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I know that some guys are concerned about the size of their member being adequate for potential swinging partners. Are there many guys out there that are not necessarily concerned about the size of their manhood, but instead are concerned about a smaller "load"? Does amount you are able to cum matter when you play? If it does, do you try to increase the amount you are able to produce by using some sort of supplement? Does it matter to swingers how much a play partner can cum?

I was married for a long time and she never felt the need to measure it till we got some swingers ad books. She started reading the ads, most said males 8 to12inches and 3 inches thick. I showed her the thread here how to measure it. Next day she comes home and said drop your shorts, as I have said before soft it looks small being I'm uncut. She just did girth, it was 2.5 hard. It was 5.8 long. She told her friends and they wanted to see a picture of my cock. When she told me that I kinda got excited when she checked it again it was 6 inches long and 6 around only this time we took a picture of it.

We actually host voyeur parties where two or three couples or groups take center stage and the rest of us watch them. It’s an incredible rush to be the center of attention. The other couples and singles masturbate or play while they watch. Very hot to see them aroused while watching you.

From what I'm reading, you are both on board. You've seen his reaction to you being fondled by strangers. His reaction would be the same with you being piledrivin by some big dick stud. Is the actual event as erotic as the fantasy? Well, depends. Most fantasies like yours include a nameless faceless figure as your bull. In reality, its a guy. He has a job, responsibilities, fears, performance anxiety, just like you. So how erotic your time is, depends on how the bull acts, and your chemistry with him. Once you start, you may not want to stop. There is a lot that can happen between you agreeing to do this and 5 years down the road. But no matter what, it's actually pretty easy to put the brakes on. After a few dozen men, you may find it's not as hot anymore and you are ready to move on to something else. Lastly...enjoy!

No, you and Scott are not ‘bad people.’ You two simply have fetishes. You are an exhibitionist, he has the desire to see his woman pleasured by other men, and may have the cuckold fetish. If you also go a little further to actually having sex with another man while Scott watches, it’s just a furtherance of your fetishes. A fetish isn’t ‘bad’ until it hurts another person, IMHO. Who are you hurting? Not yourself, not Scott, and certainly not the other man. If you want to bring another man into your bedroom and he’s willing, why not? All of you are adults, you can run your life the way you want. Go for it! As far as definitions go, don’t worry about them. For myself, I see ‘swinging’ and ‘the LifeStyle’ to be any situation where a committed couple has willing sexual experiences with third parties. So ‘hotwife’ and ‘open relationships’ and even MFMF are simply subsets of swinging. (I know, I know, some people will disagree with that, perhaps violently. Show me the terms in Merriam-Webster, and I’ll conform to that.) If you’re enjoying something, what do you care what other people call it? Best of luck.

There's a difference between 'taking one for the team' and being less excited than your SO. I would never (nor would I want my wife to) have an interaction with someone I really didn't want to. But if the person I'd be with is less attractive than the person my wife would be screwing, I'd still be with someone that's somewhat attractive. That's not 'taking one for the team,' IMHO. For me the bar is, 'would I have sex with this person if my wife wasn't here?'

Sorry for the delay in updating, a few mods were needed to ensure smooth sailing I have uploaded a file pack on Thinyiverse, for those who dont know, Thinyiverse is a website where anybody can upload and share 3D designs of practically anything for others to download and share. This is the link, https://www.thingiverse.com/thing:3554455. This the the unit shown covered in a chestnut leather with polished brass fittings. Now having this platform, my intention is to drawer up some other mods perhaps to be used with it. If anybody ends up building one, PLEASE let me know how you go and share photos of the finished product, I'm very curious. Comments are very welcome Regards, Jands

If the end of the man’s erect penis is touching her cervix, she could ask him to put it in just a little.

Well, I am only about 5 and 1/2 inches and not particularly thick. However, Ann swears what I do have fits her perfectly and she always cums several times during lovemaking. I love to eat pussy, too. In fact, if I had to choose between intercourse and eating pussy I would choose oral anyday, anytime, anywhere.