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Again the kissing question. I’m sorry I just don’t understand the fascination with kissing. I kiss everybody. If I am going to put my mouth in much more intimate places, I am going to kiss you too. My pet peeve is those who won’t kiss after oral sex. Are you kidding me?

There has been plenty of discussions about whether couples allow kissing of other people while having sex (which we have no problem with), and about kissing your own spouse while he or she is having sex with other people (which we find loving and intimate). Recently toward the end of playing with two other regular couples, the situation developed where I was fucking my own wife missionary and she was sucking another guy, trying to get him up. It wasn't successful, so he started kissing her deeply and massaging her breasts. I've done the reverse with my wife many times, but this was a new thrill, watching them be intimate while I was just the workhorse trying to get her off. When she did come she pulled and hugged him hard. Anyone else try this?

Funny to note that when someone calls "troll", the troll disappears.

Kissing after oral is hot. Love the lingering taste and smell.

We don’t have an official club. Our parties, at least the ones we attend, are based around the college football season. We are grateful for our friends that always invite us to stay at their house. Most of our parties are there. I think we travel the furthest and we always are trying to think up things to bring for both our hosts and our tailgate. A stop at Costco to pick up all sorts of chips and dips. A case or two of craft beer. The one thing that everyone waits for is our real bagels from a real bagel baker. There is plenty of beer and booze from others and all sorts of tailgating food. We are the only one to bring bagels and cream cheese. Lox from Costco must be a delicacy to our friends. It’s an ongoing joke. I know that there are those that don’t chip in. Nothing is said to them. We just talk about them lol. I usually stay to clean up. I always offer to put the towels and sheets in the washer. My mom taught me to always offer help.

It’s not as easy as everyone thinks. On the sites like SLS there are plenty of fakes, flakes, and freaks to sort through. There are some quality single men, also cheaters too. Some just treat single women as an easy lay. Many will say what you want to hear just to get what they want. It does take time though to find a quality FWB. This is a great site for advice. Don’t put up with any bs. When I am interested in someone I suggest a public meeting clarifying I don’t play on a first meet.

We will be on this cruise (May 12th) also!

Pretty much so I we see it too. Our expectations (erotic) are that when SO let´s him between her legs she is rready to accept his seed. Very hot thinking of his sperm swimming around inside her and her natural feelings.

Laura once told me, "Darling, if i spread my legs for a man, I've already decided to take his cum. If I didn't want him to come inside me, I wouldn't have his cock in my pussy and my tongue in his mouth." I think (if she'd had a different opinion)our reclamation afterward wouldn't have been as meaningful or as intense.

Frankly, it has sounded like pure BS from the start...

You are on the way. At some point one of you is going to have an uncontrollable urge to have sex with someone you see. That will be a life changing event--all positive I think

In a nutshell time: If this story is true and you're uncomfortable, uneasy, and weirded out by this contact, your husband should be protecting you rather than standing there spanking his johnson while you're being groped. They're BOTH abusing you, her for the unwanted contact and him for enjoying it and allowing it to continue. On a side note, what she's doing is actually a criminal offense in most states. Its called Indecent Assault and in some states it's a felony.

Yes, it was here on the Swingers' Board. https://www.swingersboard.com/forums/topic/61759-full-swap-swingers-playing-soft-swap-by-choice/

We have two guys that do this with us. It works well if the guy with the bigger cock lays on his back. I get on top of him face down on all fours. He penetrates me and gets me going. Next my husband takes me from behind. He presses his cock down so he can slide inside me. The guy on the bottom doesn't move muchso my husband does all the pumping. The internal stretch feels amazing and they usually cum together inside me.

I have never encountered such behavior in a man before so I don’t believe it is normal. What is not normal is you’re allowing this. You two cannot have really great sex without you being degraded? That is another kink altogether.

How about saying 'touch me again and I'll have you arrested!'. Nobody should be touched by anyone they don't want touching them. Your husband may find it erotic, but he should be defending you instead of encouraging you to do something you don't enjoy and is damaging your reputation. End this NOW.

So, exactly why do you allow "creepy" people to touch you?

A few users on this site stated that single men bring nothing of equal value for a couple. Can the same be said that non-HWP wives bring nothing of equal value for physically fit attractive charming single men who can easily get young childless attractive HWP single women?

Had that experience a few times. There is a different & interesting dynamic when the woman is not attached to either male. But heres a question have any of these MFM encounters been with bi sexual males. That is true three way sex?

What about 3 singles in a MFM? Maybe I’m splitting hairs, but that’s my experience. I love it.

Never tried but I've always wanted to...

Another post, so we're up-to-date. Yesterday, Friday, Clair and I went to their place in the evening. (They have no children, so their place is a bit of a retreat.) Clair was the one questioning the wisdom of doing this soft play, but Red and I were positive about it and curiosity got the best of her. Clair is the most reserved among us in the family, but when she's in the mood and the clothes come off... The biggest thing was that it was fun for him - three women, all of whom he could touch and one (his wife) he could fuck. He enjoyed seeing and touching Clair, she has larger, nice breasts and curves without being fat or chubby, and is blonde so she was the focus. We got them to do things other than their usual "straight to missionary and it's over" by rewarding their good behavior - oral, doggy, cowgirl - by allowing them to touch us and having Lesbian sex in front to them. She even sucked him up so they could go at it a second time, although neither of them had a second O. It went on longer too this time, over two hours, and we all, including Clair, had fun. We left saying, "Until next time."

More catching up: I called her Friday evening a week ago after my solo soft play with them and all was good with them, so much so that they wanted to have another get-together. I agreed that would be good, but next time I needed to have sex too with Red being there for me. (That was true, along with me wanting to exhibit not only my physical attributes as I had done before, but also my ability to perform. I also wanted to see them up their game from a quick missionary fuck.) She said that it would be OK, but wanted to discuss it with him (I sensed that she was totally ok with having Red there and us fucking alongside them, but he was probably a little reluctant. I feared that this might be getting to be too much, too fast for him.) She said let's not wait for the next weekend, and we decided that Tuesday would work. Summary - We girls got laughing and stripping and dancing pretty quickly as the guys watched. Then she and I moved to undress our respective guys. Then the first sign of trouble, not that he was afraid that Red would move on her (and that she might accept), but they were both erect and Red was considerably bigger than he is. I would say that he is half an inch less than average and Red is an inch or so above average, so put together it seemed significant. But she really shined in making him feel like she really, really wanted him (she did), and playing with him and I let him feel me. Red and I started with our foreplay, and they watched us doing variations of oral, Red fingering me then they started fucking. While Red and I kept up the foreplay they got into missionary, both quickly had their orgasms then they seriously started watching us. Red still han't yet put his dick in my vagina so we were no where near finished. They watch us go through what we usually do, female superior (I like that word better than cowgirl), doggy, and then missionary (where we both orgasmed) as if it were a circus. And the second sign of trouble, Red had me put my legs together, inside his, and put on a show by pulling out and pumping his first squirt up my chest, hitting under my chin. Red completed his ejaculation into my mouth and I then showed off rolling it around with my tongue before swallowing. As previously told in my post on trying to become pregnant with Red's child after the first was David's, Red pumps out a tremendous amount of semen, unfortunately there aren't too many swimmers in there and those that are get diluted. In any event, it was clear that she was impressed and he felt belittled. A short time later, Red had me suck him up again and he went into my bum. The way they watched told me that this was terra nova for them. We sat casually naked in the afterglow for a while talking, them still feeling on me and me on her, then dressed and went home. I spoke with her the next day and she told me they had a great time and he thought it was fun, hoped they were worth watching. He did bring up his dick size to her and that even though we couldn't see it, he didn't cum the way Red does, nor does he a second time. I said everything was great, besides I'm the one with the tiny tits. She said they're ready for next time.

OK, I'm a week behind on what's happening with them, so - about last Friday. It was fun. It was even fun in the days beforehand at home thinking about it. The short version: I met them at their home after work last Friday. We talked for a bit then I asked to take a shower, came out with the towel around me. I took it down from my top and tied it around my waist, then asked her to take off her top, she did; asked him to do the same and he did. I left the towel on me and asked her to take off her pants and she did. I asked if they wanted me to drop the towel, both said yes, but I said he had to go first. He was reluctant. She said, "Oh, come on" and I opened my towel at the side so he could see a bit of my ass. She went over and started to help him off with his pants. (Damn, was I getting wet.) Once he had his underwear off I dropped the towel and turned around in front of them 360. Then again with my arms up over my head, then with my legs slightly parted. I kept dealing it - want me on all fours? She had to play with his dick. Want me to spread my legs open? He had to start finger fucking her. Want to touch my breasts, my legs, my ass? They had to fuck. They did, so I let them. I let them rub on me (except my cunt) as they fucked missionary. She came, he came and it was over too soon, in about an hour. I dressed and left. By this time I was really horny. Knowing that both David and Red wouldn't be home yet, I called Becky, found that Frank was there so I stopped by for a very satisfying quickie, then went home. More to follow.