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Hi, We are new to the lifestyle and wanted to share our experiences (nobody else to report to ) We are based out of Seattle and have been going to Sapphire. Love the atmosphere, very laid back, clean, and nice people all around. We aren't into playing with other couples. We primarily go to watch and be watched. Wife loves to wear sexy, skimpy clothes and is rather attractive! We love to dance giving everyone a glimpse of her rack, booty, and just having a good time overall. The play rooms are really nice and clean. We like to have some sex and don't mind others watching. Initially, we went to a semi-private room with curtains open.. And just last time, went to a shared play room with few other parties having fun.. One weekend, there was one gentleman (visiting from out of state) who had a really good conversation with us. We didn't know he couldn't get to the play areas as a single male and had to be accompanied there. Also, wife is rather shy. While she likes to show off and tease, she doesn't necessarily engage. Also we haven't been exposed to situations like this and so quite frankly didn't know how to react. We've been there a few times now and love it... A fun, "don't care" atmosphere where everyone's having fun. Guys and gals give my wife a lot of compliments! she enjoys that. Nobody has ever touched or behaved out of the norm. Very impressed with that. A few casual rubs in the dance floor and we dont mind it and it was nothing more than at the night club.. more opportunistic and due to "crowd" than creepy.. not sure what else to share... so many questions still Is it ok to go to only watch and be watched? I know for a fact that the wife entertains a few by her looks and teasing outfits Love to hear your thoughts, suggestions, anything

For us and many of our friends, swinging was a progression, especially at clubs. Mrs Doc dressed in a tantalizing fashion and we watched others in the play area before going off by ourselves to boink each other blind. As time passed, she got more and more brave and wore less and less, we found that she enjoyed showing off more than a little. From there, we started to have semi private sex together and then we moved to playing together on the edge of groups of couples. It was about then that she discovered that she enjoyed playing in the glory hole room at one of the clubs. It was the first time I saw her touch another penis and I discovered that I wasn't jealous. Once we began playing together in groups, it was a small step to touching and being touched. The first time she was riding me and the female of the couple next to us started to play with Mrs Doc's tit was about the hottest thing I'd EVER seen to that point. We slowly slid into soft swap with other couples(touching, oral, then oral to completion) but it was still months before we finally were ready to take the leap into full swap. Once we got there, we were totally at ease as it happened because by then, it was just the natural next step in our progression. My point is, this is your adventure, take it at your own pace and enjoy each new experience. The great thing about clubs, especially early on, is that you can see and do all that you wish without pressure to move too fast. Other than true hard core couples, swingers are usually playful, understanding and respectful and willing to help new couples explore the edges of their envelops. I do hope you'll update us on your experiences.

If you're self-conscious about the scars, just let your pubic hair grow a little to cover it over. Having had kids is an indication of sexual activity and maturity, like having pubic hair. It's a turn on.

We are a M38/F37 couple married and know each other for 20 years. We've been our only partners - from kissing to sex. Few years ago, I helped bring out the hidden sexiness and exhibitionist nature of my wife. Ever since, she's been ROCKING it with clothes, looks that are super seductive, inviting, teasing - even to normal outings like to a mall or grocery store. Not over the top for common places but sporting short shorts, mini skirts, definitely cleavage showing tops. She has very attractive DD racks and an athletic body. We've been having so much fun just doing that and I just simply love and get hard when other guys look at her. When we are having sex, we have dirty talk with me mentioning names of guys that constantly flirt with her... she tells me that she loves others playing with her tits, nipples, etc. I know it started because she knew I like to hear that, but deep down I think she loves it too! However, she maintains a strong position on nobody else fucking her or me.. and we are both ok with that... Recently, few months ago, took the plunge and went to a LS club. Very nice experience. She felt at home exposing her ass, boobs, nipples, getting frisky overall. After some dancing (just us) that put on a nice show to others watching, we went to a private room. Though the room had curtains, we kept it open. She isn't a huge fan of bright light during sex... however, managed it ok and I just LOVED it when guys were standing out to watch her...I would ram her from behind and with her on her knees and hands, the view that someone got of her boobs shaking and dancing while I fucked her made me SO hard. And then, she'd ride me giving those watching an amazing view of her ass. I'd constantly lick her boobs/nipples - both in the private room and in the public space.. In another visit, the private room was occupied and we ended up going to a room with other folks playing.. It was amazing to even enter... we did our thing, I ate her, she gave me a BJ and it was fun to hear others make sounds... i'd do it again.. after being in the play rooms, we'd walk around and she'd be close to naked and seeing other guys watch her made me so fucking hard.... she's very shy and doesn't flirt or make eye contact with many... very rare...some day, I hope to see her flirt and have some fun... I want it for her first. I wouldn't mind it either

Q: How do I invite/let others know it's ok to talk/touch her (with her permission of course). The easiest way is for her to start a conversation, flirt. First, she picks out a 'target.' She goes up to him, similes, maybe wets her lips, toys with her hair. You said she wore an unbuttoned shirt - she could play with the front, giving the guy a glimpse of boob, maybe even a nipple. And she can touch him on the arm or wherever she feels comfortable. At that point he'll probably touch her back, and the touches get more intimate until . . . If you and she wait to be approached, it could be a long night. Best of luck.

See, not all of us swingers are evil creeps! Seriously, congratulations. It seems you're having the experience the two of you want, which is the way it should be. And of course, if you want people to watch you and/or you simply wish to watch, there should be no problem.

Yeah. It’s ironic what got me to play. While my husband and I lived together before we were married, I had a threesome with a college friend and a guy she was friends with. My first time with a girl and first threesome. With guilt feelings I told my then boyfriend who at first left me, then came back. I convinced him to have a threesome. I know, most guys wouldn’t need convincing. Yes he is enjoying what we do. We got married and now we are very open in our marriage. He even encourages me to have fun. Now to answer. The only reason we are playing now is because on a cold snowy day I went back to a hotel with my girlfriend. I was very very straight but somehow allowed something I never even thought about to happen. If that snowstorm didn’t happen I would have gone home and never would have experienced what I did that night. I can’t see how normal me would have ever done what I did. Complicated explanation?

My wife lets everybody come inside her because she loves the explosion inside her.

same here

Size isnt an issue...as long as you know what you are doing and everyone is having a good time, in my opinion. My guy is always telling me how tiny I am in certain places..lol. Though I am a tall girl. I have been hurt by larger guys, and not hurt in a way that I liked. (And I enjoy a bit of pain) for me its more about connections and a great time being had by all involved.

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Well, this was definitely more embarrassing for the guy than for us... One of the things that was on our "list" for quite awhile was finding a younger guy (19-23 or so) for her to play with. Eventually a situation more or less fell into our laps when we weren't even actively looking (isn't that the way it often happens?!). In any case, this guy was 21 (22 now since this was last year) and had the serious "hots" for my wife. We invited him over for dinner a couple times just to get to know him and make sure things seemed cool. At this point we hadn't mentioned anything to him about actually getting to be with her sexually. Once we were convinced that things would probably go okay we invited him over for dinner again and figured that'd be the night we let the proverbial cat out of the bag. Just to liven the mood I suggested that my wife wear something a little more revealing than she had previous times. It wasn't anything outrageous, but she had on a short denim mini-skirt and a top that definitely showed him more than he'd seen before. After dinner my wife and I cleaned up and I made drinks for all of us. I asked her if she still wanted to go through with it and she said she did and was feeling pretty horny. We hadn't really discussed "strategy" beforehand and were talking about how I should go about letting him in on everything. After a little back and forth she decided that she'd probably be most comfortable with just starting something. She said that she thought he'd probably be more comfortable that way, too, since he wouldn't be sitting there thinking about it and feeling weird. And keep in mind that, again, this guy was really into my wife. I returned to the other room with our drinks and he and I began talking. Shortly into the conversation I told him that my wife had a special dessert planned for him. Corny, I know, but it was the first thing that came to mind. His back was facing the entrance to the kitchen so he didn't see her immediately when she came back in. I, however, did. And much to my surprise she was topless. Now, if you think I was a bit surprised, you can imagine his surprise when my wife kneeled down beside his chair. This was all at the dining room table just so you have the visual. His eyes nearly came out of his skull! She started rubbing his crotch and he was at a complete loss for words other than a few "ums" and "whoahs." Now here's the embarrassing part (for him, anyway). She instructed him to stand up, which he didn't waste much time doing. Once he stood she pulled his jeans and boxers down and he stepped out of them. He was already completely rock hard and she started stroking him. He couldn't take his eyes off of her and what she was doing. Having gotten much more comfortable and verbal over the last few years we've been in the lifestyle, she started talking to him a little bit - telling him she loved how hard he was and that he had a nice cock and all of that. The kid was literally shaking while she was stroking him. She asked him if he ever thought about doing something like this with her and he managed "uh huh." She sat there a few more seconds just stroking him and looking up at him. Then she said "would you like me to suck on it?" He said something like "oh God yes!" She started licking it a little bit first, and then started "snapping" her lips over his head with her lips tightened. She does this to me and it drives me crazy. She did that maybe three or four times and then took him down. As soon as she did he started yelling "oh God, oh God, I'm gonna cum!" And boy did he! Everywhere! She was completely covered. I haven't seen a guy cum that hard or that much in a long time. It was actually pretty amazing! Now, you can imagine this poor kid's embarrassment. She barely even started the blowjob and he had shot his load. He kept apologizing and saying how bad he felt. I lightened the mood by telling him it was no big deal and that my wife was just that good. He was definitely shaken though. So while my wife went to clean up we sat and talked a little and finished the drinks we had. I went to make another round and my wife appeared in the kitchen. She was saying she felt really bad for him and that she hoped we hadn't ruined the kid. I told her I was sure he could get it back up with no problem and that she should give him another shot. So we went back out (my wife still topless) and moved to the living room where my wife sat on the couch next to him. She had her hand on his leg (his boxers and jeans were back on by this point) and finally just came out and told him that it was okay to touch her if he wanted to because I think he felt a little uncomfortable just "going for it." Once they kissed and he played with her tits a little he calmed down quite a bit, though you could tell in his mind he was saying to himself "I can't believe this is happening!" I suggested to my wife that she complete her undressing. I thought he was going to have a heart attack when she took her panties off and he saw her pussy lol. I'm not bragging, but my wife is gorgeous and has a heavenly body. In any case, he went down on her and then she returned the favor. After all of the excitement he didn't last too long once he got inside of her, but it was still very hot and very enjoyable for everyone. She called him the next day to make sure that he was okay with everything and that he wasn't uncomfortable. By that point he was fine and even asked about doing it again lol. She was very into it and told him that she'd love to. So, a couple weekends later they were back at it. He goes away for school, but he's home in the summer and on breaks. We've made it a point to get together with him any time he's home. Since a year has passed things are very normal now. She's even gotten him off over the phone a few times when he's away. But wow, that first time he probably just wanted to crawl into a hole. Anyway, I guess that would qualify as our most "embarrassing" story. That is, other than the time a good friend of ours was screwing her so hard that a picture fell off of the wall and nearly took her head off. But we knew him so well that wasn't really embarrassing. And, come to think of it, maybe that's just not embarrassing anyway. :-P

We have gone without condoms twice with couples we've known a while. But of the 2 times, I didn't cum one of the times and pulled out and came on her tummy the other (at her request). Both times Tam's playmates came inside her. So, when we choose to play natural.....we don't mind where the finish is