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Half the fun is telling each other what we did and how it felt. I go crazy as she describes another man cumming inside her. It is the hottest thing she could do--describe the feeling to me. She also goes crazy when I tell her how the other woman clutches me when she feels me cumming inside her. We both do it bare, and only with people we trust so STDs are not a major concern but the lust and thrill is real.

"I've concluded that for guys ... it isn't that they love the idea of another guy fucking ... their woman/wife ... it's just that they want to get pussy too" My wife and I swing and we also have MFM threesomes where we have a gentleman over for her. I'm not interested in sex with a man. I love it, I get to watch her get satisfied, that's my incentive.

I am not very informed about the Bible or the various stories, but I do wonder about the actions and subsequent consequences of those who were involved in the early formation of "the Church" that eventually became a lot of churches. The culture of monotheism that became Christianity (and others) borrowed from others (Christmas trees, anyone??) but incorporated the biases of the early founders so we now have the consequences of celibacy impacting the lives of (primarily) women and children in today's world. Inasmuch as churchgoers look at women as equals, don't stone anybody and look to improve lives, I'm all in. When they pick at what women can wear, how they should act in public and endorse the actions of men who act like animals, I'm out. Then you get to specific, personal behaviors and preferences, like swinging. I would expect it is not approved by any major religion, but when it is practiced by people like those on this Board where it is consensual, care is given to the ability to say no, and a good time is had by all...why aren't we seeing religions on board for such an inexpensive, safe and pleasure-delivering activity? Sometimes I think the psychotics play a role that is way too prominent.

I'd never use "slut" to describe my wife. She (like me) enjoys sex--a lot--and with different men. That just makes her a sensual provocative woman and it turns me on thoroughly.

Frankly, it has sounded like pure BS from the start...

I have never chosen a partner based on breast size. The female half of the first couple we played with apologized for her "small breasts" and I looked and sure enough they were smallish (I had not really noticed or cared). By the time we are getting naked, we have a pretty good idea of what size your breasts are and are obviously OK with it or we would not be getting naked. Maybe she wanted me to apologize for my average penis since she had no way of knowing what she was getting ahead of time. Ny wife told me he was bigger, but he rushed things and did not take care of her, so bigger was not better in this case. Byt

I've concluded that for guys, including my husband, it isn't that they love the idea of another guy fucking and cumming their woman/wife and getting sloppy seconds, it's just that they want to get pussy too. If one of the other women is available, he'll just go to her first and tell me "Have a good time Petra, catch you later." I do confess, however, I feel the same way if there are more women than guys. I'll more than gladly take seconds.

"You need to decide for yourself how much time and effort you want to put into flirting with someone online that might not result in an actual encounter." True. I once figured that of the people who sent us an initial email, we met about 6% in person. A very low percentage. But . . . because of the vetting we did in the emails (between 6 and 10 back and forth before we said 'let's meet') we played with 80-90% of the people we met in a bar. Yeah, you gotta do the work. Yeah, for us it's worth it.

To some people the idea is enough to satisfy them. Just talking, or back and forth posting, is enough to fulfill their fantasies. Other people want to go beyond talk. You need to decide for yourself how much time and effort you want to put into flirting with someone online that might not result in an actual encounter.

We have had good luck with online meeting. When we start messaging we put our intentions out there and if we mesh we set a meet. For some unknown reason something ALWAYS comes up the first meet for us. Either on our or their end. However we, or they, are able to make the next meeting and we are able to see if there is that 4 way connection. I guess we have just been lucky.

Singles are welcome. About 100 bucks plus your membership. Never been there solo, but there are plenty of men there on a weekend night. Some nice, some assholes, like always...

All our MFM have became twosomes at some point, don't get me wrong practice has helped me to develop a multitasking skill but the closest I get to climax and in order to have a good orgasm I need to focus, concentrate in only one person. My husband has no problem moving away and watch me perform, he usually reaches for his phone an take a couple of pictures/videos.

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I don't think there is a way to know. I think I'm a very normal looking woman but I did meet a couple walking in our neighborhood a few weeks ago and she was wearing a sls t shirt. I didn't mention that we swing or that I'm a hotwife. I have worn a mfm necklace but nobody notices it. R