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We've never participated in a gangbang, so can't offer any first hand experience there. I can say that like you, I would have felt uncomfortable in that situation too, even if I felt sure that being treated like that was something that I knew she wanted as part of the experience. It's just too far outside of "me" if that makes any sense. Now, if Mrs. cplnuswing wanted that, then I think I could do it just fine, but that's because I know her really well and so wouldn't have any of those qualms regarding: Is this what she wants, or is this what he wants? Is she really enjoying this, or is she just acting that way? Where's the line? This one is maybe a gray area, but I've always thought that the further away you get from the middle of the road on sex, the more incumbent it is on you to make sure that everyone involved is cool with everything and that get done up front, not during or after. Problem there is what is middle of the road for one is plain vanilla or totally over the top for others, so it's kind of a hard call to make. You also ask is this common in swinging, and to that I do have personal experience, and we've never encountered feeling like we were in a situation like that. So, I would take this as sort of an outlier, and use it as a learning experience to try to feel out a scene a little more before getting involved. Swinging encounters that don't go as well as hoped almost always have an element of lacking or missed communication to them, so don't feel bad, it's not uncommon and it happens to nearly everyone at one time or another.

This is an interesting document, Mr. adamgunn, so I'm happy you brought it to my attention. I have one comment. The odds for people who engage in swing activity are almost certainly not the same as for people of the general population. I do firmly believe that swing people are much more likely to alert their sex partners when they learn that they have "caught something". This has the effect of limiting transmission to others.

Is it common to launch a verbal insults during a gang bang? My answer for you is, not usual but not completely unusual. Some women actually groove on this kind of verbal abuse. Because they make you uncomfortable, you should not go again the an event arranged by this particular couple. But you should not feel discouraged to try a gang band by some other couple. Now, I'm going to lend some advise for which you did not ask. Before your separation and divorce are final, you might be giving your spouse a weapon for "taking you to the cleaners" should she decide to bring up your swing activity with an attorney. Wishing you good fortune.

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We have been swinging for 15 years and have found that nearly all the rules we first had have disappeared including the MUST wear condom rule. We do insist upon condoms on the few occasions a year when we go to a club where, in the heat of the moment, in a group, selectivity may be impacted. At clubs, we always use condoms and will walk away if a guy even tried to slip it in bareback. That has led to a few tense moments. With good friends or at parties where we know and trust the host, we go bareback. Mrs Doc loves the different feel of each uncovered cock as it enters her. As for cumming, she absolutely knows when an uncovered dick cums in her and it often sets off another orgasm for her. I much prefer the feeling of thrusting deeply into my partner as I cum inside her. Its way more stimulating, intimate and satisfying than cumming in a latex tube.