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I think it's because it's 'out of the ordinary.' The majority of people, both male and female, have had their ideas about sexuality shaped as children and teenagers by their parents, their peers, their church, television, etc. That's what's 'right' to them. So wives, if they're not going to be pure and monogamous, must be cheaters. There's simply no room for open marriages and hotwifing in their limited world view. By the same token in that world view any man who's wife cheats on him is a cuckold and less of a real man - because if he was a real man she'd be satisfied and wouldn't want to have sex with anyone else. In many men's views, if a married woman comes on to him a bar, he knows she needs sex because her husband isn't providing it. And then when she says, 'Oh, he's fine with me doing this, in fact he wants to be right there," it throws their world view and they don't know what to do. So they decline. Free Love!

My wife and I have recently met a couple who we really hit it off with both chemistry and compatibility all the way around. Our initial playtime was incredible and we've since met them again, which was equally as great. We discussed doing fun things together this summer and it really feels like the beginning of a great friendship. My wife asked me today if it were okay that she wants to keep talking to the other wife on a daily basis, or if that would be considered smothering. She's also trying to be mindful that she does not want this to go down an emotional love affair path. I know that is okay for some in the poly lifestyle, but we both agree we don't want to go down that road. So, my question is, should we allow some time between our communication or is it better to just let it flow naturally?

how do you know if your pussy is too big? I have seen lots of porn and most seem to have a little thing...comparitively that way, I have huge lips! Guys? what would you qualify as too big? I've always wondered, but now I need to know if I am going to share...wouldn't want to disappoint someone.

Adam, that was a VERY astute answer and right on the money!

Mr NC and I were just reflecting about our experiences over the last (almost) 2 years. IF it's a couples situation, and both men are aroused, not overly drunk, and in the mood, it can be an amazing time all-around! I consider myself to be a fun kinda gal - love to laugh, joke around, and just generally have a good time. But we've noticed that if laughter is involved, sometimes it causes another male partner to either completely lose interest, or become almost angry, to the point they don't want to continue. Literally, twice, I have had men use the phrase "You are laughing at me". No, no way, I am not laughing AT anyone - I am enjoying myself, having a good time, and I tend to laugh, giggle, and enjoy myself. Mr NC knows me well, and after all these years together we laugh at everything. I mean sexual or non-sexual, we just like to enjoy life and laugh. What makes laughter such a turn-off? Seriously, do I have to teach myself to be so serious and not laugh? Isn't sex supposed to be fun?

Real inches or internet inches?

Here is an idea that we are going to try this summer when traveling. We bought an SLS bumper sticker and put it onto a magnetic backer as we can not leave it on all the time. While staying in motels and campgrounds as we travel it will be interesting to see if we get and response.

I personally take offense to the notion that any guy who likes a bare pussy is some sort of deviant. In fact, I'll just cut to the chase and say it's bullshit. Is a guy who prefers the shaved head look trying to look like a newborn baby? No, for whatever reason, he just likes to shave the hair on his head because he prefers the way it looks or feels. Does seeing a guy with a bald head make you think of a baby? People shave their armpits, legs, faces, etc. and no one thinks a thing about it, it's just body hair. Pubic hair is no different, it's just hair, no special significance other than for some, removing it is their preference for appearance, feel, cleanliness, or whatever.

Hubby, David, will go down on me even if I come home messy. My lover, Red, doesn't like that so I always make sure I'm cleaned up before I see him. That's about as complicated as my life gets.

Couples that we know and get tested it's No condoms. We all talked about this before hand so nothing would be upsetting. especially when the night is over with and the excess wetness from semen is not something that our husbands or boyfriends would mind. Condoms do get messy and thrown around the 3 rooms so the next day is sort of a game...where is the condom? We all decided to Nix the sheath and enjoy each other naturally. So far its so nice to be like this.