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When we first swapped I didn’t know I wanted to swap. The other wife said it was a first for them too. Before swapping I saw them both nude on a nude beach. Both were attractive but me being with her was not even a slight thought to me. The next day almost ruined everything to me. I was the only one who was uneasy with all of us having sex together. The friend who I say made love to me the night before now put a show on for my husband. Totally different and the wife who was so innocent the day before wanted to play with me. I couldn’t reciprocate. I have loosened up over the last few years even though I prefer being alone with one partner and not have to watch my husband.

For being a little over 30, I too have had few (male) sex partners, five, although I am currently fucking three of them regularly and often. So what makes a woman a slut? Is it the number of different partners? How often she has sex, even with one guy? The kinky things she does? To me it all depends on the tone and the circumstances. Call me a dumb slut and I'm insulted; call me a smart, tough cunt (as I was told someone said about me once at work) and I am flattered.

We took a similar route. I just put an unilateral,unqualified Green Light on her table and let it sit there for a bit. After a time she realized that I was serious. Oddly enough the only way she felt comfortable was to have me along for the journey. I remind her periodically that the Green Light carried no conditions or expiration date. She has yet to use it. Although our shared experiences keep getting more expansive.

I'd say it really rather depends on what you mean by "slut." I consider my wife to be my wife. She an intelligent, educated, strong, confident, sexually open, more-than-a-little-weird woman. I would also say she's a slut... in that she likes sex, enjoys sex with a wide variety of men, enjoys having sex with multiple men at the same time, is a bit kinky and is perfectly comfortable with all of that. However, I don't consider the word "slut" to be pejorative in this sense. I don't think any less of her because she enjoys these things. In most of the world, women who enjoy sex are demeaned and insulted, while men who do the same are lionized. I reject that out of hand.

I climax just about every time a guy cums inside me

Could it be that he is just trying desperately not to finish first? Once the other guy cums, that's his cue that it's ok for him to finish as well. He relaxes enough to let it happen.

MsD says it is not only a matter of orgasm or not, she simply likes the feeling of being full with a larger cock. For her, size does matter in fact.

I don't think there is much difference as far as vaginal sex goes between 5 inches and 7 inches. The difference comes during anal sex, where too big just won't do. A lot depends on the size of the woman. I am pretty short and petit and I don't need a long one to be happy.