confident in our relationship and the foundation it's built on. But who's to say what happens that first time I see my wife penetrated or her response to me having sex with a woman we just met. But without that initial experience, we can't grow. So I can understand how you were able to grow from that struggle. We definitely would love to develop friendships. Not sure how quickly that happens in the lifestyle but we'll find out!! Thanks again!!

Ask. Just ask. That's how I did the gay things that I did a couple of times. I've done it with two guys, both anal and oral, both sides. First time, I did the asking, the other time, he did. Other guys have asked me, I declined, but I wasn't offended or disgusted. Even the guys I do it with we hardly do it anymore, just sucking before or after it's in a pussy. Which is another thought - if you're shy, ask while there's a cunt involved. First time I sucked cock it started with me licking my wife's clit while he was fucking her.

When I feel like I am getting close to cumming I'll pull out and persuade her to get into a different position. Doing it in different positions is fun and the few moments it takes to get there is enough to calm me down. If I do that enough times I'll get to the point where I can get past that feeling and go until she is satisfied. The one position that I can always stay hard after I've cum until she is satisfied is with her on top.

Brian and I are both bi. I love to watch him with another man either as he is being fucked or when he is fucking the guy himself. It is a huge turn-on for me I must admit.