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If you are allowing it to happen, then she thinks you enjoy it on some level and that it might go even further at some point. If you really don't like it, put an end to it. Period.

When I was in school the word balls would always make us laugh. Even Rachel Ray laughs every time she is making meatballs or anything round shaped. She jokes she likes her balls big. Balls, nuts, junk, sack, beans and frank, nutsack, we used to come up with so many names for a scrotum. There is an exit in Pennsylvania for Scotrun but everyone I know calls the exit Scrotum. Testicles are in the scrotum. Duh, you know that. When I was young I knew guys would cringe when they got hit in the crotch. My first time with a guy, scared shit, I saw balls up close. I guess normal size, I was more worried about something else getting bigger. That first time I kept saying sorry when I touched the ball think I was hurting him. In my life I learned touching the right way was fine some guys encourage and some guys don’t like it. Balls are like boobs, large hanging and smaller perky. A dick size and ball size make the package. My husband is average sized and his balls get very tight when he gets hard. His best friend, who I am with quite a bit, has a dick about the same size but his balls hang low. I sing Swing low Sweet Chariot lol. My husband likes when I lick his balls but not take them in my mouth. Our friend likes when I take a ball in my mouth. He even enjoys lowering his sack to my mouth, yeah I know what a tea bag is. The men I have been with have been larger and smaller. Maybe it’s more than a visual but it most certainly different. It is most noticeable during fore play and oral sex.

I started a thread on this subject in 2014. Here in part, large part, is what I posted: For me, it is a huge turn on for me to see a guy with large, separate, distinct balls that hang down real low and play with them. For me testicles are the masculinity of a man and I get excited just seeing them. For me it arises from being raised a sheltered Catholic girl hearing about a guy "having balls" (or "NOT having balls"), someone being a "ballbuster," a guy "getting his nuts cut off," or having "the balls of a bull," all those sayings. That part of a guy took on mythical dimensions in my pubescent teenage mind. (Not to mention those are the source of the swimming, living part of him that will live inside me for days (DAYS!) and maybe make a baby.) When I masturbated it was in my mind, and still is. And the first time I got to hold the real testicles of the guy that took my virginity (and is my current boyfriend), they were (and are) of mythical proportions. So I have never shaken my schoolgirl fascination with that part of a man's anatomy. Yet they aren't given the amount of discussion that breasts, penises, labia or even pubic hair."

We have two guys that do this with us. It works well if the guy with the bigger cock lays on his back. I get on top of him face down on all fours. He penetrates me and gets me going. Next my husband takes me from behind. He presses his cock down so he can slide inside me. The guy on the bottom doesn't move muchso my husband does all the pumping. The internal stretch feels amazing and they usually cum together inside me.

Hey everyone! My wife and I are new here and not in the LS persay. We have no experience with other couples other than a drunken night camping when we had sex in the same tent as our friends while they were having sex also. We have talked about this for a long time and we are wanting to venture out to try new things. We’re going on a cruise next month (May ‘19) and we’re thinking about trying to find another female or couple to play with, soft swap etc. Does anyone have any advice on ways to spot other LS couples, and to subtly bring up the topic? We will be going with another married couple but they are vanilla (I’ve learned many new terms browsing these threads lol). Any info is helpful. Thanks in advance!

I notice that a lot of people on line say no to meeting. Age, attraction, they don’t swing, it could be a lot of things. But for people who want to have sex with others, do not see a lot of flexibility. Others find the same?

My wife and I have been talking about swapping with one of our couple friends. She is a sexual woman and has said she wants to fuck other men. However she is not ok with me fucking another chick. She say that it is bc I haven't had much sex and I don't know what's out there and might leave her. How can I convince her that should this happens I'm not going to leave her.

And then there’s Alec Baldwin’s SNL skit on his delicious Schweddy Balls. Here’s the link on You Tube:

Maybe this helps, maybe I'm missing the point a little bit: For us, she had a high libido and understood the appeal, but had never really had recreational casual sex and had a lot of background baggage about sex and romance going together. I was the more experienced partner by far and she was pretty skeptical that most of the women in my past weren't important. It wasn't until we actually tried soft swap that it clicked with her that not all sex is about romance. Even then, she was kind of in your wife's position that she's more confident about fucking but was hesitant about me fucking - and we're OK with that. We just set some boundaries and enjoy our opportunities where they come up. It doesn't have to be a 100% egalitarian deal as long as you're both on the same page about what you're doing and having your own kind of fun.

You know the more I read through this we have all at the beginning probably had such feelings. You will get over it. I recall such with my SO. She does not like to talk dirty but did so with a mutual friend during a threesome. She does not like giving oral sex but was ordered to clean up the same friend, his cock dripping with cum and she did. Anal... yepp went through the same. While I am not really into that I would try it, never had the had but he did , asked her and she said yes... he f-ed in the ass and came in her.

I actually did that a few years back. Probably not the smartest move but man,what a rush. I had a little skirt on which was perfect. After losing my top and bra, the boys went wild when I slid my panties down. The other amateurs stopped with their top. When I opened my legs for the guys next to the stage, I thought my husband was going to go into cardiac arrest! We left shortly after and I rode him in the parking lot just to release myself - awesome.experience

The latest episode (#73) of the "Swinger Diaries" podcast has a segment on Desire RM vs Pearl. Recorded at RM.

My two big leaps were continuing to have sex with my ex-fiance Red while dating a new guy David (who became my husband) and beginning to have sex with him as well. Although I felt guilty because of my fairly strict Catholic upbringing, I didn't feel guilty about it because of them. I was confiding in Red and told him about David, while David figured it out and was OK with it and even encouraged me. Instead of guilt, I felt liberated and like I was getting what I deserved. Do you have a Lesbian side? My second leap was about two years later, letting David have sex with other women. I don't know why, I was crazy jealous but wanted him to do it. Even though the jealousy remained just as strong with me, then I couldn't stop, wanting to watch and participate. This eventually led to me having several Lesbian relationships. I still like and need men, but the feelings among us women (in addition to David, Red and me in our poly family there are two other women) is deeper and stronger than what we have for our guys. We've had children together by these men, nursed each other's children and are raising them together. Red and David are wonderful fathers and support us in every way, but they also understand and don't resent our feelings.

To me being naked isn't necessarily about sex, although sex does usually involve nakedness. I enjoy being naked in European spas, not to show off but to enjoy no clothes along with other people, especially when the weather is nice enough to be outside. Some (many?) of the guys (and some of the women) are probably checking out the bodies, but it is surreptitious so the atmosphere is nonsexual. If I show off sexually, it is a prelude to intercourse and doesn't last long. I don't mind if any of the others watch so long as they are sensitive to not breaking our rythm. (I had a thread on about where me and others in our poly family have a pretty much "watch each other have sex" soft swap, but no one seemed interested, so I stopped updating)

I have a hard time keeping the Ms. clothes on...it's just about anything (not just tequila) and her clothes fall off...and I don't see the problem. Girls just wanna have fun...and if they think having fun involves being naked, who am I to complain?

Desires is like Disneyland only for adults...no matter when you go it's hard to have a bad time. Certain groups MAY make the experience better for you, but you are going to have a good time as long as you are open to having a good time.

Really depends on the time and place. We found one of our first times was it just clicked like those old parties that you imagined could not be better and other times it does not. Often my wife is surrounded by a number of suitors, sometimes their lady leads, likely to please their husband. Some guys are porno-stache guys while others are well just nice. Really depends...

Although seeing a man or woman play partner place a hand or lips on my wife's breasts and nipples is ordinary, it still turns me on. Enjoy the experiences along the way of your journey!

You should have tried amateur night at a strip club. My wife is not an exhibitionist, but did it once with some girlfriends in college.

Before you book the LS cruise I recommend either a visit to a club or start looking for matches on swinger sites. Subscribe to the site for three months and see who might fit particularly someone local. After correspondence and even some phone or online calls, schedule a coffee or a adult beverage—one hour. If things click you can schedule a real date for soft swap, full, same room swap, separate room swap, whatever. At a club go just to see and meet, not to party. See how the vibe and the people fit. The thing about a LS cruise for rookies is that if there are any bumps the ship can be very tiny. Also, chat with folks here and read up. Talk through things and set boundaries such as contact with other players between dates, play without your spouse.

Just have fun and don't push anything. There are many times that I'm not interested in having anyone join us. One of the things I like about our vlubsnis that I have a forum. We love fucking for an audience. I love watching the voyeurs with my legs spread and him inside me. Makes me cum every time.

Q: How do I invite/let others know it's ok to talk/touch her (with her permission of course). The easiest way is for her to start a conversation, flirt. First, she picks out a 'target.' She goes up to him, similes, maybe wets her lips, toys with her hair. You said she wore an unbuttoned shirt - she could play with the front, giving the guy a glimpse of boob, maybe even a nipple. And she can touch him on the arm or wherever she feels comfortable. At that point he'll probably touch her back, and the touches get more intimate until . . . If you and she wait to be approached, it could be a long night. Best of luck.

After we first talked about it and agreed that my wife could play around, she had two pair of balls in her court. She definitely took advantage of both.