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I’m a bit of an exhibitionist. But as much as I enjoy it when people are turned on by watching me perform with a partner, I would feel terrible if I were seen by someone who was wasn’t looking to watch people having sex and was offended by it. That’s why I only perform for others at clubs or parties.

Talk through everything you feel with her. & more important listen carefully to her, ask questions if you are not sure. Heres my other thought. You have known this woman just six months? Hardly long enough to know her well, or her you. There are many things that can sink a relationship, some less pleasant than this. From what you say she is very sexual, adventurous, & I'm guessing she is going to try all this with or without you. Talking her out of it may not stick for long, and leave her frustrated. My other recommendation is you give it a try. Be adventerous, experiment, find out the truth about yourself/her/and if this might be for you or not. If it does not work out then its time to move on. If it does - have fun...

We have a question about Viagra, Cialis, other Help get it up medications and/or supplements. There is no issue going for one round, but he is interested in going more than one round. If a person who does not have ED takes one of these types of medications/supplements, what effect does it have? Will it make them even harder, last longer, be able to go even though they have already came? Our favorite line in the commercials is "if you have an erection lasting longer than four hours, call a doctor" Doctor? Heck with that, have her call all her friends!

The problem with leaving the curtains open is what if a child should happen by . . .

Wow! You really said that? everyone is different, not every man has the kinks and preferences you have....and the example of you and your wife doing things with others you seldom do together is specific to your couple...not all couples are ok with trying new things with others first. Questioning anybody's feelings is absurd.

Congratulations to your husband and you both. Instead of creating drama you made pleasure for you both. Well done.

Your relationship is young and you sound young and relatively inexperienced. Your g/f wants to move in this direction,you should find a way to wrap your head around it and do it together, willingly, playfully and as a full partner with an open mind. If you don't, she'll eventually explore this stuff without you. Or, she'll dump you in favor of a guy who WILL join her sexploration. Maybe swinging isn't for you, but you'll never know until you give it shot but it has to be a sincere shot or she'll know and think less of you. We were a bit more than a year into our relationship the first time I saw my wife boinking another guy, I was a bit troubled by it but watching her WAS very, very hot (like porn would be it you knew the players). Plus, I was getting one hell of a blow job from the guys naked and very skilled wife. We had an hours ride home from the club afterwards. We talked non stop all the way back and made clear to one another that it was "just sex". When we got home, we stripped off in the garage (smoking was permitted in clubs then so our clothing smelled), took a shower together and then had amazing reclamation sex and we've never looked back except to remember the erotic times we've shared. 16 years later, we're still firmly together and still playing with friends. As I've said before. swinging is not for the faint of heart but if you can get past your own insecurities and the societal and religious mores we grow up with, you could be in for the time of your life.

Welcome Jose. This is a great place to learn about swinging. In your situation, I think I'd define it as sexual exploration. Your gf is going to do this. You may or may not be the guy on her arm at the time. She wants the experience to be with a stranger. One reason for that is trying to avoid a bond. She is comfortable with a club, same thing. She is looking for sex toys with a pulse. She way or may not be happy with just a woman. Experience tells me that sexual desires tend to escalate in the beginning. You may end up seeing her with another man. Be ready to not enjoy that. No advise on how to handle that one. It may be a rough ride but ya know what, fuck it. All you can do is learn. And get hurt, expect that going into this as I'm sure you are fully aware. Pain fades, you're young. Regrets suck.

I prefer to give people the benefit of the doubt, especially when they're suspected of behaviour so shitty that it would turn me right off playing with them. Mr. intuition and I prefer playing in separate rooms, so we wouldn't likely run into this exact scenario. But if it became apparent to me that Mr. Sexypants was going out of his way to make Mr. intuition feel like shit, or trying to compete with him in any way, you can bet he'd be set straight in a hurry. That's not cool. Not sexy. Definitely NOT okay with me. And Mr. intuition wouldn't have to say a word; I'd make sure the jackass understood in no uncertain terms exactly who was running the fucking show here. And it's not him. He's there by Mr. intuition's permission ONLY, and if he can't get on board with that, the door is thataway. And don't you worry about me, I have a magic wand.

What Gold said!! Swinging is not for the faint of heart or those with a volatile relationship.

Saw my doc for a check up the other day and asked for a refill on Viagra that he had gave me a couple years before (recreational use in practice). He gave the script for 100 mg and we discussed that I cut it with a pill cutter because I respond well to a lower dose and he was fine with it. I mentioned that V use sometimes gives me a headache and asked did he have any trial doses for Cialis. He said no but wrote me a script for Cialis (20 mg) and said try both and see which one works better. Very easy conversation, talk to your Doc!

It’s not as easy as everyone thinks. On the sites like SLS there are plenty of fakes, flakes, and freaks to sort through. There are some quality single men, also cheaters too. Some just treat single women as an easy lay. Many will say what you want to hear just to get what they want. It does take time though to find a quality FWB. This is a great site for advice. Don’t put up with any bs. When I am interested in someone I suggest a public meeting clarifying I don’t play on a first meet.

I’m a very dominant woman who enjoys MMF bedroom fun. My husband is a bottom so I find a safe top to play with both of us. I found a sexually safe partner cute and hung with real stamina. He allows me to dominate him including discipline and using his cock for my pleasure. My slave/husband likes him and willingly sucks his cock and take it in the ass. Our buddy loves sucking off my husband rendering him useless temporarily freeing him up to fuck us both. My husband is straight but will do anything sexual as long as I feel it is safe. I love helping him bend over and feeding a hard cock into his ass. I never let the guys out of the bedroom without a load of come in their bellies. Our friend can fuck pussy and ass giving us both orgasms and will voluntarily allow me to fuck him with my strap-on. Having a safe partner is prime.

Prices for these pills are outrageous in the US. We get 20 mg generic cialis from a mail order pharmacy in Canada. It figures out to about $3 a pill. I believe viagra is available too at a similar savings. There is no difference in the effect that we've seen between the $20 US tab and the online version.

Very simple to ask your doctor. Simply say, "I'd like to see if an ED medicine would be right for me." My PCP never even bothered asking me why, he simply wrote me a prescription, gave me free samples. Your doctor is used to this - that's her/his business.

Isn't that what it is all about? Having fun and going with what feels right at the time? Don't know if I would ever do it, but I say that as long as all involved are okay with it...what's the harm.