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I looked and mine says, "One size, fits all."

^^ This. Swingers reality show, or ANY reality show. I absolutely detest them. As you point out, I'm obviously in the minority there since that's what seems to get the rating nowadays, but that's ok with me. Beyond my dislike of the whole format, my reasons would be we as swingers aren't going to be well-served by having a reality show as our "public face" to the rest of the world.

Mainstream porn produced for women (it's hard to find, but it's out there) rarely show the money shot. He usually comes inside, or off to the side, and there's rarely if ever a creampie. Sure, there are women out there that are looking for a load, but it seems to be a very low percentage. As to 'fucking with empty balls' as a method of birth control.... are you nuts? (pun not intended!) Even if you start with 'empty', there are still sperm present, and it only takes one to get her pregnant. In a full load there are reportedly millions of sperm present. Any ejaculate, even pre-cum, has sperm present. Think again if you think you can't get someone pregnant because you jerked off twice before engaging in sex. Way to start/spread an urban myth.

We adjusted by forming a closed group with other like-minded couples. It's possible, but very unlikely, that someone will cheat. There's just so much readily available among us - everything from a quick hard fuck to a date doing something the wife isn't interested in.

We hosted an event similar to this. A 4th of July LS party that in valves several couples and 6-7 selected single guys. Dubbed 4th of July Rocket Party. Held in a basement family room about 16 guys and about 9-10 women (wives and girlfriends) not a masturbation event but at any give time some guys would be stoking. Woman’s choice. Each lady would wonder around the room and play, tease, stroke, suck or fuck any guy they fancied. Every guy there came from one way or another. Women were in charge of who they chose and what they did and for how long. Lots of teasing not letting the guys cum right away. Each woman was able to enjoy whatever fantasy, fetish they liked. One guy, more than one to all of them around her. Those that enjoyed having guys unload on them had one or several at a time. One of our hottest most talked about themes. Started at 11am and didn’t start to run down until very late afternoon, but many kept playing off and on into the evening. Rockets going off all over the place and the guys able to recoup there were always a few guys available for the ladies to play with.

In terms of profile photos I have never seen one of a man in a thong that turned me on. In men’s underwear I prefer boxer briefs, just don’t let the focus of the pic be the dick. A photo in those gives a general idea of the build and says he has nice taste in underwear. I have seen profile pics with baggy, dingy, white boxers. I knew I didn’t want to meet him. If you are a couple at least one picture together. Single males shouldn’t have pictures with other women. Pictures in swimwear (not speedo’s) are fine too.

Where do I start... I love it when a guy is on his back and I lay on him facing up. It's perfect if the guy has a nice long cock that doesn't slip out. The second guy mounts me on top. I love their hands and bodies all over me. If the guy on top is a little smaller it's perfect for double vaginal which is incredible for everyone. If the top is big as well Ill take one in my pussy and one in my ass. I cum super fast from this and can uaually last as long as I need to for the guys to get off inside me. I also love having one guy eat my pussy while the other fucks me super hard. All the stimulation makes for a powerful orgasm.

I don't know about being more personal, but as I posted in another thread, "I enjoy when a guy ejaculates in me and thinking afterwards for several days that a living part of him will be living in me, albeit swimming around in vain. Which is why I prefer that he cums into my vagina instead of my bum or mouth." Even better when it is the sperm of two or even three men within me. Actually, unless I'm out-of-town, there's always some swimmers in there. Ooohh.

From him, all of the above From her, all of the above Actually, threesomes aren't something we have a lot of experience with since we're mostly couple on couple swingers, but there have been several, including this one very memorable summer afternoon three people spent in the pool

This may not be appropriate for this venue, but I still find this anecdote amusing: We were working to install a heater in the new water tower in SE South Dakota because it was 20 below with a lot of wind. My partner had to pee, so he went out on the cat walk. You can imagine how cold it was 80 feet in the air at that temp and windy! He came back and grumbled that he was wearing FIVE layers of clothes but he only had "a THREE-LAYER DICK!" My guess is that he is a grow-er, but I didn't ask.

my wife has a high sex drive and wants to go swinging and i.m cool with it i think it would be a great turn on to watch have sex with someone else

Just what we need, ANOTHER lame reality tv show. I say bring back Gunsmoke, NYPD Blue, ER, St Elsewhere, LA Law, The Newsroom, hell, even I Dream of Jeannie. Someone in the 60's famously said that tv is a "vast wasteland". The guy should see it now!!

Is it common to launch a verbal insults during a gang bang? My answer for you is, not usual but not completely unusual. Some women actually groove on this kind of verbal abuse. Because they make you uncomfortable, you should not go again the an event arranged by this particular couple. But you should not feel discouraged to try a gang band by some other couple. Now, I'm going to lend some advise for which you did not ask. Before your separation and divorce are final, you might be giving your spouse a weapon for "taking you to the cleaners" should she decide to bring up your swing activity with an attorney. Wishing you good fortune.

I am the wife half of the relationship and I started the ball rolling on the swinging conversation. I have always been a very sensual person, which my husband loved and still loves about me. I had many sexual experiences in my late teens and early 20's that my husband didn't and he loves to hear the stories. We've both been interested in a swingers lifestyle for a long time but needed to make sure we spent the time to develop our own fully beforehand. And now, we're both comfortable with beginning our journey into swinging.

Ok so after finally getting started in swinging proper we found or they found us I should say an amazing couple. We are both 27 but he is 52 and she is 48 though it was fantastic all the same. We met at a bar which we have never been to a bar so that was great. We sat next to eatch other and was rubbing thighs which was like damn. They had so many swinging stories it was amazing and they were pretty cool people. After that we met back at their place and chilled in their hot tub. (We have never been in a hot tub before either) After some chatting they started making out and at first I was like this guy is kissing my wife but then I gave my parter my undivided attention. We did separate rooms and I'll let you fill in the rest. We are on a fwb hall pass with them now and am loving it.

One night in bed, during foreplay we started talking about a pretty girlfriend of hers. I told her I would love to see them together. It just went on from there.

My wife did. Her good friend and husband,who we are both friends with introduced us to swinging. It was my wife and her friend who planned to get me to play. I was very suspect to their evil planning even though we are both very happy with the way t went.

Had to be the time i took part in a DVP. Girl was in between us as we were laying sideways and he was fucking her from behind as I was kissing her and playing with her clit. Next thing I know his hand grabbed my dick and pulled to his and started pushing both into her once inside sharing the same space I came immediately. Had to be less than thirty seconds.

It is hard to say what is best for me. Each situation is different, ends differently. I know that I have no problem having them both in me at the same time. I can feel both equally in my vagina and my mouth. The only time it gets a bit confusing and hard to concentrate is if it appears they may be both going to cum together. It's great being in this state though because if they are, I'm way up there with them. Thinking of them coming together gets my vote for best orgasm, but best sex I think... We have had numerous MFM encounters. It is all we enjoy doing yet. We have taken time to meet some really nice guys, form a relationship, as in trust and discretion and sexuality. It would seem to most that there is bi-sexuality involved, but to be honest, it is not an issue with any of us. There is male contact in a sexual activity. So,here goes....my favorite sex activity: In an armchair, our friend sits. Naked and aroused from foreplay (or just anticipation), I lower myself onto him, taking him into me. He leans back, I put my legs over the arms, my husband (the voyeur) sees exactly what he likes. He moves closer, on his knees between our friend's feet, leans over and with his very experienced tongue finds my clitoris. From then on I'm sure you can use your own imaginations. There is a lot of things to add to it, but that particular form of MFM sex is unceasingly satisfying.

Mr. Naughty, Somehow I just knew you'd be the first one to respond, you old horn dog! How about Mrs. Naughty telling us in her own words and a few more ladies respond? Mr. Alura, I'm sure the Mrs. enjoyed yours too. My wife LOVES to be eaten while receiving a real skin feeling dildo!

What is it you liked best about your MFM encounter(s)? We've only had one, but I think I can safely say Mrs. Alura liked me licking her clit while the other guy fucked her from behind best.