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We are 100% condom users. Of course, HIV is the concern.

I suppose my impressions of the nudist resort and all that happened were grievously wrong. Nudist resort members have pure minds and view other members as wholesome minded regardless of their physical attractiveness. It's like the Garden of Eden, where both genders romp around enjoying the natural beauty that surrounds them without distortion. Where males view female athletic and mental ability over all else, and females would never eye a male below the belt to consider what he has to offer. Where all conduct themselves with a modest outlook and as equals since their status in life is not on display. How absolutely lovely it is. Swingers who dare visit and associate with these pure minded folk, would never consider polluting the minds of such a fine assembly. When visiting such a resort, they safe-guard their personal lifestyle so as to not divulge their personal interests. Although they may allow their eyes to evaluate the physical characteristics of another member, bridging the moral barrier simply wouldn't enter their minds. Said another way, what I thought I saw and experienced on my first trip to a nudist resort was simply a mind fuck - a fantasy of demented proportion that is offensive to nudists and swingers alike. Even voicing such a distorted view of the mingling of these two lifestyles has set me aside as a freak of nature, What more can one expect from someone raised of the other side of the tracks?

I thought this would be nothing than just sex with other people. It worked that way with the ex... with the current Ms. Dive...things have been sooooo much different. We have been through so much more. We found a couple that we absolutely fell in love with, and developed a poly relationship. We lost the male half of the other couple close to a year ago, and are still dealing with the loss. I foolishly allowed myself to get into a relationship that became a one sided, possessive, encounter that threatened my personal, primary relationship with Ms. Dive. This was not a good time for anyone. Thankfully, our relationship has survived. We still play around with other people. We still have a lot of fun. We are more careful now.

Get a girlfriend.

We have done something like this in our group so it’s much safe that a group of unknowns. We put up sheets and we are exposed from the waste down. The guys select who they want to fuck and have at it. I think the best part is that there is no visual involved so you don’t know what’s coming. Maybe his mouth, maybe his finger, maybe he swirls the head of his cock on my opening, maybe he slides inside me - it’s amazing. I also love it when I feel the head of his penis. I imagine the size and shape. I’m never ready for the really hung guys and love the way it feels as i realize what i’m about to get.

I posted a thread almost two months ago asking for advice on an opportunity to do a "unicorn swap" with the wife and her friend. The responses were cautionary and I think that was warranted, since we were a little blinded by our libidos and maybe biting off more than we could chew involving someone we didn't know. So, instead, we went ahead and did half of it. Maybe still a bad idea, but we felt like it was less of a bad idea. Mrs. E and I talked about it and concluded that it wasn't a good idea because there were too many unknown quantities. Since it had sort of stayed in the storyboard phase with the neighbor, we figured we just wouldn't broach the subject and that if it came up, she'd offer a little white lie that I had just been kidding and that Mrs. E had missed the joke. Move forward a couple of weeks, and sure enough, the neighbor fished around with Mrs. E about it, she explained the situation, and while her friend was cool about it and only slightly disappointed, suggested that it was still something she wanted to try eventually and that there was no need for it to be a reciprocal thing. Surprisingly, Mrs. E told me that she wasn't just open to that, but enthusiastic about it. It sounded less complicated to her, and after talking it out, she had no issues with us trying it other than a couple of physical rules. - She didn't want me cumming inside the neighbor, even with a condom. - She wanted us all to kiss, but thought it would be too much for them to do oral on each other. - Not a chance in hell she was going to let there be a video. I tried to renegotiate that one several times. We figured that the worst case "very realistic" scenario was a rumor getting out and that while she'd consider it a bigger scandal than I would, life would go on and she'd just be rumored to be, by far, the most fun wife on the street. Life is short and she wanted to do it, and was hot talking about it in bed. Her getting hot about me with other women during dirty talk is not common but when she does she's really into it and I took it as a signal that she was definitely ready to sign up. There were some girl talk conversations I didn't pry into and we set up a date night for Saturday. Met at a neighborhood pub to get better acquainted and had an early dinner, came back to our place to hang out and have another drink. Long story short, I'm grateful to Eli Lilly and Company for the Cialis assistance with my performance, because despite getting off in the morning, some mutual making out and heavy petting on the couch turned to oral and my first orgasm happened far, far too quickly. Mrs. E was on her knees between my legs and the neighbor resting her head on my lap, while they got acclimated to kissing each other and I fingered the neighbor under her skirt, and I just thought about it all too hard and managed to end up shooting into the air right next to them. They were both startled but we laughed it off and decided to keep fooling around kissing, touching, and licking until I was hard again, then we'd go upstairs. That didn't take too long, and we ended up trying a couple of positions. Mrs. E wanted to cum and wanted me to screw her for a bit with her legs over my shoulders on the edge of the bed, and at first the neighbor hung back sitting on the bed watching, but eventually got into first touching herself, then kissing and touching both of us. I ended up putting on a condom so she could ride me for a while and go at her own pace, and she did need some time to get comfortable enough to put it in but I had fun warming her up with my hands before she sat all the way down on it and got to work. After a few minutes, Mrs. E kissed her a few times and then made out with me and let me suck on her tits while I fingered her, and when I was ready to cum I asked Mrs. E what she wanted, she deferred to the neighbor, and I ended up rolling over with her and taking the condom off to finish on her stomach while she touched herself, which she seemed to really enjoy. We emptied out the bottle of wine we'd opened and I spent the next fifteen minutes or so performing oral on both of them, and I figured we'd end it there but managed to get hard again. Mrs. E and I did 69 for a few minutes, then traded off with the neighbor, then I wanted to screw the neighbor again and let Mrs. E put on a condom so I could take her from behind while they finally got comfortable enough to really make out with each other and play with each other's breasts. Neighbor wanted her hair pulled. Eventually my legs were tired, I couldn't keep going like that, and eventually let Mrs. E jump on top without the condom to try to finish me while the neighbor rested. She did try to sit on my face for a minute but they found it too awkward being right in each other's faces. No chance I was going to climax again, it was unbelievably frustrating, but Mrs. E broke a sweat trying her hardest and came like crazy. We sent her home just after 1:00 am. Made a point of exchanging some normal-sounding pleasantries at the door in case any neighbors overheard. New experience, good experience. Never done FMF without another M hanging around somewhere. Woke up late with a brutal hard-on in the morning and dragged Mrs. E into the shower to finish up what I couldn't the night before. Neighbor texted me while we were in there that she was really glad we invited her over, then they met at the gym as usual and she told Mrs. E in person that she had a lot of fun and was happy she did it. We left it there, although we decided in bed last night after Game of Thrones that if she brings it up we're not going to automatically reject another visit as long as we don't get any weird vibes about it. She's happy we did it, too, and had more fun than she thought she would. She feels like she did something extra-salacious and pushed her boundaries and is very pleased with herself. Moral of the story, if there is one: 10mg of Cialis is an amazing tool for fighting any lingering performance anxiety.

Update, update, update So went on my trip to see the concert with my FWB. We had a great time, stayed in touch with my wife while away as did my FWB with her husband. My wife welcomed me back with open arms and was happy that I had a good time. In fact last night, wife and I went to dinner and a show and had amazing sex when we got home. All is good in my world. For those wondering, I don’t think being away on an overnight, actually 2 nights, added any type of increased intimacy between us. It was like travelling with a good friend with the added benefit of sex. We enjoyed hanging out together and we enjoyed fucking. We didn’t cuddle or fall asleep in each other’s arms. There were definite boundaries and we kept to them. We both would have loved if our spouses were with us so we are hopefully going to figure something out for all 4 of us to get away.

You can't imagine. You try it and if you don't like it, adjust and try again. If it doesn't work out after a couple of tries, you quit without regret or recrimination. Don't over complicate it.

From what I'm reading, you are both on board. You've seen his reaction to you being fondled by strangers. His reaction would be the same with you being piledrivin by some big dick stud. Is the actual event as erotic as the fantasy? Well, depends. Most fantasies like yours include a nameless faceless figure as your bull. In reality, its a guy. He has a job, responsibilities, fears, performance anxiety, just like you. So how erotic your time is, depends on how the bull acts, and your chemistry with him. Once you start, you may not want to stop. There is a lot that can happen between you agreeing to do this and 5 years down the road. But no matter what, it's actually pretty easy to put the brakes on. After a few dozen men, you may find it's not as hot anymore and you are ready to move on to something else. Lastly...enjoy!

No, you and Scott are not ‘bad people.’ You two simply have fetishes. You are an exhibitionist, he has the desire to see his woman pleasured by other men, and may have the cuckold fetish. If you also go a little further to actually having sex with another man while Scott watches, it’s just a furtherance of your fetishes. A fetish isn’t ‘bad’ until it hurts another person, IMHO. Who are you hurting? Not yourself, not Scott, and certainly not the other man. If you want to bring another man into your bedroom and he’s willing, why not? All of you are adults, you can run your life the way you want. Go for it! As far as definitions go, don’t worry about them. For myself, I see ‘swinging’ and ‘the LifeStyle’ to be any situation where a committed couple has willing sexual experiences with third parties. So ‘hotwife’ and ‘open relationships’ and even MFMF are simply subsets of swinging. (I know, I know, some people will disagree with that, perhaps violently. Show me the terms in Merriam-Webster, and I’ll conform to that.) If you’re enjoying something, what do you care what other people call it? Best of luck.

Hi, We are new to the lifestyle and wanted to share our experiences (nobody else to report to ) We are based out of Seattle and have been going to Sapphire. Love the atmosphere, very laid back, clean, and nice people all around. We aren't into playing with other couples. We primarily go to watch and be watched. Wife loves to wear sexy, skimpy clothes and is rather attractive! We love to dance giving everyone a glimpse of her rack, booty, and just having a good time overall. The play rooms are really nice and clean. We like to have some sex and don't mind others watching. Initially, we went to a semi-private room with curtains open.. And just last time, went to a shared play room with few other parties having fun.. One weekend, there was one gentleman (visiting from out of state) who had a really good conversation with us. We didn't know he couldn't get to the play areas as a single male and had to be accompanied there. Also, wife is rather shy. While she likes to show off and tease, she doesn't necessarily engage. Also we haven't been exposed to situations like this and so quite frankly didn't know how to react. We've been there a few times now and love it... A fun, "don't care" atmosphere where everyone's having fun. Guys and gals give my wife a lot of compliments! she enjoys that. Nobody has ever touched or behaved out of the norm. Very impressed with that. A few casual rubs in the dance floor and we dont mind it and it was nothing more than at the night club.. more opportunistic and due to "crowd" than creepy.. not sure what else to share... so many questions still Is it ok to go to only watch and be watched? I know for a fact that the wife entertains a few by her looks and teasing outfits Love to hear your thoughts, suggestions, anything

Q: How do I invite/let others know it's ok to talk/touch her (with her permission of course). The easiest way is for her to start a conversation, flirt. First, she picks out a 'target.' She goes up to him, similes, maybe wets her lips, toys with her hair. You said she wore an unbuttoned shirt - she could play with the front, giving the guy a glimpse of boob, maybe even a nipple. And she can touch him on the arm or wherever she feels comfortable. At that point he'll probably touch her back, and the touches get more intimate until . . . If you and she wait to be approached, it could be a long night. Best of luck.

For us and many of our friends, swinging was a progression, especially at clubs. Mrs Doc dressed in a tantalizing fashion and we watched others in the play area before going off by ourselves to boink each other blind. As time passed, she got more and more brave and wore less and less, we found that she enjoyed showing off more than a little. From there, we started to have semi private sex together and then we moved to playing together on the edge of groups of couples. It was about then that she discovered that she enjoyed playing in the glory hole room at one of the clubs. It was the first time I saw her touch another penis and I discovered that I wasn't jealous. Once we began playing together in groups, it was a small step to touching and being touched. The first time she was riding me and the female of the couple next to us started to play with Mrs Doc's tit was about the hottest thing I'd EVER seen to that point. We slowly slid into soft swap with other couples(touching, oral, then oral to completion) but it was still months before we finally were ready to take the leap into full swap. Once we got there, we were totally at ease as it happened because by then, it was just the natural next step in our progression. My point is, this is your adventure, take it at your own pace and enjoy each new experience. The great thing about clubs, especially early on, is that you can see and do all that you wish without pressure to move too fast. Other than true hard core couples, swingers are usually playful, understanding and respectful and willing to help new couples explore the edges of their envelops. I do hope you'll update us on your experiences.

See, not all of us swingers are evil creeps! Seriously, congratulations. It seems you're having the experience the two of you want, which is the way it should be. And of course, if you want people to watch you and/or you simply wish to watch, there should be no problem.

We both love eating pussy! We both dislike hair stuck in our teeth. Shaved pussy equals no hair. Simple as that. Has nothing to do with the person looking younger. Same goes for her preferring the males being shaved too.