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At one point years ago, my wife Mary and I decided to have a murder mystery party at our house. I looked at all the ones that were commercially available, and they all seem to end with plausible reasons for any of the participants to be the murderer. That’s boring to me. So, we wrote our own. Five of our friends were invited to be ‘suspects,’ and we had clues scattered around the house (a newspaper article said one of the guys had just been picked up on embezzlement charges, for example,) and we had certain scenes planned for specific times. They were in various parts of the house, from the living room to the bedroom, to the kitchen and the garden. One of the subplots was that Mary was having an affair with our interior decorator. Whether a guest was able to see these scenes depended, of course, on whether they happened to be in the right place at the right time. At the agreed on moment, I was poisoned in the living room, Mary was found dead in the guest bedroom of a gunshot wound. A naive young lady got to me when I was out in the garden and told me very seriously, “Adam, I think Mary’s having an affair!” She was quite serious about it, and she still didn’t quite believe it was a hoax until we all gathered afterward, took the vote, explained the various subplots and determined the winner. How shocked she would have been to find out that just a few years later Mary became a hotwife! Oh, and another thing - - just to top it off, of course the interior decorator was gay. He even propositioned me once!

Hi all. I'm a newbie from Northern Michigan here. What's prompted me to get on various swinger boards is the one most common fantasy my wife shares with me is wanting to be fucklicked. We often discuss fantasies of a threesome or foursome while in bed. Doing so seems to really get her hot. Me too! I'm totally OK with doing a MFM with her, or whatever other combo she's willing to try. I've told her that as well, usually as she sharing her fantasy me responding "I'm ok with that". But that's where it ends. She's pretty conservative in public. A club setting absolutely out. Kind of shy. Mid fifties. Great shape and good looking. We've been married over 30 years. She's a "thinker", so I'm concerned if it's something pre-arranged, such she's expecting it, she will over think it, and back out. That leads me to consider doing some prescreening, arrange a meeting with a candidate, likely a few meetings and let some chemistry start and see where it goes from there. Perhaps find someone with common interests (camping and motorcycling are our areas of interest BTW). Let a friendship develop first. But that seems disingenuous. How do I best move this to the next stage and actually do something? Thanks in advance for your input!

I think the same thing happened with Sargent Shriver, who set up the Peace Corps. His wife, Eunice Shriver, supported him in his 'new' relationship when she visited him at the custodial facility.

Regardless of whether parents or children are living with you, if it's your house you can let them know that they need to be out fortnightly, say every other Saturday from 6pm until 1am. No explanation given or needed. Use electronic locks that are programmable for entry on permitted days and times.

This is a post from five years ago, but I still remember the event and looked it up: "... Lora, hubby and I were in a small town grocery store after hiking with some friends. Those two were grabbing a few things together while I was looking at something else. They went up to pay for their purchases, hubby gave the cashier the money and the cashier gave the change TO LORA. A shock went through me. Is it that obvious? It was like, "See, I'm not the only one that recognizes it." You don't give the change to another person unless there is a possessory interest involved. By taking that $2.67 it was like she had just stolen my husband." Since she is part of our family, nothing is off-limits for Lora and hubby, including having a child together. But somehow that has stuck in my mind.

I'm slightly exhibitionistic, slightly voyeuristic, and have a significant blowjob/cumshot fetish going. Watching Mrs. E suck cock and/or take a load on her chest while I fuck her with an audience works on multiple levels.

What's in it for me as the husband? Simple, I like seeing her happy and having fun. What's in it for her? Simple, she likes seeing me happy and having fun. It really comes down to just that, and it doesn't matter if the scenario is a threesome or with another couple.

Swingers like freedom....fun....limited inhibitions. We like open discussion, honest communication.....honesty....we like to trust. We love our freedom to express.

Experienced some DVP this weekend. Our partner was pretty big and he felt very good as I was on top and facing him. After climaxing with him, my husband entered me from behind. As his penis entered, he pushed the bigger dick against the front of my vagina and really stimulated both my deep and shallow spots. The bigger guy didn’t really move much. My husband and partner ejaculated together after some amazing rhythmic pumping and said rubbing the underside of their cocks in me was amazing.

Hello. Welcome to The Swinger's Board! We've done Dp and DVP. Once you are able to accomplish a double penetration, coming isn't usually an issue. Maybe after you have done it a dozen times, and know how to start and continue comfortably you can reach an orgasm. In the beginning, it's more of a total and literal cluster fuck. Trying to stay hard while giggling is difficult. You can't go into a DP thinking "Oh, this is going to be SO hot". It's best if both guys know each other pretty well and there is no homophobia. Everyone has to have a open mind, be uninhibited and able to laugh at failure. Once everyone is rocking together and all is going well, there is still going to be one guy who is struggling to keep the party going. You can always tell a difficult position when it isn't even that easy looking in porn. If you watch, you will be able to see a guy who's thighs are on fire, a guy who has trouble staying in or staying hard. Honestly, in the dozens of DPs I've been involved with, I came once. And the other guy came a few minutes later. Never together. She on the other hand, came and came and came, every time.

So it is not just me who assumes that?

And we automatically assume that anyone who has a hot tub might just be a swinger.

Swingers like Hot tubs. They fancy themselves as THE hot tub people. Some even think that swinging was the reason hot tubs were made. Swingers can't understand why some people get in the hot tub with clothes on. After all, it's not the community pool... (I used to get a big kick out of the original White People blog)