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Seattle, good. Seems like she cleared that hurdle easily. So, where do you go from here? She's already into soft-swapping, the question is how much do you want to play? I could easily see this going towards MFM, either soft or hard, depending on both of your preferences. You're entering into a great stage of life. Best of luck.

Seattle, sounds like you had fun, the kind of fun you wanted to have. Obviously, nothing happened that she (and you,) didn't want to have happen. Sounds like you're on your way. One question, why did she feel guilty?

Recently tried trimix. Urologist recommended it. It’s actually better for performance anxiety then Cialis or viagra. Dr knows why I asked for it. Don’t really have ED. in fact, don’t need anything when with my wife, but let’s face it, erections aren’t as good in your 59 s as they are in you’re 39s. Wife and I like to play with couples younger then us so I like to know I’m going to be at peak performance. One shot which is painless and within 20 min, a very solid erection that lasts for a .ong time even after ejaculation. Dosing is a little tricky as I did end up in the Er twice which was not nearly as a big deal as the commercials make it sound. All they did was give me a tiny injection of a vaso constrictor and I was down within 10 min. But trimix has no side effects like viagra and Cialis. Viagra gives me the worst headaches and stuffiness. For anyone who is miserable with ED or performance anxiety, I would suggest to at least talk to you’re urologist about trimix. By the way, could not find a single horror story on line about a 4 hr erection. That’s all for the makers of the drugs to cover their own ass. The horror stories are all about 10 hr or more and even that’s hard to find. Do some research and talk to your dr.

Yea, I’m not buying any of the post. Sorry, troll town!

I have to say, if my wife does something with someone else she does not do with me, I would be unhappy. I don't think it is fair to say you "Should" or "should" not feel anything. Feelings are feelings.

I'm not sure how to tell you how to work your way into the act of your wife being "fuck-licked" since that probably varies greatly from wife to wife. If my late wife is an example, I can assure you that you won't have to talk her into it the second time. So, if this is her fantasy, talk to her a lot. Explore ideas. Keep your eyes open for partners. We preferred couples but beware! You will have two women who won't have to be talked into it the second time. After we found that magic couple, Laura and I (and the other couple) found the following description worked best. A couch works better than a bed. Start with the women sitting on the couch with the men kneeling between their legs. Don't get in a hurry. Laura liked to have me start at the bottom of her slit, using my tongue to gently spread the labia sideways, slowing working myself up until the labia was spread widely along the length and above her clit, which would be standing erect and anxious. After the ladies have had enough of this (may take awhile) both of the men should sit on the couch and lean comfortably back while the ladies climb aboard. Laura liked to start out face to face with her chosen fucker. (She liked kissing.) Eventually, the fuckee-lickee would turn around into reverse cowgirl position and reinsert the fucker's penis. Both would spread their legs and the licker would kneel between them. I've never questioned my sexuality so I wasn't put off by working around my friend's penis to (once again) spread the labia away with my tongue until her clit was once again standing firm at the top, easily licked. One challenge to look out for at this stage is that the fucker's cock tends to slip out when the action becomes enthusiastic. This can be avoided by the licker pursing his lips and tongue around the clit while using his chin to hold the fucker's cock in place. The lady who is not "It" can amuse herself by alternately kissing the fucker and the lady who is "It." After a sufficient number of orgasms, which varies with individuals, the other lady can become "It" and the fucker and licker can exchange assignments. One very pleasant variation is for one of the ladies to be the licker. Laura was fond of this as well because, at the proper time, she could help herself to a treat of man-cream. Keep experimenting and report back to this forum.

I couldn't disagree more for me. I think shaved is much more arousing and beautiful. You get a much cleaner better view of the lips and inner labia. It makes for a much more beautiful and erotic sight. Pubic hair that is unruly and unkempt is just disgusting and sends a message that I am not well groomed and don't clean myself. Trimmed is better... Landing strips are venue better than that... But shaved completely clean and bare is just hot when you get to see that beautiful object unencumbered between a women's legs. I don't think there is anything more repulsive and just plain gross than a bunch of thick messy unkempt pubic hair. The good thing is that there are differing opinions and likes and dislikes for us all so we can all have what we want. If YOU like hair... Good for you... If you don't... Good for you too. You just have to find the right woman for you.