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Glad to read that you had a fun 1st experience at a club. Go back again and again. As your comfort level gets better, so too will your experiences. Now you know what to expect so you can begin to experiment with how far you two wish to go. We still fondly remember our first months in this hobby. The fun and anticipation of each new step we took together make us smile 15 years later. Regarding your wife's boobs, there are FINE. Im guessing they got a lot of 2nd looks at the club. Here's ours for you… Taken a few weeks ago at a house party.

We have been married for almost 44 years. We have never dated or had sex with anyone else. We have a great marriage but our sex life is in the shitter! We are new to swinging. A few weeks ago we meet a couple and went all the way. My problem is not the sex that was exchanged, rather than the foreplay, kissing and cuddling my husband did with Cheryl. And his use of viagra. When I mentioned it to him he defends by saying it was role playing. I am very hurt because he does not treat me like that in the bedroom. when I asked him about taking viagra for someone else, because he doesn’t use it with me, his answer was he was saving it. Our sex usually consist of me sucking him for while, saying it felt good, asking me if I want him to play with me. He has had prostate surgery so getting an erection doesn’t happen often. But I want what he gave Cheryl that night of swinging. Any suggestions?

@Jane… We would look at a pictureless profile that contacted us on SLS or SDC. If we liked what we read, if they were not smokers, if they were plus or minus 10 age wise and indicated that they were h/w/p we would respond. Our note would be courteous and brief, in effect saying that we never buy a pig in a poke and never meet another couple without having seen reasonably recent photos. We can exchange email addresses or cell numbers for texts/pics and go from there. New couples in particular are quite concerned about posting pictures on the web so we give them the benefit of the doubt. If they don't wish to give us a look (especially since we have about 15 representative posted on each site) contact ends.

"We also emailed another couple in our neighborhood (or one of the neighboring developments) and they have yet to read our email even though they've been on yesterday and today. We figure if they don't respond by week's end, they just didn't want to be bothered." I think it's unfortunate, but you can read the email without 'opening' it. So an email can go for years in the unread/unreplied status. Yeah, if they don't respond in a reasonable amount of time, assume they aren't interested and move on. It happens. As soon as you get pictures up, you can expect your viewings to pick up.

Well..update.. went to Menages last night. I would call it a success..Early in the night, we sat back and watched the entertainment that was the dance floor. Later sneaking off into ine of the private rooms alone. Enoyed each other for a good while. Later i. The night, watched many different couples fucking in couples only area. Wife wanted to give me a blowjob for our first voyeurism experience. Didnt have expected result, but very exciting being watched. Overall, our first time was alot fun..We talked about going again in the future. Menages, wasnt too bad. Fairly clean, staff was friendly. The crowd was a nice mix of early 30s to late 60s im guessing..

It does for my wife. We fantasize about sucking cock together, and me eating her pussy and ass while I get deeply ass fucked.

I wouldn't risk letting a asurgeon get near them. They're already gorgeous - what more could someone want?

JamesCurious I have read "Divine Sex" completely and have started to reread it again. I applaud you for opening up to your wife with your thoughts and feelings. Even if nothing else happens, the improved communication with your wife will certainly make the two of you much stronger. While my late wife could not wrap her head around "Sex outside of marriage" we did talk a lot. I have since remarried and my now wife and I communicate very openly. No, we are not active in the Lifestyle but we talk about it almost all of the time. I believe it is all about communication and getting past all of the misinformation that exist about those in the lifestyle. I wish you the best! ifonly1

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