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the sin of omission = lying in our eyes. Both of us are VERY sensitive to the smell of smoke (we can tell someone is smoking outside from 50 feet away without even trying). If a couple showed up smelling (or tasting) of smoke, that IS a deal breaker for us. We would politely offer an excuse and go our separate ways. That they are willing to lie about it just makes us wonder about what else they are lying to us about.

EMT, congratulations, you're growing. You're looking forward to being watched by others, touched by others, perhaps intimate with others. The staid environs of a strip club now look conservative to you. You're getting there!

My wife is in terrific shape. I am on the husky side. We are over 60, look younger. Of course, the better one’s shape, the better one will do. But, there is every size and shape participating. I have never heard anyone openly critique a body. As I noted in a very recent post, we get rejected a lot by couples who we think are compatible. I wonder why, but there is no way to know. It could be a beard, brown eyes, or once, a woman fled from me because she said I looked like her former husband. I tend to take it personally, my wife could not care less. She has the better philosophy. There will be a ton of attractive people who will play with you. My thought is that the rejectors don’t know what they are missing. They can read your future SLS certs and suck it!

SW….they committed the sin of omission because they've learned that advertising their smelly and unhealthy habit cuts down their opportunities. Many couples we know (us included) view smoking as a deal breaker. Very few smokers can disguise the aura of tobacco that clings to their clothing and hair. Mrs Doc loves to kiss both men and women but says she hates putting her tongue into an ashtray. No matter how attractive a couple is, if their profile says they're smokers, we'll take a pass every time.

Next step is a club. Knowing that you can have sex while others watch or watch others having sex is a big turn on. Knowing that you can ask others if they want to join in or that others may ask you to join in is even better. Best thing is knowing you don't have to do anything you both don't want to do is the best. Start planning now!

bingo!!!

Scarlet Ranch is a wonderful place. Very upscale, higher class than all of the Vegas clubs, although I've never been inside the Green Door. A variety of different play areas, from private (with a curtain drawn) to wide open. I have not seen the hot tub renovation, but there are many outdoor cabanas for your play pleasure. They even have a tepee! What are you people waiting for?

The LifeStyle works best for people who have strong relationships with each other, and are looking for additional excitement. Unfortunately, it doesn't appear you are in this category. Any foray into swinging quite possibly lead to disappointment and perhaps damage to your primary relationship.

One odd thing about this, is that no one has ever been the person that pipes up and says, yea, we put partial pix and a short bio with lies about our age and height so that we can......... In our experience, there are more false profiles than accurate. We consider a profile not updated in 5 years as not accurate. Is anyone here, dealing with the consequences of a false profile? My wife is the first to call out a person and that makes everyone at the table uncomfortable, cept her, with the smirk half smile, waiting for the answer. I bet those folks walk in to the next meeting a little more nervous. It may be rude, but so is wasting an entire evening for us.

It really depends. I absolutely love the way a fit guy with a smaller cock looks - maybe 4-5 inches that I can really suck and caress. I like to sit and grind away on them - I can’t handle a big one like that. My husband is just a bit under 6” and it fits perfectly and hits my spot every time. Lately I have really enjoyed fucking a friend who is around 8” and is nice and thick. He takes it slow and then I like to get on top. I can’t say one is better than the other - they just feel different but are all good and get me off.

If the end of the man’s erect penis is touching her cervix, she could ask him to put it in just a little.

Being less than honest may get your foot into more doors, but those doors are far more likely to slam shut on that foot. WYSIWYG up front works for us. We try to be scrupulously accurate in our profiles about the physical attributes and as detailed as we can be without getting boring, about our personalities, relationship ,desires and expectations. That means fewer doors but more pleasant encounters. After communication and a meeting seems likely, we open our gallery portrait pictures which are vanilla in nature. Most of them carry date stamps. We can accept someone being a bit off in any of those areas, most of us have better things to do than daily updates, but if it looks like an out and out lie, then we say goodbye.

This has become a new fetish for a few of our friends. We will actually have pegging parties where the guys are all on the couch and the ladies wear strap inside and fuck them. It’s a great visual for the ladies as they can see their cocks bouncing and dripping pre-cum while they are getting fucked. It’s also awesome to see their cocks go off. Occasionally we double up on the guys so they get oral while getting penetrated. The guys also love being watched and will often jerk themselves off. Definitely not for everyone but we have been lucky enough to find some like minded folks.

Just explain it to him like you did here. Don't think any guy on the face of the Earth is going to be offended by being told his penis is too big. Btw, send him DDs way, she's yet to come across one too thick, long yeah, but never too thick. Lol

Update: my wife says she would perform oral on him. If I played with the wife, I have no problem downshifting to soft swap if ok with them.

Maybe they get snuffed often when they put it out there. I know we try to avoid smokers unless there seems to be something worth overlooking it for (mainly good chemistry). We filled our online profile with info. Don't want to dupe anyone or present ourselves as someone we aren't. We have met a few that present themselves one way and just aren't what they claim to be. We may never know why.

The first time Mike saw me I think it was after we had sex and he was finished. I wasn’t ready to stop. He normally would know what to do. This one time I took out my toy from the nightstand. Not only did I cum it got Mike worked up to go again. Since that time I have done it many times and Mike has recorded it. I guess I get very excited. Mike enjoys watching me alone or with someone.

I agree with this. "Slutty" is a normal personality trait/behavior that gets indulged. Just because I'll sometimes spend lavishly on a delicious meal doesn't mean I'm a generally wasteful person. Fun and stimulation are an important part of life. Kind of related, but a little bit ago, there was a scandal on our little street when a neighbor had to throw her younger husband out because, to put it simply, everything he had ever said was a crazy lie. Not just about sex, but money and more. Mrs. E and the neighbor, a middle-aged professional, have been having dinner regularly since for girl talk time. She's has been wasting no time. She didn't just line up a fuck buddy, she's on a rotation of five regulars now. Her car is never in her driveway on weekends because she's away doing her thing on Match and Tinder. I'm sure she'll settle back down and won't even tell her next husband about even 10% of this, but for now, she's having a blast with it. So last night Mrs. E was explaining this to me and it came with a generic "can you believe that, so shocking" footnote. It clicked with me that even with everything we've gotten up to and talked about, she still has a hard time making the rest of the connection that it's completely normal. "Wait, she likes to fuck. How is that shocking? So do we." The five seconds of confused silence were priceless.

We were with our neighbor. There was a ton of sexual tension between my wife and him. We ended up drinking and flirting. He and I began rubbing her tits nd making out. She undressed for us and and started sucking our cocks. She sucked his cock while I fucked her from behind - his dick was perfect and a lot bigger than mine. I could tell she was totally into him so I invited him to switch with me. I got on my back nd had her straddle my face - i figured it would drive her wild to have be eating her while he pounded her with his big cock. She came very fast and I shot a load in her mouth. when she was ready he put his cock in her again. While he was fucking i just instinctively rubbed his shaft with my tongue. As he pulled out of her i took the head of his cock in my mouth. He went back and forth between my mouth and her pussy until he finally went balls deep in her and ejaculated. I sucked his balls and could feel his thick cock pulsing as he put his load in her. It was a first for all of us. My wife was so turned on by the whole experience. We laid around afterwards and she continued to kiss us and play with our cocks. I held his cock as she sucked him off - he came again. My wife masturbated watching him sucking my cock. We sat back nd jerked off together until we both shot another load. She continues to totally get off seeing me with another guy.

You were clear, I just wasn't keeping all the posts straight in my head as to who said what. I'm not sure that guys necessarily want to be second, it's just that they want to get their's too. But IDK, maybe from an evolutionary standpoint a guy is more likely to have his sperm win the race if he's second because his dick scoops out the first batch. From my perspective, if it's an FMF, I like to be second. A man has to try much harder to orgasm and I like to watch him struggle. One of my favorite sequences is to be licked by her as he's going into her from behind, then after all three of us have cum, suck him up and do missionary.

There is a slightly more upscale resort, as you might already know, called Caliente, not far from Paradise Lakes. But if you are on a budget, Paradise Lakes wins by a nose. We have enjoyed Paradise Lakes and have, in fact, rented a condo on the property for one month in January. As divenaked has pointed out, members and staff are nowadays looking past PDA. We have met swingers there. The crowd includes both old and young. Week-long auto rentals are inexpensive. And you never know, you might want to drive to Caliente for a day pass. You might also want to drive to some really great and inexpensive eating places in around Lutz like Ukulele in Land O Lakes.