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I think most guys (including my husband) really don't care, they just want to get theirs too. And seeing her have sex with someone else indicates that she (me) is ready and willing. I am taken with the thought for several days afterwards that the sperm of one or two or three men are swimming around inside me. That's why although I enjoy and do oral and anal to completion (for him), I much prefer that a man cums in my vagina.

We just finished our 9th trip to Desire and spent 4 days at RM followed by 4 days at Pearl. We liked Pearl better but you will find others that like RM better. And yes, it depends upon the crowd there at the time. We made sure to have a Friday night at RM and a Saturday night at Pearl since the weekends are usually at capacity. This time, we saw more action at Pearl than RM. What we like about RM: More rooms (114) so more people to interact with. Habatchi grill is the best. What we don't like about RM: Jacuzzi and Disco are on the second story meaning stairs. Stairs are not conducive to heels and alcohol. And the jacuzzi is very small. What we like about Pearl: Rooms are nicer and bigger (88 rooms). Pool and jacuzzi are much larger. Disco is off the main lobby so easy to get to and move about. What we don't like about Pearl: The DJ in the club at night is the worst. Does not read the crowd well for music and, as such, the club empties an hour after it opens. Many head down to the jacuzzi for late night fun. We don't do Temptation nor Hedo because they allow single guys there. Unfortunately, many of those guys do not know the protocol when interacting with women and figure because a woman is there, it is a free for all. Too many stories from couples we spoke to that have gone there.

We've been to both resorts and just returned last night from 8 nights at Desire (4 at RM and 4 at Pearl). We had Friday night at RM as our last night and Saturday night at Pearl as our first night so we could experience a weekend night at each. We have been to Pearl a number of times before for a week at a time. It is true that the vibe is set by the crowd that is there at the time. We saw more action going on at Pearl on Saturday than we did the whole 4 days we were at RM. Ages varied at both as well as bodies style so don't plan on a "hard body" setting at either. Each person you ask will have their preferences and we find an even mix between Pearl and RM preferences. If you can swing it, we would suggest 4 days at each. Any shorter than that and you really don't get into the swing of things (no pun intended). If you can't spend at least 4 days at each, then pick the one and stay there. Pearl: Nicer rooms (88 total), more open space on the grounds, huge pool and giant jacuzzi, we think the disco club is better in size/layout, RM: Maybe better beach, 114 rooms but varying degrees of style from spartan to luxurious, small pool and jacuzzi, disco and jacuzzi up a flight of stairs (not a good combo with sexy heels and drinking). Habatchi grill is very good. Staff at both are top notch. You can't go wrong with either. Remember - even a bad day at Desire beats a great day anywhere else every time! :)

I think a theme serves as a conversation starter. It gives complete strangers something in common to talk about. "Nice costume" etc. It also brings an atmosphere of fun to the event. Outside of that, I don't think themes are too important.

When we first started playing with others he wanted only FMF as he's always been straight, and even though I'm bi I've always preferred MFM. Then when we were seeing this other couple for a while who we were doing bareback sex with, after the other guy came in me he suggested to my hubby to try sloppy seconds as he highly recommended it feels so much nicer. So he did and loved the feel of that, and since that day he has lost any interest in FMF.

My wife and I love MMF threesomes, and she really loves alone time with our main threesome friend.