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I prefer to give people the benefit of the doubt, especially when they're suspected of behaviour so shitty that it would turn me right off playing with them. Mr. intuition and I prefer playing in separate rooms, so we wouldn't likely run into this exact scenario. But if it became apparent to me that Mr. Sexypants was going out of his way to make Mr. intuition feel like shit, or trying to compete with him in any way, you can bet he'd be set straight in a hurry. That's not cool. Not sexy. Definitely NOT okay with me. And Mr. intuition wouldn't have to say a word; I'd make sure the jackass understood in no uncertain terms exactly who was running the fucking show here. And it's not him. He's there by Mr. intuition's permission ONLY, and if he can't get on board with that, the door is thataway. And don't you worry about me, I have a magic wand.

I have a fantasy of my wife being with other men, or at least another man. I would love to join, but this would be all about her. I couldn’t figure out why I had this fantasy, but realized I don’t have the confidence in myself to give her what she needs. I’m averaged sized and averaged stamina. Our sex is good, but I think she deserves better. She is a great wife and mom, she needs to be fucked better than I think I can provide. Is this a common reasoning to get into the scene? We joke about it on occasion, and she doesn’t seem super against the idea, but she doesn’t really continue the conversation or do anything about my offers to allow it. She plays the more dominant role in the sex life, so I can’t really tell her her what to do. Her usual response is “you’d like that wouldn’t you?”. I think she deserves it, and I think she’d enjoy it. That said, she is kind of shy with this stuff and I can’t really get her to open up about it. Any suggestions as to how to get the conversation started? Just tell her I think she deserves a better fuck and we should find her another man? She is getting less and less shy (getting naked with bedroom windows open, fucking in front window), do I just keep being patient? Thanks

I would NEVER NEVER NEVER make Ms Gold do anything I thought she even remotely didn't like. That he is enjoying your HUMILIATION (which is exactly what it is) and knows it is damaging your reputation and standing in the community just says he doesn't respect or loves you. This is nothing more than a cheap thrill for him but he thinks it is more important than your feelings. THAT is what makes him a creep. STOP THIS NOW and start working on fixing your relationship. If he thinks this little of you, then the relationship is in dire straights.

Wake him up and either send him home or let him sleep elsewhere. It was rude of him to presume he could just crash in your bed.

There has been plenty of discussions about whether couples allow kissing of other people while having sex (which we have no problem with), and about kissing your own spouse while he or she is having sex with other people (which we find loving and intimate). Recently toward the end of playing with two other regular couples, the situation developed where I was fucking my own wife missionary and she was sucking another guy, trying to get him up. It wasn't successful, so he started kissing her deeply and massaging her breasts. I've done the reverse with my wife many times, but this was a new thrill, watching them be intimate while I was just the workhorse trying to get her off. When she did come she pulled and hugged him hard. Anyone else try this?

Ok, MichiganCouple's question in the single male forum brought another question to my mind so I thought I'd post it here. There's a lot of talk about how people won't swing with someone who is married but playing alone. What about a swinging couple who swings seperately as well as together. If you know the couple and know that both are ok with each other playing seperately, would you then play with them (assuming you are willing to do 3somes at all)? Or would you still rather have a straight up single person with no attachments?

We opened our pictures for another couple. I’m 5’7”, 185 lbs. at age 61. Not an Adonis or marathon runner, a little heavy, but not horribly so. We opened our pictures for a couple where the woman is 5’8”. The husband said they don’t want to meet because the wife likes men taller than her and “in good fit shape.” I’m not saying that I am in good fit shape, but is that a polite way to decline? Is it me or is that harsh? I said “be careful, I take kick boxing lessons. No problem, your call.” He didn’t get it. I may be short and fat, but they may not meet my intellectual criteria.

I've been on both ends also. It's one of those details that makes playing fun.

"I don’t have the confidence in myself to give her what she needs . . . I think she deserves better." You're half right, and that's good! She doesn't deserve better, but she does deserve *more* assuming she wants it. No one person can give another person all they want, all they could desire. I have no doubts your wife would describe you as a good lover. Don't worry about that. The LifeStyle is all about providing sexual pleasure with other people; the participant(s) gets something different, something fun. My wife and I swap with other couples, and also we have MFMs. When we swap the other women have a lot of fun with me, so I know I'm at least an adequate lover. But when we bring in another man for her, I love watching her squirm with him as he treats her to stimulations and positions that don't occur to me. And when I later try those with her, it's hit and miss . . . not everybody is the same. Now, the last question: Does your wife want different? That's up to her, and if she doesn't that's fine, isn't it? To discover what she (and you) are interested in, I suggest you both take the mojoupgrade.com quiz - it's very revealing. Best of luck

And I agree with you. I've had two babies pass that way and still don't want to try it. (BTW, being tight has a lot to do with your muscles, not the vag itself.) I'm unable to orgasm by anal alone, although I'll do it every so often if one of my guys wants it. But pussy/anal DP does feel good for me both physically and psychologically.

I've know folks who were caught at work. Hotel rooms just aren't that expensive.

Golly. Back in my community college days, even the adjuncts had private offices to get banged out in. Maybe they didn't have health insurance, but they had doors that locked.

Oral after intercourse is hotter, especially if it's another couple that just finished intercourse. Then kissing.

Mixed emotions after the first one. I was with a previous boyfriend and it was really all about him. We belonged to a nudist club that was very vanilla all day and then completely hedonistic at night. He enjoyed showing me off during the day and introducing me around. I was 24 and definitely got attention. My first involved 8 guys of mixed ages. It started out as a card game with me serving drinks naked. My boyfriend asked how I would feel about letting a couple of them touch me. I was horny as hell from being naked all day so Inwas all in. I sat on the couch and they took turns feeling my tits and rubbing my pussy. Eventually one guy started giving me oral and i was in heaven. As I leaned back a guy started jerking his cock by my face to I took him in my mouth. Another guy added his big cock to the mix and soon I was sucking three cocks. I knew what was next so i got on all fours so they would have easy access to my open pussy. As i concentrated on sucking their cocks I could feel them taking turns sliding their cocks in me. They would pump me hard for. minute or two and then switch. It was crazy, i didn’t look at them I could just feel their cocks in me. A couple of them were bigger than what I was used to - I loves they way they felt. After I had my first orgasm, I could hear them as they moaned and I stared to feel their cum landing on my ass and on my back. One guy was seated so I got on top of him so I could face the other waiting guys. Another guy got in front and worked his cock inside me as well. I was wet and loose at this point so I easily took both of their cocks inside me. I was sucking cocks and taking loads of cum on my face and in my mouth. I was so taken with all the guys and the whole experience that I wasn’t sure where my boyfriend was or if he was even there. Afterwards I felt pretty weird coming back. It definitely rocked my world but it didn’t happen again until I was married. I liked being used and I definitely loved being the center of attention - still do. 8 is bit much, but three or four fun guys is perfect for the occasional slutty workout at this point in my life and relationship.

My wife and I are the same, we have not done anything yet in view of another couple, We want to start that way as well, would you maybe want to chat and trade pics? My wife and I, are in our mid and upper 30s age wise.

Wildest fantasy? My wife wants to do a creampie line up (when a bunch of guys cum inside a woman one after the other with no clean up in between).

Being taken by several men at once (gangbang). Until I had it fulfilled it was the idea of as many guys as possible. Now that I've experienced the reality, it's more like just 2 maybe 3 guys giving me pleasure and me returning it as best I can.

She is tight so we really are not sure how practical it is to be "doubly-impaled" as you put it. One comment we have gotten is "ouch". The fantasy of it still kicks ass!