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Hi all, I love the camaraderie, the supportive attitudes and general concern that are shown by the members of this board to other members, new or old. I really feel that this is a place where like-minded people can talk, discuss, introspect and honestly "put it out there" without fear of insensitive "snarking" or ridicule. You guys are great, and an absolute treasure as a resource for those of us who are not yet vastly experienced. That said, I would like to pose a question. I'll be happy to be the first one to answer. Even after all of the planning, fantasizing and talking you and your wife or SO did prior to your first experience, how, in detail, did the men of this forum feel the first time you saw your wife open her legs and willingly accept another man's penis into her vagina? As he actually took his place upon or (or she him) and pushed his penis into her body? Despite all of the preparation and desire on both of our parts for this experience, I found a cornucopia of emotions, feelings and thoughts running through my brain and body like a torrent. The male in question was someone we'd gotten to know fairly well; his wife was absent that day due to illness. The hello kiss between he and my wife turned very passionate and prolonged; he began to fondle her breasts and her pussy (she was wearing short shorts) and she began, almost unconsciously, to stroke his cock. One thing led to another, soon they were doing oral on each other, and I signaled my wife that it would be ok with me if she fucked him. We hit the bedroom, and I stood at the edge of the bed, looking into her eyes and holding her hand, as he moved between her legs. She spread them wide for him, and I got the feeling in the pit of my stomach, like a pang of EXCITEMENT mixed with ENVY, mixed with FEAR, mixed with a highly erotic feeling. She put her legs on his shoulders, and as I watched, his very rigid cock penetrated her pussy and she made a noise I'd never heard her make without me. Erotic excitement, incredible arousal and jealous feelings poured through me, as I watched him aggressively drive himself deeper and deeper into my wife. I wasn't sure if I wanted him to stop, or to continue forever. The excitement was incredible, as was the arousal, but strangely I wasn't hard. I watched as she squirted several times for him, and had orgasm after orgasm. Again, I wasn't sure what I was feeling except that it was VERY powerful. Regret that we had decided this and couldn't go back, excitement to do it again and again, incredible desire to join and to put my cock in her mouth, uncertainty as to how to proceed. Finally, I could see he was ready to cum, and when he did, I looked at and kissed my wife as she thrust into him. We always use condoms, so he carefully pulled out, and I mounted her with him behind her, cradling her shoulders as I drove MY cock into her. We thrust hard against each other, and I came deep in her with him holding onto her from behind. Our friend was polite, showed deference and was very gracious; my wife, for her part, really enjoyed it and had nothing but pleasure and positive emotions flowing through her. In keeping with her usual, she really had no memory as to what he did to her after she began to fuck him...she's in another world during sex and remembers very little. I had to fill her in (which she was eager to hear). I, on the other hand, took a bit to integrate all of the feelings of jealousy, excitement, loss, gain, fear, eroticism, pain and pleasure that I had experienced. Things have been similar but less startling as other events have unfolded. I'm not sure, but I really think it is the gamut of emotions, from jealousy and pain to pleasure and massive sexual excitement, that make, for me, seeing her with another man so incredibly hot. I've said before that I think it's our power to channel the power latent in jealousy (and the envy, fear of being left out, fear of not being good enough that jealousy encompasses) into our similarly intense erotic experience that keeps us (at least ME!!!!) enthusiastic about the lifestyle and finding opportunities to play again and again. Our stated reasons for getting into the LS is that we love to watch each other as we're pleasured....and that's still true. How about you?

Glad to read that you had a fun 1st experience at a club. Go back again and again. As your comfort level gets better, so too will your experiences. Now you know what to expect so you can begin to experiment with how far you two wish to go. We still fondly remember our first months in this hobby. The fun and anticipation of each new step we took together make us smile 15 years later. Regarding your wife's boobs, there are FINE. Im guessing they got a lot of 2nd looks at the club. Here's ours for you… Taken a few weeks ago at a house party.

Looking back at your posts from 3/13 & 3/14 I am having trouble with the time line connecting that post to this. I can not avoid the thought that you are creating story lines around the question that you really are dealing with. Just ask it. We will be able to be of much more use.

I have told this story before but long story short we started with a nice massage for her that turned into a MFM, he was first to penetrate my wife with our permission, she was nervous at first then her body took over(instinct) as he thrusted. As he was about to cum, she was moaning he pulls his cock out, she reaches for him and he says ..."I am gonna cum"... and she puts it back in, he looks at me, he thrusts a couple more times and she screams (never said to me) "fuck me, put your seed in me, put a baby in me..." as he lost it in her. I could see in slow motion he cock pulsating in her. Very erotic...

Yep. People are paying $1000s and both members of the couple are on board when they get on board ship.

I find SLS and SDC frustrating. Lots of fakes and flakes. We have more success on Bliss cruises. More people on board with swinging.

We were with our neighbor. There was a ton of sexual tension between my wife and him. We ended up drinking and flirting. He and I began rubbing her tits nd making out. She undressed for us and and started sucking our cocks. She sucked his cock while I fucked her from behind - his dick was perfect and a lot bigger than mine. I could tell she was totally into him so I invited him to switch with me. I got on my back nd had her straddle my face - i figured it would drive her wild to have be eating her while he pounded her with his big cock. She came very fast and I shot a load in her mouth. when she was ready he put his cock in her again. While he was fucking i just instinctively rubbed his shaft with my tongue. As he pulled out of her i took the head of his cock in my mouth. He went back and forth between my mouth and her pussy until he finally went balls deep in her and ejaculated. I sucked his balls and could feel his thick cock pulsing as he put his load in her. It was a first for all of us. My wife was so turned on by the whole experience. We laid around afterwards and she continued to kiss us and play with our cocks. I held his cock as she sucked him off - he came again. My wife masturbated watching him sucking my cock. We sat back nd jerked off together until we both shot another load. She continues to totally get off seeing me with another guy.

I'm sure the moments you spend together alone are special. Do you both still love each other? Having sex with other people is just another way to have fun. I'm sensing that you feel a bit of jealousy if he has sex with another woman. It was MY fantasy to watch her having sex with other men. It took me a long time to talk her into trying it. She told me she wouldn't be able to handle watching me having sex with another woman. That didn't bother me at all. It wasn't about reciprocation. It made her feel more comfortable about giving it a try to please me. Her first time with another man in front of me was AWESOME! She loved it! It was no problem talking her into doing it again. Our love for each other grew deeper. She enjoyed having sex with different men in front of me knowing that it made me happy by fulfilling my fantasy.

I wanted to watch my wife as we fucked from a different perspective. As if I'm out of my body standing across the room. She refused to let me take videos. The more I dreamed about it I began to imagine other guys having sex with my wife. I'm not into the cuckold fantasy either but I'll admit that I dreamed about other guys seducing my wife in front of me and her submitting to them. It took me a long time to talk her into trying it and when she did she loved it and I loved watching it! I'm hooked for life! The first time we were all in the bed together. Then I started getting off the bed and sitting in a chair in the corner of the room and watching from there.

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