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we are arab married couple from yemen 46 years both , married 19 years ago, and we have been keeping this tendency because of the ideology in an Arab society (as you know), where there is a lot here, but in secrecy and keenness. We have recently begun to talk about it. They have the same tendencies but need to be encouraged. We recently started to get to know the world of swingers and take some bold images. The question is: How can I encourage my wife to be fully convinced of this field and encourage it? What are the ideas and suggestions in order to make the wife swingers please. thank you

Geek here! Video games, comic books, Legos.

I hadn't thought about it but now that you say that it really rings true... most of the geeky people we've played with identify as poly or kink or both.

I'd be curious to know where this figure comes from. There's little in the way of hard data about the swinger world. It's not an area where sociologists tend to tread.

My wife and I stayed at a place in New Mexico that has ten rooms and that is advertised as a resort but is supported primarily by groups of people who already know each other by way of Facebook, SLS, or other social media. When a lifestyle group is interested, the owner/operator will reserve a block of consecutive days anywhere within a span of three to thirty. The group we were with had twelve days. In talking to the owner, he said that he would starve if he marketed only to swingers. He manages to book about three groups of swingers each year. The remainder of the time is for hunting groups, skiers, fishermen (there is a nearby, yearly contest). When not hosting a swingers’ group, he will accept single reservations. He has a fully-equipped kitchen but some groups are not interested in food service so he uses one of two local caterers who can use his kitchen for making breakfast, lunch, and or dinner.

I think for many people in the swinger lifestyle the idea of your spouse having "total passion, staring into each others eyes" for the person they are playing with is a bit off limits. That gets into polyamory, rather than swinging.

Best way to describe us we are bi when it comes to swinging. Neither of us had or would go looking for a bisexual experience by ourselves, but with the right couple, anything goes! I am actually really proud of mr. A for letting it happen...and enjoying it!