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^^ This. Swingers reality show, or ANY reality show. I absolutely detest them. As you point out, I'm obviously in the minority there since that's what seems to get the rating nowadays, but that's ok with me. Beyond my dislike of the whole format, my reasons would be we as swingers aren't going to be well-served by having a reality show as our "public face" to the rest of the world.

How often do you contact a couple thru a profile showing both of the couple, and after chatting, finally get to 'lets get together' only to have him say 'oh, she's not available/on her period/out of town, but I can meet." Happens too often here, and I always wonder if there actually IS a wife, of if it's a guy trolling.

Buy your wife flowers, take her to a nice restaurant, tell her that you love her. Talk with her about her past before she met you, where she had fun, places she went. Be happy for her. The next time, buy her some jewelry, take her to a nicer restaurant, ask her again about the fun times that she had, and who she was with. Tell her that you love her and are happy for her good memories. Don't complain about any old boyfriends or lovers. Send her to a spa, tell her that you love her, let her know that it would make you happy for her to see an old boyfriend or a new lover... It is all about her, not you. If you do the job right, in several months your wife will have her sex drive back, by fucking someone else AND you. In a year or two, your wife might be willing to have both of you swing. Remember, it's about her, not you. Have fun getting her libido back and making her happy.

Go to clubrelate.net These very well run twice-a-month Central Florida Hotel parties generally draw between 20 and 40 people (couples and singles) and feature a wide variety of erotic activities, including plenty of “jacking & jilling”. If you enjoy watching people masturbate or having people watch you, you can be pretty much assured that will happen over the course of the evening.

They should bring back Gray's Anatomy. Oh yeah, it never went away!

We went to a party that turned into a gang bang. Really felt similarly to you. We didn’t know the hosts well. Far too many single men showed up. The house looked like it was between owners/tenants with minimal furnishings. The guys were mostly over machismo, treated the women, at best smugly, at worst with contempt like fuckwhore-toys. We looked in on the action a couple of times thinking it would be hot but girls were handled too roughly, spanked, fucked really hard and aggressively with guys lined up, cheering shouting, calling names. It really disgusted us. We had hoped to sneak into a quiet corner and entertain ourselves but when we saw this, we thanked the host and left. If your gut is telling you that something isn’t right, listen to it.

Mrs Doc sucks my dick without reservation after I've fucked another woman. If she indicates that she wants me to go down on her in a group situation to finish her off, I absolutely will. Couples who are confident in their relationship and secure in sexual situations tend to just get into the moment and please their partner with next to no limitations. If she's REAL sloppy, I'll tell her not to move and I'll get a warm wet wash cloth to clean her up a bit. The first time I did that, she started to cum as soon as I applied the cloth to her pussy. I think she sometimes makes her partners cum in her just so I'll clean her up like that. She says she loves the warmth and gentleness after a good boink. The best part is that clean up often starts her off on the next boink.

You will be able to upload pictures after you have made a certain minimum number of posts. This mechanism was established to encourage people to get into conversations. As other people have already observed, Swingersboard is not designed to be a facility for making hookups. It is the very best place on the World Wide Web for learning about swing. Bisexual people are just as welcome as anybody. There is no place were you will do better.

This most emphatically isn't a fake site. Lots of the posters here have been here for years and are quite willing to provide feedback for someone's questions. You will find a welcoming community here. You aren't the only one. Most people have at least mild fetishes of one sort or another, whether fully recognized as such or not. There's absolutely nothing wrong with any sort of fetish so long as (a) anyone who plays along is agreeable and (b) it isn't something that overwhelms and otherwise healthy lifestyle. I, for example, love stockings/thigh highs/pantyhose. Can't get enough of them. But, I don't have to have my lovers wearing them in order for me to have a great time sexually. It sounds as though you are single. A single male in the lifestyle can find what they want, but it may take some time. The most common form of swinging is couple to couple, but a couple inviting a single male into their bed is also fairly common. Finding a couple with a bi male may be more challenging. Possible, yes, but a bit more challenging. You're clear about what you want. Make a profile on swinglifestyle.com. Be clear about what you want, do some searches to see if you can find a couple you like, and...pay for membership. Couples that see you have paid will more likely consider you to be legit. What's a few bucks if you're getting to fulfill your passions?

Our first time was an MFM, but really more in the context of a hotwife/cuckold situation. My husband found a guy for me online, and met him alone first at a coffee place to make sure he was legit. I met him a few days later and liked him. After a dinner together, we retired to a room as a threesome. For the first hour, my husband pleasures me a little, but mostly watched. After my first orgasm, he left me alone with my new friend for the rest of the night. I had more orgasms that night then ever before in my life.

We are an Indian couple, married for six years. Recently we had our first experience in swapping It all started when we were in the US three yeas back, where my husband was on an assignment for a year. We became good friends with an American couple B & S, who were younger to us by three years. In due course of time they threw a lot of hints for us to swap. Since we were not even aware of this kind of activity, we could not react in anyway. One day, after dinner at their house, while departing they proposed to us. That time we both were very possessive of each other, so we handled it very tactfully and let the situation pass by, without offending them. We could not imagine how we could do this However, this refused to die down in our minds. Over the years and we discussed it often. Last year, while on a vacation at Panjim, Goa, we met a young couple, who were staying at the same hotel. We became close friends within no time. During the day both ladies gossiped together and evenings we four will go to places in the city and have fun They gave us very meaningful glances and at times very close hints. One night I told my wife that it appeared that our friends were interested in swapping partners. I asked her if it happened, would we be interested. She asked me what do you say and I just smiled One night, after dinner at a local restaurant, we four were moving leisurely and decided to walk on the beach. It was a little dark but there were quite a few people on the beach. While walking / talking we paired of with each other’s wives. We stopped at a place as his wife said that her shoes were hurting. Shortly after that we realized that they were no where in sight. I wanted to call them on my cell but then his wife held my hand and told me reassuringly “don’t worry we will meet them at the hotel” When we returned to the hotel and approached their room we found a “Do not disturb’ sign on their door. His wife suggested that we leave them alone and move to the other room. I must say that a bit of jealousy came over me but I got over it within no time. The matter was amply clear by this time so as to what was happening. We moved to our room and screwed our brains out for the next four hours and that is when I got a call from him asking me if we were having fun. We decided to get together again in their room. It was 3.30 AM. We stayed in their room till morning. Next three days that they were there we swapped in the same room and it was a great time.