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We had been talking about having a MFM experience for quite some time in some away from home city, perhaps abroad. Our goal is for my wife to have her ultimate sexual experience as you know things "dry up" after more than a decade of same person sex (routine). We actually came upon an old friend recently divorced and someone we were both very comfortable with. Our staged MFM actually started over several glasses of merlot and a good meal followed by a visit to a handful of local pubs. We headed back to his place joking the entire way about all things sex. Our guards were all down and I asked my wife if she would consider a MFM with our friend. At first she nodded no... but as the conversation grew warmer she did not say no but "yeah that could be fun"... Fast forward as we were massaging her and slowly taking off her skirt to give her a massage our hands began cover her body. We stopped up and asked is this ok for each of us and we all smiled. I wanted to see where things went without me so I stepped out to get some water. As I returned he was kissing her thighs as he massaged her. I sat and watched until she asked me to join in again. I did and finally I started pushing the effort by removing her bra and pulling down on her panties while slowly glancing her pussy. She moaned as we took turns touch her pussy, rubbing and feeling the juices build up. I started kissing her breasts and our friend began licking her pussy finding her clitoris immediately sending her into ecstacy. She kissed me hard, almost as it was me giving her the experience myself. Her legs spread apart and I told her I wanted our friend to start and if that was ok. She said.. "Yes"... he positioned himself between her legs pulled down his pants, she leaned up and pulled down his underpants exposing his cock. He gently rubbed her pussy with his cock teasing her all the way. I slowly backed off sitting on her side... I joked about him taking the "bull" role. He smiled as he is smaller than me. I noticed immediately he took his role seriously, he was in heat as he probably had not had another woman since his break up. She looked to me and I smiled and watched, blew her a kiss and I told him to give her a great experience... he slowly began inserting his cock into her and she rolled her eyes and moaned. We never discussed protection as we knew each other so well. He began grabbing her ass and hips, squeezing and then grabbing her breasts super hard. I told him and her to speak dirty and loudly. Express themselves... both uncomfortable with the request it took a second then he started asking her how she liked it... he then started asking me if I liked seeing this... He asked her all were in agreement. He asked her "do you like my cock..?" "do you like it better than his" he asked? Tell me... he demanded an answer. She said..."yes I like cock"... "no do you like mine better than his?" as he pumped slowly but deeply. She "responded... yes... yes... I like the feel...". "what do you want...?" he asked her, she responded "to fuck me, fuck me, a fuck a baby in me..." My heart dropped as he pushed harder and harder. They then stopped as she clawed at the bed. I started to join back in and she pushed me away...saying her nipples were sore... he turned her over and rammed his cock into her again driving deeper and deeper.. he looks to me.."how do you like seeing me fuck her, I want to cum inside her" as he slapped her ass, She groaned... "more more.." as he fucked away. I stood like a zombie at their side. He summoned me over to look at his cock going into her back and forth... It was very erotic. She could not even see me anymore as he fucked her. He then slowed down and told me..."i am going to fuck in her in the ass..." something she would not agree to with me. I said.."is it ok"... he told me to shut up and he was in control... she looked at him and said.. "put it in..." and he started pushing into her ass. He pumped a few times going deeper each time, slapping her ass. OMG she said... and fell to her stomach where he prounced on her back his cock now in her pussy again. Fucking her like an animal in heat. She pushed me away as he grabbed her arms driving his cock into her. "you like this..." "yes"... she responded... breathing heavily... He asked her again..." is my cock great... what do you want from my cock that he cannot .." she moaned. "I will fuck you like a slut , a professional prostitute... I have never done that but can imagine how hard I would fuck them.." "yes" she said.."fuck me, fuck me harder, I would love to have your sperm in me, your seed..." Yeah you want a little "name withheld" to grow in you.." "yeah".. as he fucked her. She rolled over again and he took her legs and put them over his shoulders driving deeply again... he looks at me..."I am good at this... she really wants my cock.." do you want his? he asked her... She said no..."I only want yours please fill me with your seed, I love the feeling of cum in me..." He slaps her hips and then slows down... unleashing his cock in her. He slowly comes out, his cum pouring out of her, he then tells her.."aw come up here and suck my cock"... she does and licks as she cannot get enough of him in her. I sit there ... he heads to the bathroom, she covers up... keeping me a safe distance. He returns, and says "wow"... She smiles, heads to the bathroom looking a bit ill and worse for the wear. I wanted to talk about it but they were too exhausted. As we slept I was awaken by their conversation... she said.."I have never been treated like that before..." he said he had never done that before... and she said...he was like an animal in heat... his cock was so hard and felt so great and she has never ever felt so much cum in her before...I pretended to sleep when I felt the blanket move. He was moaning as she sucked on his cock again under the sheets. She hates blowjobs normally... as she jerked on his cock he pulls her up along side of him and slowly inserted his cock in her probably cumming again. Needless to say... the next morning was very very odd. We all kept a distance from each other.

We tried something new last night and were wondering if others have tried this. A couple that we have known for a while came over and we decided to have a “spa” night. We took a nice nude soak in the hot tub and then gave an erotic massage to each other’s spouse. We took care of them first and then we switched. Although we did bring each other close to orgasms our deal was not to cum. Afterwards, we relaxed in the tub again and then enjoyed some of the best sex we have had. I think the edging was the key along with allowing ourselves to bring it down a bit in the tub before bringing each other to climax. Anyone tried this?

My new fetish is simply to be watched. At this point in our fun journey, Iam totally getting off on others watching me or us together. We have been frequenting the public room where I completely release myself to the voyeurs outside. I'm also finding myself in rooms with three or four guys and masturbating for them without letting them play with me. Am I alone or are other guys or ladies at the point where they just want to be watched?

The neighborhood I grew up in had all new houses that were built for all the men that were discharged from WWII. The parents were young, and were having families. All the families had parties almost every weekend. No body had that much money so they had bar-b-ques, played poker, etc. One night a friend of mine and I watched the adults, we were hiding behind a door (I think they thought we were asleep) play what they called under the blanket. One of the wife's would go under a blanket and the others would decide what piece of clothing they should hand out. Most of the time they choose some piece of underwear, and they would end up topless to totally nude. After a while the woman would think it was underwear, as usual, so they would had that out first, while still keeping other clothes on. So the people would start choosing outerwear. The person under the blanket would hand out underwear just to discover it was some other piece of clothing, so they ended up naked anyway. I don't think they were true swingers. My wife's parents were swingers, and didn't hide it. Her daughter was also a swinger for a time. Not sure if she still is.

Excuse what? My wife and I love sex while stoned. Rex use or medical use is just fine for us. When it becomes a lifestyle, is where I get weary. But of course time are a changing. The US Government has lied about cannabis for decades. Now I’m not saying it’s a granola bar, but it’s a lot healthier then alcohol or prescription drugs. Do your research, you’ll be shockingly happy at the results, occasional use for rec purposes is fine and turns sex up to 11! Any questions on strain choices or going about smoking cannabis to make sex better, just ask I’ll set you up for a great time.

I am amazed that the phone number issue keeps coming up. Why not have a Google phone number or a number on Magic Jack, or number garage etc. that is JUST for LS friends? Yes someone could research them as well. Then again who can not get a hold of license plate registration numbers I am guessing nobody parks their cars two blocks from a motel or a party.

Well nothing says everyone is different then the OP. Everyone has their likes and dislikes. Their desires differ, attractions different. I draw the line at asking, telling, shaming and coercing anyone to change...do something different than who they are for the benefit of someone else’s (casual acquaintance, possible play partner, maybe) maybe interest or attention. My guess....your examples are having a great time with others who are not as selective. I would suggest attending the more commercial locations of the lifestyle, clubs/lounge on premise or possibly adult cruises or inclusive hotels. With higher standards come a more narrowed group to play with.

You can't make your wife swing, you can only tell her that you love her, then allow her to swing

His mom-NO Her parents maybe BUT they likely started after we did. When they retired a few years ago the moved to The Villages in Florida where there is a thriving senior swinger community. Funny story, she was visiting her parents and a neighbor popped over. The neighbor was going to be watching the dog while they were away for a few days. The neighbor gave a strange business card that raised an eyebrow. Dad tried to hurriedly explain that these were contact or courtesy.cards exchanged between neighbors to contact in case of emergency. Yeah, right.

She might not identify as a swinger, but that was a pretty swingeresque incident. For as long as it took her to do those two guys I’d say she and her husband were either honorary swingers or temporary hot-wifers.

In the general scheme of things, perhaps it is. The more restrictions you have, the harder it will be to "hook-up". One of the most common messages I have seen on this BBS is to "not go into the LS with a lot of expectations". (i.e. Your chances for disappointments tend to match your level of expectations.) Try to arrange face-to-face meetings sooner, rather than later. You will learn more in 3 minutes of a meeting, than you will in 3 months of texts, emails, etc. I am reminded of the famous "Peanuts" quote by Linus: "I love mankind, it's people I can't stand."

Are you a traditional Muslim couple? I don’t want to sound too insensitive, and our knowledge of the whole vulture is limited. However, we understand that what you seek is incredibly taboo and just not done in that culture. You and your wife will need to come to terms with what this means morally, emotionally, and mentally. We both came from co derivative Christian backgrounds, Catholics and Southern Baptist, and we still struggle at times with our religion and morality around the lifestyle. These aspects are not to be taken lightly and can have crippling consequences for you relationship with eachother and and your religion and lead to mental health issues down the line.

thank you my friend, good advice and you are absolutely right in what you are saying and have a good knowledge of the ideology here

An interesting question. My dad always preferred being nude but did not (to my knowledge) swing. After my mom divorced my dad and married my stepfather, there was some non-monogamy. It might have been consensual early, but did not stay that way, and she ultimately divorced him and did not remarry. She had a series of lovers, and they were informal as to how things worked. Mrs FL and I have always been casual about nudity and matter-of-fact about sex. Our daughter grew up more or less without body shame until the teenage years hit, and remains comfortable with us being nude around the home. She knows about our 'special friends' and while she expresses no interest in consensual non-monogamy for play (she and her b/f of 3 years are monogamous), she is acutely aware that we remain happy and very much in love--and the same cannot be said for her other friends' parents who (by and large) have played the pretend-monogamy-cheat-rinse-and-repeat pattern. No, her swinging would not creep us out. Quite the opposite, if she and her b/f get married, we want them to find lives that will keep them growing together. If the LS is part of that, wonderful. As an aside, she has explored her bi side. That's 'on hold' for the moment, but could well re-emerge. There is probably a heritable (genetic) component to exploring alternative life styles. There is probably a much greater experiential (environmental) component to embracing a different social norm. Looking back (the people at the movie theater now just look at us and issue senior tickets, no ID required )and looking around the world, we have come to understand that social norms come in two ways--imposed or agreed upon. Different societies and different cultures set up the social norms of nudity, sexuality and so on differently. Europeans are more open, Japanese are comfortable with nudity but far less so about sex, Scandinavians seem to be more comfortable with both, Americans equate nudity with sex and so on. What matters --to us at least--are less the social norms and more the value norms. We have found that our values are much more likely to be shared among people we meet in the LS than people we meet in our vanilla lives. Nude is merely 'comfortable in our skins', sex is not weaponized, honesty is expected, discretion is reciprocated, communication is open, trust is foundational and so on. The LS is not utopia, of course, and issues will always arise and have to be resolved. The better question is what feels more "real" -- the vanilla world that is riddled with struggles for power, untruths, camouflage, and carnage? Or the LS world that is more or less free from envy, jealousy, dishonesty--and yet with a dose of carnality? We accept that the two worlds necessarily co-exist, and yet as we age into retirement, we are drawn further into the latter.

A swinger's club in Yemen? Who knew?

Took your advice! I watched for a couple of minutes but the harder his cock got the more I wanted it. He was on his back next to my husband so I straddled him and watch my hubby finish himself off. Great visual and an even better fuck!

More better still the time I spread my legs and knocked off three with them (hubby got sloppy thirds, but I was second for him that night). An erection and ejaculation are terrible things to waste.

Isn't that CBD (Cannabidiol)?

This can definitely get tricky and uncomfortable. We recently had an experience with a close friend that started to get uncomfortable. Our friend had recently gone through a very ugly divorce. She has been unable to meet anyone and was simply miserable. After a night of cocktails I invited her to join us to simply unwind and enjoy some selfish pleasure. We were already very close and had spent many hours naked together in our hot tub. My husband and I gave her an amazing night of guilt free sex. We laughed about it a couple of days later and she clearly seemed to love the fact that we could have sex free of any strings. About two weeks later, we were out and she asked us to take care of her again to help her relax and de-stress. This time she really connected with my husband and couldn't leave his cock alone while I watched or gave her oral while he was inside her. A couple of days later, my husband told me.thay she invited him over alone so we had to call it quits. I think if you are going to go in this direction, it's important to make sure they are in a solid mental space to avoid an confusion.

I asking have to say to be fair, the ladies do the same every once and a while for the men. We put ourselves on full display and they watch us. The only difference is that we can actually see how excited they are getting as the bulges start to form in their pants!

Too much deprivation for me. And a waste of semen. My preference is to have an ejaculation in my vagina for safe keeping.

We have a good friend that is totally into this. She loves the verbal abuse and for the guys to totally use her body. She will take on 6 or 7 guys and let them take turns fucking anything they want. Just her groove - definitely not mine. I love having 3 or 4 guys at a time as long as they treat me like a goddess!

Is it common to launch a verbal insults during a gang bang? My answer for you is, not usual but not completely unusual. Some women actually groove on this kind of verbal abuse. Because they make you uncomfortable, you should not go again the an event arranged by this particular couple. But you should not feel discouraged to try a gang band by some other couple. Now, I'm going to lend some advise for which you did not ask. Before your separation and divorce are final, you might be giving your spouse a weapon for "taking you to the cleaners" should she decide to bring up your swing activity with an attorney. Wishing you good fortune.

I guess it’s not the right group for this question. We hang with a group with several bisexual makes and females. We are comfortable with all forms of contact. My husband enjoys performing oral on me while I am getting fucked and will suck my partners cock in between strokes. The ladies enjoy pegging the guys and we enjoy a lot of girl on girl action. He doesn’t prefer anal penetration but I have watched him take another guy and it’s hot as fuck. Guess it all depends on your group and their preferences.

I do love doing that. We were out this weekend and I had my pussy on full display several times. It’s also an incredible rush for me when I undress at the nude beach. It’s a mix of true nudists, swingers and total voyeurs. It’s pretty easy to discern who is who, so we always hang close to the voyeurs. They are usually single guys. Just love baring all for them and pretending to ignore them watching me. If he’s hot, i’ll go out of my way to make sure he gets a full view of what he came for. Hubby loves doing the same for the gay men or swinger wives.

My husband likes to pull out and I do find it a little frustrating. He tends to shoot very big loads and likes to see it all over my tits or back. That being said, he totally gets off watching guy with bigger cocks unloading in me and seeing my reaction. When they are finished with me he loves sloppy seconds. For him it's kind of a SPH fetish as he puts his smaller cock inside my loose wet pussy. He'll ask if I can even feel him or ask me to tell him how the bigger cock felt. Eventually he'll pull out and jerk off for me.

We have two guys that do this with us. It works well if the guy with the bigger cock lays on his back. I get on top of him face down on all fours. He penetrates me and gets me going. Next my husband takes me from behind. He presses his cock down so he can slide inside me. The guy on the bottom doesn't move muchso my husband does all the pumping. The internal stretch feels amazing and they usually cum together inside me.

I actually did that a few years back. Probably not the smartest move but man,what a rush. I had a little skirt on which was perfect. After losing my top and bra, the boys went wild when I slid my panties down. The other amateurs stopped with their top. When I opened my legs for the guys next to the stage, I thought my husband was going to go into cardiac arrest! We left shortly after and I rode him in the parking lot just to release myself - awesome.experience

Yes - we have had a couple of places get busted locally for pushing the limits. We get a couples massage about once a month from the same two therapists. The woman that works on me always pushes it a bit. She definitely teases when she is working my upper thigh and hamstrings. It would definitely be amazing if she would finally just lube up my cock and finish me off.

We are a married couple that has been having threesomes with our male friend for close to three years now,she has always let both of us cum in her when we first started doing this she would clean after one of us came in her but now that doesn't happen anymore,she has gotten up to seven loads in her when we get together..all three of us get alone great as much fun a the sex is we enjoy joking around about it to..anyone new to this will be shy about it a first but the more you do it the more fun you will have

My best friend and I have had threesomes with my wife for many years. We have never used condoms with him. Both times the three of us had DVP was memorable for many reasons. What was really surprising was that it happened spontaneously with no pre-planning and he and I had no problems getting into position. Both of us stayed very hard and we both came at the same time. For me, feeling him cum and feeling the additional lubrication immediately pushed my over the edge. It was a very intense experience for all of us. I highly recommend it.

Yes. My first time I was the one doing the pounding and made the other guy cum because he enjoyed our tips rubbing. When I felt his cock shaft pulsate and then warm cum on my shaft, my load immediately came so I pulled out, aimed and blew my entire load on his ball sack. TBH If the pussy is tight it will feel like your just rubbing dicks with lube. Its kinds like a double barrel hand job but instead of shooting your jizz in the air it gets all over both cocks (if one or both cum inside pussy together). IMO feels great but can be really messy if either of you cum a lot.

I am not trying to be a smart ass but please tell me where this went bad. You are using your wife and this other guy to fulfill your cuckold fantasy. Sounds like it went well for you. I used to be a long term play partner for a couple just like you. He would arrange all of these cuckold situations for me and the wife to act out. At times he would leave the two of us alone when I came to visit them in their home, other times I was invited over to their home while he was at work, and I was even allowed to spend the weekend with her once when they were on vacation but he returned home. Eventually, this created problems for the three of us. The wife and I became really good friends and I started viewing it as more of a poly dynamic than anything else. Especially since I ended up becoming one of his close friends and they started involving me in their personal affairs. However, as the relationship progressed I noticed that the husband would exert his position of power as her husband whenever he started to feel uncomfortable. He was never willing to travel to me or allow her to travel to see me alone. If I bought her sexy clothes she would not wear them for fear of disappointing him. If I invited the two of them to go to events with me he always said no and being the good wife that she was she would rarely opt to do anything unless he said yes. I put an end to the relationship because I was fully aware that the husband was using me to fulfill his cuckold fantasies but was unwilling to admit to his wife what his true intentions were. She had told me and a friend that she was no longer romantically attracted to her husband but didn't have the courage to tell him. Also, she told me that many of the men she had been with were because she wanted to be a good wife to her husband but given the choice she wouldn't have had sex with them. The whole situation became very uncomfortable and awkward for me. The point I am trying to make is one that has already been stated. Be careful what you ask for.

Looking back.. not that bad. After the initial "wow" phase I was and am OK with it.

Hey, you have every right to your opinion, and perhaps I am wrong. But I won't be screwing anybody other than my husband unless he is wearing a condom, no other options will be accepted. I have a relative that died from AIDS, and I will not even think about it. If he doesn't put a condom on he can have sex with his wife, or any other woman in the room, but it will not be with me.