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I first brought up the subject of gong to a club about 3 weeks ago. I never thought about it at all until a guy that works at the local club kept calling a local radio station offering he the DJs free admission. So one night on a regular date night after a few glasses of whisky I asked the wife, who is an avid reader of romantic fiction, “what is the hottest thing you’re read in your books?” She proceeded to tell me about all the MFM and swapping she’s read, and that it turned her on. There was my opening. I told her about the calls to the station and said it might be fun to go check out. She was all in. Fast forward to last Friday. We were offered an unexpected babysitter for Saturday night and we accepted. When we woke up Saturday morning we had the same conversation we usually do on a date day. What do you want to do? What do you want to eat? Where do you want to go? After doing normal everyday chores, I finally said “let’s go check out that club” She said “Thank God. I wanted to say it but didn’t know how you would react”. The plan was set in motion. I found a restaurant within a couple miles of the club and made reservations. Once at the restaurant, we had a long talk about what we thought we’d expect. What the rules of engagement were going to be and what the limits were. All said and done we agreed that we would go have a few drinks and watch. We love to people watch in everyday life anyway. Finally 9 o’clock comes and we enter the club. It was nice. Bar area was dimly light and quiet enough for conversation. Since we arrived at opening time and because it was our first time we were given a pretty extensive tour by the hostess, deliver our drinks of choice to the bar and had a seat. At first we kept to ourselves as I’m sure most do in this situation. After about 45 minutes we were approached by a couple a bit older then us (wife is 40 I’m 47) who had obviously had too much to drink. The female kept asking my wife to dance and she finally agreed. The husband started talking to me about his work and asked what I did. We had a little more small talk and the women came back. We made our exit as we weren’t really interested in talking with a drunk couple all night. We sat in the upstairs public area and watched as other couples started to file into the semi private areas. Some pulled the blackout curtains closed. Most only the sheer but a couple left the curtains open. This was our very first exposure to the lifestyle. People having sex, great sex, without worry of shame or embarrassment. We were hooked. It wasn’t long before we decided to five it a run. At first we were nervous. What would people say when they saw us? I’m a big guy (6’4 255lbs with a few extra pounds) my wife is a beautiful 5’9 185 and we both have a bit of body shame. We climbed in the bed pulled the sheer curtains and undressed. We were both super excited. This is crazy we said, but fuck it. Let’s do it. It wasn’t long before we didn’t even realize that people were there. And in a matter of minutes we opened the curtains all the way. Was this what we have been missing out on all our lives ( we’ve been married 18 years and together 22)? It was amazing. We finished got dressed and left the room. We made our way to the theater and found a seat near the open beds. We poured another drink and struck up a conversation with another couple. They were very friendly and sober. Our conversation was pleasant and soon turned to if we had been to the club or any club before. Both answers were “no” then we were asked if we had been approached by anyone yet. We said not really and told them of the previous couple. They then said that they were going to the couches in the theater area and that there was plenty of room. We were a bit apprehensive but said what’s the hell. We’re here, let’s see what happens. We followed to the theater where they took a couch and us the couch behind. There was open playing on the TVs and we watched as the other couple started. We still couldn’t believe what was happening and after about 15 minutes in the theater they announced they were going to a room. My wife asked if we could watch and they agreed. Then all the planning, thinking, worrying and anxiety went right out the window. As luck would have it the bed next to them was open. My wife and I climbed in and undressed. We opened the curtain between our beds and watched as the other couple engaged in oral and moved on from there. We couldn’t help it. My wife started giving me a blowjob to end all blowjobs. There we were. In a room with another couple having sex. Within what seemed like seconds the other wife asked if she could touch my wife. We agreed. My wife asked me if she could suck the husband and everyone agreed. Then the other wife said if my a wife got to blow her husband it was only fair that she sucked me. WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED? 2 hours earlier we were just going to watch. Now here we are in a soft swap with total strangers. It was beyond a doubt the most exciting thing we have ever done as a couple. It was so mind blowing for us that you couldn’t have knocked the smoke off our faces with a 2x4 yesterday. It seems odd to say but the experience has brought us closer together as a couple. There was no jealousy which was my wife’s biggest concern. There was freedom and love between us unlike any we have had before. We don’t know if we were just lucky this first time out or if it’s normal but we can’t wait to find out. There is much more to the story but I’ve droned on long enough. Sorry for the length of the post but I had to tell someone and this isn’t something you can share with your coworkers.

He committed crimes, got convicted and went to jail on multiple occasions and somehow you owe him a FFM? The "Krazy" in your name should be followed by a period. My suggestion is to get counseling, move out of state and leave no forwarding address. As Dr Laura says, "between now and dead, is this how you want to live"?

My take. Being a member of the LGBTQ+ community is not a choice. Swinging most certainly is. That said, within the swinger community, there are many members of the LGBTQ+ community. In the Venn diagram of the two communities, there is quite a bit of overlap, and the intersection of the Swinger and LGBTQ+ communities is where they (we) fall. However, to use the (minimal) legal protections currently offered to the LGBTQ+ community to defend a morals dismissal for lifestyle activities fails on the merits, it seems to me, as the lifestyle community is not a recognized protected group. That said, it matters little anyway. Many states, such as ours, are Right-to-Work states, and codified in the RTW legislation (at least for our state) is the right for an employer to terminate your employment for any reason that does not violate your constitutional rights, or for NO REASON WHATSOEVER. You are not owed a reason, and one need not be given. As such, in this state, if your employer feels that they need to terminate your employment for a violation of their morality terms, they have full right to do so, and one has no legal recourse. T

Games at club parties seem to help people to get to know each other and to start socializing. My wife and I have hosted many house parties over the last fifteen years. At the beginning we were eager to invent games and enthusiastically encouraged people to participate. It seldom worked. Within a couple of years it settled into playing just one game -- go upstairs and play "hide the sausage". Reason: the party guests seem, for the most part, to already know each other and need no encouragement to mix. Those who are new quickly get the idea that we all gathered to have sex.

We were with our neighbor. There was a ton of sexual tension between my wife and him. We ended up drinking and flirting. He and I began rubbing her tits nd making out. She undressed for us and and started sucking our cocks. She sucked his cock while I fucked her from behind - his dick was perfect and a lot bigger than mine. I could tell she was totally into him so I invited him to switch with me. I got on my back nd had her straddle my face - i figured it would drive her wild to have be eating her while he pounded her with his big cock. She came very fast and I shot a load in her mouth. when she was ready he put his cock in her again. While he was fucking i just instinctively rubbed his shaft with my tongue. As he pulled out of her i took the head of his cock in my mouth. He went back and forth between my mouth and her pussy until he finally went balls deep in her and ejaculated. I sucked his balls and could feel his thick cock pulsing as he put his load in her. It was a first for all of us. My wife was so turned on by the whole experience. We laid around afterwards and she continued to kiss us and play with our cocks. I held his cock as she sucked him off - he came again. My wife masturbated watching him sucking my cock. We sat back nd jerked off together until we both shot another load. She continues to totally get off seeing me with another guy.

I think we need to buy a magic wand. A story I never told anyone and I mean no one. I found my mothers toy while looking for eyebrow tweezers. I knew about toys. Never had one for myself. Couldn’t imagine my parents having one. Do parents have sex I thought at the time. Home alone I had my first toy and it broke. I washed it and returned it to her drawer. I checked a few weeks later she had a new one.

So a couple of years ago we were at a Local Swing club here in Vegas. In the couples only area the wife and I were going at it and did the roll over and start with another couple next to us and out of nowhere this older lady shrieks, "See, that's how you do it!" Well everyone in there started laughing and of course lost all erections. But was worth the laugh.

If you had asked me this question 10 years ago, I would have said yes. I would be very intimidated. But now...not so much. Here's why: The very first major argument Amy & I got into while we were dating was on this subject. I was the immature, insecure, naive 22 year old who had only been with two other women before her. She was more sexually experienced than I was. You can guess where the argument went. I felt very insecure, feeling I wasn't going to "stack up" well to the others. She told me I was very good, but let's be honest. Of course you would say that to the person you love. It wasn't until later on that my view started to change. When we had our first FMF, the other girl was a drop-dead gorgeous blonde 22 year old who was quite experienced herself. I had been drinking, and certainly didn't bring my "A" game that night, but what I lacked in stamina that night I more than made up for with my oral talents (Guys, is that not your favorite thing in the world? I swear I could go down on a woman for hours on end if they would let me. I'd rather do that than breathe!). Anyway, after the deed was done, I was, again feeling self-conscious. At that point, the other girl turns to my wife and says, "Damn! You were right. He is good! Can I borrow him every once in a while?" That little ego stroke was all I needed. Since then, I have been completely at peace with my own prowess. The way I see it is this. There are guys out there bigger than me. There are guys out there more experienced than me. But there is no one on earth who appreciates more than me the awesome gift a woman gives when she gives you her body, and I WILL show her my appreciation in my own way. I may be better than some, not as good as others. But I do things my way, and nobody else does it like me. That's where I think we have to be mentally. I don't care if my skills are better or worse. They are unique, just like we all are. I'd rather concentrate on enjoying the experience, and let the chips fall where they may. Trying to anticipate how you stack up to past lovers is like trying to predict the BCS in the preseason. The system is screwed up, so just take it one game at a time and let somebody else worry about where you stand. I can tell you with certainty that regardless of how good or bad a woman was in bed, I'm still damn thankful to get laid. Sex is like pizza. Even when it's bad, it is still pretty good.