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Hello everybody! My husband have decided that after what feels like forever in talking about it we would finally jump in to this wonderful world. We have been taking our time and not overwhelming ourselves or letting it completely consume our relationship with each other. We met a couple online and after 2 weeks of taking we ended up meeting for dinner and hitting a club. This being or very first sex club. As much as I said I wasn’t nervous man we’re my palms sweating as we got out of the car. My first lesson learned.... I dont want to ever go back to this club on single male night :0 single men were getting a tad bit too close and making us all very uncomfortable. The bonus was that it gave us a chance to really talk to the other couple we went with. And the 4 of us have hit it off unbelievably well. There is quite a distance between where we live so it will help to ensure we take it slow. We are however talking in a group chat all the time. About life, the weather and also but not only sex. We live in Toronto Canada and I feel like I can’t find a lot of the more low key swingingly lifestyle here. Everything seems to be big and over the top. And not really what I’m hoping to start off with. Even the club we went to was at the other end of the city But I guess as time goes on maybe my eyes will widen a bit? I’m assuming I wont see any billboards that say “swingers party here!” Lol I can say that as my husband and I have decided to take this leap our relationship couldn’t be better. Is this normal? Like sex twice a day and can’t keep our eyes off one another. Any advice for a new couple would be great!

Hello all, my wife and I are looking into going to Caliente Tampa in late June and was hoping someone here could shed some light on the accommodations. I’ve been able to find info on the social scene, which looks to be fun (but please feel free to let us know more), but I can’t find a whole lot on the rooms/condos. Not expecting a 5 Star resort, but would like some sort of insight. Should we stay at hotel or Casita (not sure what this even is) or condo? Also any info on experience if you took the Club Preview Tour promotion would also be greatly appreciated. We’re looking forward to a great time (we’ve only experienced a day/night pass at Hedo...good times!), but don’t want it to be ruined by substandard accommodations. Thanks for any input you can provide! J and L

Being able to talk about anything, to know you won't be judged, to just be open...it IS great and its all a part of what makes swinging so incredible. Is it normal...absolutely! Keep taking it at your own pace and just enjoy the ride.

Thanks for the review. Wife and I were planning on going but work got in the way. Sounds like we didn’t miss much. We do visit every so often but usually just go to Colette’s.

Maybe kind of vanilla but they have a four-way with 4 really cute Young thin tight smooth guys , All taking turns with me, just chatting and having a fun time. I know kind of boring but the things we could do.

We've not been to NIN and most likely will not go for the reason you noted...lack of central places to meet people. We've been on a number of lifestyle cruises as well as several trips to Desire. And they were all better than hotel takeovers in our mind. We did the Vegas Exchange a few years ago at the Alexis Park All Suite Resort. The event was sold out, a couple of pools at the resort. One restaurant and not that great so many people scattered to off property for dinner. If you did not make connections at the pool, you were on your own. And the pool was not clothing optional so another factor diminishing the experience. On the cruises and at Desire, it is contained and easy to run into people the entire trip. The Vegas Exchange was in August - have never been exposed to such heat in our lives and we should have known better. We've been to NO and Bourbon Street in April and the smell was awful. Can only imagine it in July with more heat and humidity. Still, others go and recommend it. Different strokes...

If your partner doesn't know and consent to it, then doesn't matter the gender involved, it's cheating. Having said that, I do feel for people who are bi without their spouse knowing (and being able to accept it) and how that would put even more stress on doing the right thing by staying faithful. Sort of damned if you do and damned if you don't. Tell the truth and they feel betrayed, act out the truth and they are betrayed, keep it all to yourself and you feel betrayed by yourself. Tough place to be, but still, not a license to cheat.

Where did I say she only considers his physique? He could be an Adonis but if he’s an arrogant asshole she’s not fucking him. Part of my post was in jest, thought that was obvious. Just think there is an abundance of hot women who have guys that are not. Here is nothing wrong in taking pride in your appearance and looking for others that do as well. Haters always gonna hate.