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Obviously I am naked when I am having sex, but I also enjoy being naked at spas where it is totally non-sexual (at least overtly, one never know what's going on in someone's mind). It is just so freeing for me to be nude among all sorts of naked people from children to old people, singles to families, all enjoying the sunshine, water, saunas, pools, steam rooms, and fresh air. I like seeing them and like them seeing me, all of us flaunting convention. This is all when I am in Europe, mostly in Germany and mostly on business when I get a break.

Well this was certainly unexpected...

40,000 ppls, 8,000 ppls......You guys are killin us LMAO. Our nearest town that has a name has 67 (sixty-seven) people and if ya ask me they counted some of the heads in the cemetary. Like Julie said play with people that are already in the lifestyle, they have as much to lose as you do. Avoid singles and avoid drunks and you eliminate almost 100% of the loose lips. Plus there is the degree of deniability as well the more prominent you are the more foolhardy the rumor can be made to sound. Personally I would love to be called a swinger, as of now all I get called is a musician. Swinger has to be at least a rung or so up the social ladder.

What's stopping them from telling everyone? The fact that if they tell on you they are telling on themselves. I think the key in a situation like this is to make sure that you ONLY swing with other couples who are already active swingers and not try to turn vanilla folks into swingers and definately don't hook up with singles in that type of market. Singles typically have a lot less to lose and often are a little more loose-lipped than other couples because of that fact. If they are already active swingers and not newbies chances are they know how the town can be and will be every bit as discreet as they have promised.