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We are a M38/F37 couple married and know each other for 20 years. We've been our only partners - from kissing to sex. Few years ago, I helped bring out the hidden sexiness and exhibitionist nature of my wife. Ever since, she's been ROCKING it with clothes, looks that are super seductive, inviting, teasing - even to normal outings like to a mall or grocery store. Not over the top for common places but sporting short shorts, mini skirts, definitely cleavage showing tops. She has very attractive DD racks and an athletic body. We've been having so much fun just doing that and I just simply love and get hard when other guys look at her. When we are having sex, we have dirty talk with me mentioning names of guys that constantly flirt with her... she tells me that she loves others playing with her tits, nipples, etc. I know it started because she knew I like to hear that, but deep down I think she loves it too! However, she maintains a strong position on nobody else fucking her or me.. and we are both ok with that... Recently, few months ago, took the plunge and went to a LS club. Very nice experience. She felt at home exposing her ass, boobs, nipples, getting frisky overall. After some dancing (just us) that put on a nice show to others watching, we went to a private room. Though the room had curtains, we kept it open. She isn't a huge fan of bright light during sex... however, managed it ok and I just LOVED it when guys were standing out to watch her...I would ram her from behind and with her on her knees and hands, the view that someone got of her boobs shaking and dancing while I fucked her made me SO hard. And then, she'd ride me giving those watching an amazing view of her ass. I'd constantly lick her boobs/nipples - both in the private room and in the public space.. In another visit, the private room was occupied and we ended up going to a room with other folks playing.. It was amazing to even enter... we did our thing, I ate her, she gave me a BJ and it was fun to hear others make sounds... i'd do it again.. after being in the play rooms, we'd walk around and she'd be close to naked and seeing other guys watch her made me so fucking hard.... she's very shy and doesn't flirt or make eye contact with many... very rare...some day, I hope to see her flirt and have some fun... I want it for her first. I wouldn't mind it either

That reminds me of a time my parents may have realized we were swinging. We were building a new house and my parents met us at the ten acres to see it. While we were there, the contractor and his wife pulled up. And, as a matter of fact, the contractor and his wife were play partners of ours. We were talking about our house and the contractor suggested doing the vaulted ceiling in the living room a certain way that he was doing on another house he was building. We decided to go look. The contractor suggested that my wife ride with him and his wife with me so we wouldn't get lost if separated. Yea, right! Ha! Now I don't know what the contractor and my wife were doing on the ride but his wife was giving a great blow job. When we got to the other house, I could tell my parents were very suspicious of why we traded wives for the ride over.

We are right there with you. We are far from perfect and totally don't expect it in our partners, but I'm simply not into certain types. We have a group of friends that we play with and we are all in the same boat. Occasionally I want to have have two hung and fit guys to take care of me. Occasionally my husband wants me and a super hot woman to treat him like a prince. Typically we have with our beautifully imperfect friends and have amazing sex and a lot of laughs. Like most things, don't overthink it.

It has been my experience that, in order for a couple to be successful swingers, you need to be able to speak, openly and honestly, about anything. You need to trust her and she needs to trust you, completely. So, that is my suggestion, even more to you in your society than to another... show her she can trust completely. Show her you trust her completely. Show her that you can talk to her about anything... your fears, your concerns, your deepest most hidden desires. Show her that she can share the same with you... without fear of judgement or punishment. Trust each other completely. Communicate openly and honestly. Then, you can begin to explore swinging.[/QUO thank you very much my friend

Thank you for that insight. I certainly was not trying to insult anyone. Wife and I are both into physical fitness and look for similar partners. I don’t think that makes us bad people.

In a study conducted by a conservative Christian polling firm, Barna, Evangelicals have the highest divorce rate; Lutherans, atheists and lesbians the lowest. (Didn't mention "nudists, sluts and perverts," sorry.) It seems that if you want to stay together, it's best to not have any rules except love your spouse as you would yourself.

This is why we like SB so much. Cortical stimulation matters.

Funny you say that. Of my vanilla friends, so many have very rocky marriages and love time away from their spouse. I'm the opposite. I HATE time away. She's not only my wife but my best friend. That's how I'm so confident in doing this with her

We find that very few couples can understand our lifestyle choices so we choose to keep things private. We are known as nudists, sluts and perverts among some of our friends so we choose to not try to explain. We are also the only ones with a solid marriage and are always together having fun.

I think the issue that grates with me is that some guy posts this fictional story as something that happened illicitly or was even non-consensual. The underlying "sincere thought" is that this is something he struggles to admit turns him on and has to frame as a mess for which he bears no responsibility. Almost inevitably, the controversy is some variation on his wife getting pile-driven and/or impregnated by some black guys, even if he has to claim his wife was raped to get where he's going in his story and put us all on about how distraught he is that this terrible thing happened - despite clearly masturbating to it. We see this over and over again, to the point that when the story ends with "Does anybody have any similar stories?", it's almost like somebody's lit the Bat Signal that our time is being wasted. Maybe we can call it the Black Signal. If you want to watch your wife get roughly air-tighted by three black dudes who ran out of condoms before they got to her while they insult your penis or whatever, that's completely cool. It's a genre of porn for a reason. I'm not kink-shaming. I'm shame-shaming. People should really just take ownership of what they're into instead of crab-walking around it by pretending they're just passive observers as their wildest fantasies tragically unfold around them.

Mother Earth provided the way to treat illness by causing the plant to grow in different strains. For instance, the plant that relieves seizures doesn't get the patient high. Medicine people of the plains used marijuana and many other herbs and plants to treat a myriad of diseases. The Cheyenne elders say that Mother Earth and Father Sky have provided a cure for every disease. One only needs to find it.

Sharing a few updates here reflecting on some recent experiences Few weeks ago, we were at a LS event and it was a good evening. Lots of exhibitionism from the Mrs that was much appreciated by the crowd that evening. In the last couple of visits, we had "progressed" from playing in a private room to a play room with others watching.. It was AMAZING!!! Last visit, we were getting ready to leave. Honestly, not much action in terms of others seeing us, and I was itching for that. So, we were intentionally sitting at a spot where folks can get a really good look at her topless view and with a pair of DDs, it's kind of hard to miss I'm already excited at others checking her out and then one gentleman approaches her. Gives her some really nice compliments and sits next to her. All along, super respectful and asking for permission before doing anything or even saying anything. After asking for permission to give her compliments, he asked if he can get a hug. They had a nice, long hug with her tits tightly compressed against his chest. Some oohs and aaahs already. Few more compliments later, he asks if he can feel her breasts. I tell him it's up to her. She says yes. He takes his hands to her boobs, feels it nicely, cups it and enjoys thoroughly along the way. He whispers into her ear few more compliments and asks her if it's ok for him to suck her boobs. All along, she's honestly in a state of shock. No other guy has ever touched her boobs. She says yes to sucking her boobs. He goes on to suck her right boob. I'm all crazy horny at this time. I couldn't control and went on to suck her left boob. So here we are, in a very visible spot, with two guys taking on each side of her boobs and she's just closing her eyes and taking it all in... It was already everything I wanted... EVER... He then asks, what we like - see, be seen, etc. She said both. We proceed to one of the playrooms. I begin to take her from behind. she's completely naked of course. he is seeing her DD boobs bouncing and moving erotically as I take her on in doggy position. He immediately pulls his pant down, and begins to stroke at us having sex. I dont even know how to react at this. Overwhelmed is an understatement. He asks if he can take a look at her pussy. She shows him. No touching involved. He indicates to his dick and asks her if she wants to give him a BJ. She wasn't ready. Instead, she grabs his dick and strokes him. He is in another world, clearly! We then tell him this is the first time ever she has been sexually involved with another man.. He just couldn't believe it and passes a comment about being a forbidden fruit, etc. We finish up and leave. She was stunned, shocked and definitely a feeling of guilt was seen in her. WE've been talking. all good and she kinda wants more now Still very clear guidelines on being "soft". But been thinking of creative moves/experiences... Let's see how things go I can't even explain my joy and feelings on seeing my wife being enjoyed by another man... I know she was more shocked and in awe and so perhaps didn't "enjoy" as much.. hopefully second time around, that shock element will be absent and she can enjoy Would love to hear your comments

Ok so after finally getting started in swinging proper we found or they found us I should say an amazing couple. We are both 27 but he is 52 and she is 48 though it was fantastic all the same. We met at a bar which we have never been to a bar so that was great. We sat next to eatch other and was rubbing thighs which was like damn. They had so many swinging stories it was amazing and they were pretty cool people. After that we met back at their place and chilled in their hot tub. (We have never been in a hot tub before either) After some chatting they started making out and at first I was like this guy is kissing my wife but then I gave my parter my undivided attention. We did separate rooms and I'll let you fill in the rest. We are on a fwb hall pass with them now and am loving it.

My college roommate Terry carefully and privately asked any woman he thought could be interested if she'd like to get together to play. He had more college sex than anyone else I ever knew. We were both 19 and for several months he had a 28 year old state office worker named Tina who came by for sex during the week or when she had time available on the weekend. I was on the sofa snuggled in a comforter trying to study when they came out of his bedroom after a session. She had on one of his button front shirts and he had gym shorts on and they joined me on the sofa. Tina scooted her feet down under the comforter, and as she did, I told her I could see Paris. She started rubbing my bulging shorts with her foot. After a bit, Tina suggested that she and Terry take me to the bedroom. Into the bedroom we go, Tina strips off and Terry drops his gym shorts and climbs on for the second go round of the afternoon. Me, shy and embarrassed, finally lose my shorts and tee shirt and lay next to them feeling Tina's boobs and licking nipple... When Terry finally came, he rolled off and he said your turn with Tina agreeing. Until this point in my life, I figured I just as soon would rather go where no man had gone before. I thought about it about 2 seconds, figured it wouldn't kill me and I climbed on, slipped in for sloppy thirds. It was the best 5 seconds of Tina's life (LOL). 4 strokes and I popped the cork came.... SOOOOO embarrassing........ Rob

My wife actually said to a playmate one night, when asked "do you swallow?".. her response.. "Why would I put your dick in my mouth if I didn't intend to swallow?"

We just recently went to an on site club for the first time ever, and it was our first experience other than going to a nude beach together. The first night was singles and couples. There were a lot of single men there, but for the most part people were very polite. The second night was couples only and had a more relaxed erotic vibe. We chose on both nights to only play with each other, as this whole adventure is totally new to us. Here is a very long but detailed account of our first night in the club. Maybe this will help some of you who are like us . . . We had fantasized about possible different scenarios happening, but in the end we agreed to go to the club with no expectations and some definite boundaries and a safe word. We agreed we would definitely go into to back area where street clothes are not allowed and have sex with each other. We also agreed that me playing with other girl would be acceptable if that were to happen. Anything else needed to be discussed. The first night was couples, single males and single females. As you can imagine there were more single males than females there. We started out in the bar area, and had a couple of drinks. I know Rabbit was a little concerned about the fact I downed two vodka and tonics in record time. We had dinner and although we were both nervous, I did enjoy erotic flirting with Rabbit in the bar, letting him slide his hand up my fishnet clad legs and touch my pussy. I wore a push up black lace babydoll underneath my top and slit skirt and it wasn't long before the top was off and my legs were up in his lap with the skirt parted. We both looked really sexy, but any kind of dress is allowed in the bar area, from street clothes to lingerie to towels. It was however a bad euro bar kind of vibe in there. We talked with another couple who come to the club often but don't really do anything other than dress seductively and go to the back where the girl sits on other men's laps. I don't even think they had sex together while we were there. I found out from her that one of the single men was trying to catch my eye at the bar, which I didn't even notice because I was too busy eye-fucking Rabbit at the time. He asked her why we were there. She told him we were there to play with each other and that was it as far as she knew. We mustered up our courage and went to the back where we undressed in a unisex locker room and were given towels. This night was weird and really quite creepy due to the fact that the single men were everywhere and will come up really close to couples and masturbate. When asked to move on they were very polite however. I was very surprised that I did not find it erotic to watch them masturbate, because I love seeing that in videos or watching Rabbit. If you are looking for a gang bang type situation, an extra man, or like to watch your female partner with another man, this is the night to go, but we were not into that sort of thing. At one point we thought there was a gang bang going on in one of the rooms and I told Rabbit to go look if he liked while I stayed with the couple I mentioned earlier and chatted. As soon as he left, there were men approaching me, so be prepared for that. People there do seem to respect the word "No" however. There were private rooms with locks on the doors, an "orgy room," a couple or bars, and a hot tub and swimming pool room with beds and lounges surrounding it. We ended up playing in the hot tub and pool where people watched us and fucking in the "Orgy room" a couple of times with other couples next to us having sex. We watched other couple having sex as well from the hallway. At one point we had an audience while Rabbit was fucking me from behind in the orgy room. We did think there was some isolated swapping going on in the orgy room but not really a full blown orgy. There was one woman who was doing dances most of the night on the table in the back bar while some men masturbated. A couple of things we learned: Communicate the entire time. This we agreed to do before we got there. The private rooms are a good place to go if you need to talk alone, but be sure and lock the door. Although there is a rule that no one is to enter the private rooms if the door is closed, this is not always followed. We were in there having a "state of the union" meeting and someone just opened the door and asked if we wanted company. Don't make eye contact if you don't want to be approached on this night. Be prepared for great sex after you leave the club! Even though we had had sex a couple of times that day, and several times at the club, we couldn't get enough of each other. Still can't in fact! The next night we went was a couples only night and had a completely different, comfortable, more erotic vibe.

I was in my office on Monday morning and one of my road supervisors was just getting off work. I was giving him a pay raise so he was very happy. My very beautiful hispanic secretary walked in and handed me some paperwork. After she left he made a comment that she had a great ass and would love to spend the weekend in her bed. I just laugh a little thinking that I and my wife just did spend the weekend with her. Little did he knew. This was also the same lady that I had to fire later on because she started taking Liberties at work because of our relationship outside the work place. I will NEVER do that again!!!

I'm a woman who has guided my husband's cock into another girl. It was HOT HOT HOT to me. I know you were asking men, but thought I'd share anyway.

We have had a few times that this kind of comment has come up. The other day one of the guys at work called my husband to let him know to pick up one of the workers on the way in. Hubby dear knows that this guy has a bit of a thing for me, and that I think he's a cutie, so he teases him mercilessly every chance he gets. I made a comment that my hubby was getting old and he could come over and take care of things for me (jokingly ofcourse), hubby teased that he was okay with that. The next comment from the young guy was "I had no idea you guys were swingers." We couldn't stop giggling for an hour.