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Last weekend…

Thanks for all the input and responses! I loved the experience and we will be making another trip when “family life” allows us to! My husband and I both are mid-forties. Everyone within that age demographic and older were quick to smile make us feel welcomed. I tried really hard to not have a “doe in the headlights” look about me, but my brain was probably whirling and over analyzing everything all night:) As far as the crowd numbers being low, we wondered (at least with our peers) if some people might not have kids and/or families visiting for Fathers Day. A regular that my husband chatted with said the numbers are normally higher.

The wife is very intrigued about the whole idea but yet to even find a GH....I’m probably more excited to see her participate!!!

I've written before about Laura's experience. Sorry to bore those who have aready read about it. I was a motorcycle industry sales rep, calling on customers in a five-state area. I came home from Oklahoma City to the remark, "I met a guy who wants to fuck me, Darling." She snuggled her nude body closer. Every man she ever met wanted to fuck her, in my opinion. We had decided during our first date that a marriage spent "cleaving only unto each other," would get boring. "That's not surprising, Sweetheart. Have you had an adventure?" "Not yet, but I want to if it's okay with you. Richard is soft-spoken, has a nice smile, and he's a muscled hunk! If I were single, I'd do him in a heartbeat. He asked me to dinner." "I assume you said 'yes'. When do you want it to happen?" She kissed me long and hard (so to speak) and whispered, "I think next Thursday. That way, I'll still have his cum in my pussy on Friday. You can mix yours with Richard's when you get back from Dallas while I whisper the story into your ear. Put me in the mood to commit adultery, Darling." My trip to Dallas was unusually productive. Dealers were stocking up for the coming season. I was beaming all the time. One buyer asked why I was so jovial. I blamed it on the beautiful late-spring weather. Laura and I talked every evening when I was on the road. That week was heavy with "Project: Fuck Richard" plans. We didn't talk on Thursday, fearing it might interrupt them in "mid-fuck". I watched a movie in my hotel room about a Texas couple who met as competitive wildcatters. I rushed through my appointments and finished on Friday morning. All right, I admit to not making any cold calls. I arrived home in time for a candlelight dinner, and a wife wearing a new negligee. "Did you wear that with Richard, Sweetheart?" "I bought it today for you, wore an old one for Richard. I'm so lucky being married to you, Darling. You're about to be welcomed by a grateful and very well-lubricated pussy. Tell me about Dallas at dinner first." Dinner didn't take long.

Gold, I would respectfully disagree with you about the Romans, at least of the early Empire. At the time of Julius Caesar and Augustus, young male slaves were kept as playtoys for both the women and men in the house. Julius himself was known as the 'Queen of Bythnia' because he had a relationship with the King of Bythnia and it was rumored that Julius was a bottom.

Monogamy in its most basic form with everything else stripped away is (IMHO) to provide a stable environment to raise children (and is the same reason for marriage). It assures that there would be someone whose primary duties are to raise the child and someone whose primary duties is to help provide food and shelter. Everything else put aside, this is it. If either the man and/or the woman is sleeping around with, well, anyone and everyone, then they won't feel as attached or responsible to any children that result. These days, with the aid of modern medicine and contriception, children can be more of a choice than a surprise (please leave your personal beliefs at the forum door, I'm just trying to post facts and not personal preferences). Take children out of the equation and other than personal insecurities, what is the purpose of marriage or monogamy (as long as your partner knows that this is the case)? Even in the Old Testament, having multiple wives was perfectly accepted. Even the New Testament doesn't condemn polygamy (or homosexuality either, but most people don't want you to figure that out). It wasn't until Romans developed larger cities that monogamy became the accepted norm (see Monogamy isn't biblical, its Roman) even though the Romans were celebrated for their bath houses and brothels. Now that the world is becoming 'more tolerant' of every type of sexual identity, it is only a matter of time before people begin to question the concept of monogamy. I believe that in the next 10-20 years it will become more accepted into society as these questions arise. The main thing holding it back is the amount of honesty and trust that a couple must have to consider taking that step into polygamy. As that trust and communication a couple has increases, it will not only open the door to polygamy, it will (once again, IMHO) improve and strengthen the total relationship regardless to how many are involved.

So for me there are several reasons I think its of interest to me. And since I determined that Mrs. Nomad has an interest in other ladies my interest extends to seeing that as well. The first reason is that I strive to see her happy. Whether it's in bed with me or in bed with another person. Second I'm an engineer. I am always trying to fix or improve things. This includes things in our relationship though I've gotten better at understanding that something don't need to be fixed. I just need to acknowledge that I know about them. But I learn by observing so if I watch her enjoying herself I'm mentally taking notes to see if there is something new I can try that I've never thought of before. With regard to her and another lady there is the added component that I hope she will bring her new friend back over and introduce her to me. Mr. Nomad

I wonder whats more concerning. Your instructor having a heart attack during your flying lesson or someone in your foursome having a heart attack during play. Either way your name is going to be on an official report somewhere. Mr. Nomad

I agree. Watching my wife in total pleasure is amazing. I’ve had other threesomes with different people, but watching my wife is a huge turn on for me. I have ingrained images. Like seeing the look on her face wile she said “seriously?”, when I asked her if she’d like to have a threesome with a friend for our first experience. Do you ever fixate on specific things. Like, I think of a time watching her feet move while my friend was fucking her in the missionary position and he had her legs up on his shoulders. I also enjoy receiving oral from my wife more while she’s being pleasured as well.

Last Tropics Party, ladies night. Corset n Lace night. Most our party pics show others.....etc....not for public view

This is an awesome thread, thanks to all for the contributions. Posting rules - forums no more than R rated (no pink), photo galleries get as naughty as you would like.

Thanks for this reference Billy G. I did find this article from 2015 quite interesting. It’s a good brief definition of terms and a quick overview of the writer’s perspective on where society is today. For those here on the board who have never read any of Helen Fisher‘s work I recommend her book “Why We Love“. It’s a look at why from our days as hunter/gathers, men & women tend to bond with one another and then with the passage of a few years sexual interest wanes, creating an incentive for both parties to develop other romantic and sexual interests. (And while Fischer doesn’t address the generation of attraction and its subsequent diminution between same-sex couples, I suspect that evolution has given the same mechanisms to gay people as to straights.) In summary, Fischer theorizes that reproductive interests and the selfish gene worked to program individuals selection of appropriate partners. And further that after the passage of the approximate time it takes a child to require only one parent‘s supervision, that same evolutionary heritage caused the eyes of both parents to begin to wander. Fisher partially addresses the implications of our genetically-influenced behavioral predispositions for people in today’s very different cultural environment and the inevitably that conflicts will arise. But she is coy about suggesting solutions. If I may paraphrase she says “It’s a tough deal dear reader and you’ll just have to figure it out for yourself.“ My theory is that in the case of many couples involved in the lifestyle — whether the reasons are available to their awareness or not — swinging is an adaptive way of reconciling those unavoidable conflicts between other-directed sexual desire and the social, emotional and economic benefits that accrue to couples with long enduring relationships. I see a good deal of evidence of this right here on the swingers board. It’s so frequent to read comments about how swinging refreshes a couple’s relationship sexually and brings them closer together emotionally. https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0805069135/geneexpressio-20/102-3024772-7446528?%5Fencoding=UTF8&camp=2025&link%5Fcode=xm2

Last night we finally went to a club. We visited Colettes in Dallas. A few things I loved about the club: 1). Amazing and friendly staff. 2). Clean facilities 3). Loved watching women dance on the pole 4). Almost all patrons were friendly. We had been warned that Colettes was really cliquish. I never felt that way. I felt like there were ALOT of regulars that seemed genuinely happy to see one another. It’s true it can make you feel a little on the outside, but I didn’t ever feel like it was in a snotty, clique demeanor. A few things I didn’t like about the night: 1). During the tour, we were told that in the orgy rooms, only lingerie, full nudity or underwear should be worn. Throughout the night, when we checked out that area, anyone playing was almost fully clothed. The men had their pants only slightly pulled down and the women had the dresses slightly pulled up. There were also spectators inside the room, not participating. 2). Maybe we should have gone on a weekend other than Father’s Day. The club wasn’t nearly as packed as I had anticipated. The bottom floor had (maybe) 20 people. The top floor was decently full. But not packed by any definition. 3). I had assumed most women, at least later in the night, would be wearing lingerie. The entire night I saw only a few. The majority of women there stayed fully clothed and I got the impression that the majority of the couples there were only there to watch All in all, we had a great time. We did meet another couple that we visited with most of the night. Maybe something would have come of it, but it was their first time also, and I don’t think either couple felt comfortable enough to offer any action. I ended up giving my husband a blowjob in a playroom, while we watched other couples. The whole experience was definitely a turn-on and We plan on going again someday!

We have done something like this in our group so it’s much safe that a group of unknowns. We put up sheets and we are exposed from the waste down. The guys select who they want to fuck and have at it. I think the best part is that there is no visual involved so you don’t know what’s coming. Maybe his mouth, maybe his finger, maybe he swirls the head of his cock on my opening, maybe he slides inside me - it’s amazing. I also love it when I feel the head of his penis. I imagine the size and shape. I’m never ready for the really hung guys and love the way it feels as i realize what i’m about to get.

I think you may be talking about the Czech glory holes videos by the description. I would LOVE to be one of the women in the waist down hole with my legs strapped up. Just keep getting one after another with all the creampies. I think it would be amazing, but I value my health too much to ever actually do something like that. Sadly it will have to remain a fantasy for me.

I recently saw a video that had men buying tickets and entering a room where women were behind the wall, having fun through glory holes . Some sucked while other got fucked and had orgasms multiple times and men did not give them rest . It was fun to see and hear them. I can lie down and offer my spread legs so that I can get fucked perpetually from gory hole

At this point in our life, I trust her judgement. I'd want to know about it and the guy, but if she wanted to do a vanilla guy, I wouldn't object and I wouldn't insist on being there or a part of it if she was comfortable with the plan.

Who my wife plays with is up to her. From my standpoint, for her safety, I would want to know before hand who it is, and where. I would want him to know that I was aware.

My wife enjoys glory holes. She enjoys feeling and tasting their cocks. She had no idea their were so many sizes and shapes. Her first time she brought along a very glory hole experienced girl friend who told her to swallow the cum. She wasn't ready for the first guy to shoot. It filled up her mouth so fast it went up her nose and it burned and she became strangled. Her girlfriend told her when he is going to cum put just her lips over the pee hole and suck it down. She'll like it. Wife got good at that and really is turned on swallowing their cum.

Mine was during a three way with my wife and buddy. We had been getting after it hot and heavy. We’d usually have a little cock touching as we wound tack turns going in and out of her at the same time. But this night he starting grabbing my cock and using it to fuck her and he’d also slide his fingers inside her stroking my cock. Then he grabbed both our cocks together and pushed both of us in her pussy at the same time. It felt so hot us touching while inside her I started coming almost immediately. Then as he was fucking her still I flipped around to eat her pussy and he pulled out slid his cock in my mouth. Then I slid him back into her and watched as he fucked her up close and personal. Haven’t had another experience since.

Just got these messages but let me say omg. This Was a crazy long weekend. The conversation pool was off the hook. Maybe to much. We ended up with two threesomes and one couple by the Monday. Started off just having sex in front of people in the pool Thursday. Ended up with a threesome Thursday and Friday nights. Saturday night which was crazy ended up take another couple back to the room. Sunday went to Epcot to recover after our 4am nightly adventures. Everyone was so nice to us. To nice. One thing we realized is this is what they do we were rookies. Must have seen us coming a mile away. So charming and smooth it’s scary. If we can do it over we may have made a few better decisions. But overall it was an exciting weekend. Just be smart and do what’s best for you as a couple not what the smooth talkers want. The resort was amazing though loved it so beautiful. We loved being naked by the pool was some nice bonding time. Thanks for the replies.

As an uncircumcised guy, I can tell you that I often feel like a novelty and sometimes like an outcast. I am originally from Holland but live in the U.S,, that is why. In Europe it is quite common. Being uncircumcised, I have heard it described as the difference between driving a Hugo (circumcised) and a Cadillac, for me and now I read also for the ladies. I keep the head of my penis clean by pulling the skin back every time I shower and rinsing it. Hygiene is a must!

My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for many years and we veered to MFM because it´s not always easy to find another couple with the same interests and level of arousal. We love MFMs or MMMFMs both in 3somes and Clubs and for me it´s very exciting seeing her being sexually pleased by man/men. I do not consider anything like cuckolding because we do it together, and the sheer expression of lust in her face outlasts any sentiment of jealousy or the like. She loves to lose herself in group rooms, and once we got into a cabin with me and 5 other guys, she did all 6 of us during over 2 hours nonstop.