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Agree with all the others, WAY out of line. I blame the hosts too in a way since the whole thing seems sort of out of kilter since they didn't bother to inform you what kind of party it was. It would be different if every party was a swinging party, but when every other party you've been invited to there has been vanilla, then obviously that's what you are going to expect this time too unless told otherwise, which they evidently couldn't be bothered to do. Some people are like that though, just assuming everyone will take things in stride and be ok with it no matter what. Those type of people make me nervous... Our house party experience is very limited, so no similar experiences there, but Mrs. cplnuswing has had a couple of times at swing clubs where an invitation from her to a single guy to dance obviously meant she was just dying to have his finger in her pussy about 20 seconds after stepping on the dance floor. So, moral of story is venue doesn't matter when it comes to dickish behavior. When it's happened, I just heard about it after the fact. She would just push his hand away and tell him no, and they've listened, so she would just pull back some to put some space between them and go ahead and finish the dance. Brilliant move there dude...let's see, you went from some big ole titties pressed up against you while a pretty woman was dancing with you and chatting you up, and that might have led to an invitation to come back and sit at our table with us, which might have led to much more than that. Instead, you got an awkward junior high dance and then got to go back to the bar to sit there with the other single males the rest of the night (at this club single males are restricted to the bar area unless invited by and accompanied by a couple to go anywhere else in the club).

I don't miss your point AT ALL. You get offended easily, I get it. On the other hand, you have chosen to ignore my point which is CONTEXT. And Im not sure that women are complacent at all. I described how Mrs Doc would react under some circumstances with the use of some terms and I can assure you, she wouldn't be complacent at all. And in fact, neither would I.

Definite red card. Ejection.

Kik seems to be the way most are going these days. I've used it off and on and it does seem to fit the swing scene fairly well. Ability to make groups, anonymity, etc. If I recall when you first sign on it does ask if it can use your contact list to find connections. I told it "Um, hell no".

To each their own, but I can't imagine a relationship lasting very long with a woman who imagined she was going to police my orgasms.

Good observation, but either way there are people who want to inflame any situation by saying, "Are you going to let HIM get away with THAT?" My wife has advised people going through a divorce not to feel that you need to show hurt and outrage just because that's what other people expect. In one case, she's turned the ex-wife and new girlfriend into good friends (much to the consternation of the busy bodies). The marriage was over before the girlfriend, so why take anything out on her? They have even occasionally double dated, but it's a bit much for the ex-wife's date.

Six years? I'm afraid that would make for a short test drive - of Mrs. Padoc not the Audi! ???

On the internet, there seems to be little concern whether I'm a slut, but I regularly need to confirm that "I am not a robot."

My wife told me that when we met that she had an insatiable appetite, which not only intrigued me, but matched my own sexual energy. It seems that several of my past girlfriends liked Double penetration. But Laura seems to Really like multiple cocks in her and was one of the few that I have fucked that love double vaginal and even double anal penetration, which is not easy as some of you may know. I have never minded another cock rubbing mine and we both cum. But what Laura likes is that she wants us both to clean up her pussy and share the cum with her. The secret of a successful DP or DVP is get out of the head and enjoy the pleasure. We have had so many couples that are not ready for this level of play due to some insecurities or jealousies. If you can let go of your fears and have fun fucking a hot slut like Laura, it is really easy. My best friend and I have got into an easy rhythm together and know what Laura likes and when. Just keep practicing and it can be a great experience. And yes, lots of oil all over our bodies helps. Dave and Laura