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Hi folks, This sounds like an impending trainwreck, as GoldCoCouple stated earlier. Having been in the LS for a long while now, I see the signs of a couple who are almost deliberately not heeding warning signs, and too easily brushing aside real issues. I have a couple of things to mention. First of all, if this date actually happens, USE CONDOMS NO MATTER WHAT YOUR STI REPORT. Keep in mind that a clean STI report is valid at the time the tests are RUN, and essentially void immediately afterward. If you are in the "silent" window in the period soon after infection with a number of viral diseases, you ARE still contagious. Additionally, you cannot be certain of the level of risk that the other couple has taken, even if they tell you this is their first time swinging. Second, stop for a second, close your eyes, and imagine your wife being penetrated by him. Imagine her reacting to him with MUCH greater intensity than she reacts to you, making noises she NEVER, EVER makes with you, begging him to fuck her deeper. Imagine her orgasming over and over in a way she never does with you. Imagine him making her cum hard doing things that, when you do them, she isn't all that thrilled. Imagine her letting him do things with her that SHE WON'T LET YOU DO. Many, MANY women do all of the above with a new partner, it's normal and it's part of what I love about watching my wife. However, what would the aftermath of a night like this be for you as a couple? What if YOUR experience isn't all that great compared to hers (or at least what if you perceive it to be)? What if they're still going strong long after you're done and wishing you could leave? What if you or she breaks one of your rules (You DO have rules that you've discussed, don't you?). What if she becomes massively upset at the sight of you penetrating another woman? Not trying to be a negative Nellie. I'm concerned. I've met many folks who were in no way ready for the onslaught of strong emotions that caught them TOTALLY off guard in the midst of playing with another couple. You should discuss these things as a couple. I urge you to talk it ALL out, talk more, and then when you're done, TALK SOME MORE. There can't be too much communication between the partners of a couple that swings. Just my $0.02. I hope you'll consider the things I mentioned, and let us know how you did when you talked them over. Best Regards, T

Too much deprivation for me. And a waste of semen. My preference is to have an ejaculation in my vagina for safe keeping.

This site is most certainly legit, there are many many great people here willing to share their thoughts and advice. We also welcome all, no matter their experience level, varied interests, etc. As far as uploading photos, while photos are a nice icing on the cake here, we aren't a photo site so it takes a little bit to earn that privilege and to keep the spam down. Not sure what you mean about not changing your profile. Other than the user name, which can't be changed on a whim since it would make the discussions here nearly impossible to follow, you can change anything you like. As far as commercialization, we'e about as free as you can get. Yes, there are ads here because a site this large and with our traffic is not free to run like some $0.99/month personal blog hosting plan. SLS is totally legit, and if you are serious about getting into swinging, I would highly recommend you look into that. They (and the other big ones like SDC, AFF, Swingtowns, etc.) do have free trials, with limited functionality, because, well, it's free and it costs a lot to run those sites too. I think you have found what you're looking for. Just spend some time here and you'll see what we're all about

I don't fantasize about the men per se. I do fantasize about the sex I can have with a man. I find I'm not really attracted to men. I really do find the woman form much more attractive and appealing, however, I am a sexual being and I'm all over getting another man off, and vis-a-versa. Does that make sense? We have always played together, so the other man is just another "toy/plaything" but I couldn't see myself in a male/male relationship. without my sexy wife, I don't think I'd ever act out a sexual encounter with a man. Although, I've learned never to say never.

Yes, and I've acted on it and now enjoy sucking an attractive penis. I still consider myself straight though I enjoy oral in MMF with both partners.

I guess it’s not the right group for this question. We hang with a group with several bisexual makes and females. We are comfortable with all forms of contact. My husband enjoys performing oral on me while I am getting fucked and will suck my partners cock in between strokes. The ladies enjoy pegging the guys and we enjoy a lot of girl on girl action. He doesn’t prefer anal penetration but I have watched him take another guy and it’s hot as fuck. Guess it all depends on your group and their preferences.

I'm.good with either. I enjoy seeing a guy jerk a big load onto my belly but I also love it when I pull him.in thighs and feel his cock pulsing as he releases inside me.

What Gold said!! Swinging is not for the faint of heart or those with a volatile relationship.

So you think bringing in another couple to your bedroom will make things less volatile? Think again. Unless you relationship is ROCK SOLID with an abundance of love, trust and communication, this is a recipe for a train wreck Until you can say you have a completely open relationship built firmly on trust and communication, you should stay away from swinging. This will just be one more match to the gasoline that you call a relationship. If you have problems now (or at least four times a year), this will just add more. Swinging will make a great relationship better, but it will tear a weak one apart...you can't close Pandora's box and once it is out of the box... Walk away, neither of you are close to being ready for this.

If you even *imagine* that it could tear you apart, then it’s a VERY bad idea!

"I usually joke we’re a in a quite normal relationship and nearly divorce four times a year, and there is unfortunately some truth to that. To say my wife has a volcanic, Latin character is a massive understatement." Well, swinging for most folk is for fun without any drama. It doesn't sound like your wife is into that scene. Are you? Knowing what you've told us about your relationship, I probably wouldn't want to play with you. But it's not my life, I wish you the best of luck.

You will be able to upload pictures after you have made a certain minimum number of posts. This mechanism was established to encourage people to get into conversations. As other people have already observed, Swingersboard is not designed to be a facility for making hookups. It is the very best place on the World Wide Web for learning about swing. Bisexual people are just as welcome as anybody. There is no place were you will do better.

We are both bisexual and have enjoyed our first few weeks here - no judgements and just lots of sharing of thoughts and experiences. My husband found his bi side after about a year in the lifestyle. As we got comfortable with each other and our partners, the exploration was natural. He started by guiding other men’s cocks into me or by giving them oral while they were fucking me. We have a submissive friend who enjoys being fucked by him and I definitely like to watch. I also have a sort of small penis fetish and enjoy pegging smaller guys. We both frequent a popular nude beach enjoy looking at the men there as much as the couples and single ladies. Hope you find what you are looking for here.

I've done the MFM thing a couple times. It feels so good to just be naked sexual beings with each other and not being concerned about sexuality. I have never had insecurities about it. I am technically straight but I have been bi-curious lately. I've been talking to a really hot male and female couple and they both want to fuck me badly. The condition is that he gets anything she gets. It seriously never aroused me before, but I am thinking I might really enjoy it. I'm thinking I will take them up on it. Just the thought of us writhing on the bed or having sex free of all inhibition is a major turn on for me. That doesn't mean that all MFM encounters have to involve gay/bi sex. My first two MFM encounters were with guys I had no sexual attraction to, the only thing we had in common sexually is that we both had sex with the same girl. The closest it ever came to male on male is that we both penetrated the same hole at the same time, and that was only one of the two MFM encounters I've had. The other one was a girl a buddy of mine and I had picked up at the bar and she couldn't make up her mind which one of us she wanted, so we made it easier for her by having a threesome.

Much of what is said in a group like yours is based on upbringing, not true feelings. Assuming a guy would have to be gay to be naked with another man reeks of church and homophobic influence and how he wishes to be perceived. We would actively look for bi men for mmf. They are kinda rare. Plenty of straight guys willing to team up but few wanting to play for both sides. I think you'll see this attitude shift as you age. It's a bummer that our best sex years are usually wasted with jealousy, insecurity and homophobia.

Interestingly, I know no one who thinks that wanting to have a MFM means the guy is bi. My wife and I have done MFM frequently and the bisexual male contact has never even come up. Honestly, I wonder if someone pictures a MFM threesome, and immediately thinks of the two guys going at it, is that someone bi-curious themselves. Mind you, I am bi-curious and I don't think of two guys going at it in an MFM threesome, so whatever...

In am MFM situation, I simply cannot help masturbating while I watch Angel with another male. It's so hot, so erotic that I could not possibly refrain. She loves that I do it, and she'll ask me to if I'm not. I don't cum, but keep it hard and stroking until I'm with her again. When the other guy is watching, we're both turned on by him masturbating while watching us. And like Trophy, she and I love it when we finish with one guy kneeling on either side of Angel's chest and stroking until we cover her breasts with our cum.

Masturbate. Why not? It is a very big turn-on for me to watch my wife with another guy, especially in the MFM experience, and she knows it. That's the main reason why the MFM has been the main activity in swinging for us for the past several months. Mrs really loves the fact that she can ask me to masturbate for her and for her to watch while she is being fucked by the other guy. She really enjoys having both of us finishing off by jerking ourselves and covering her in our cum. If it works and no one is offended, by all means.