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What the fuck is wrong with American culture? We can watch men, women, and children butchered in various vile manners, watch seemingly endless parades of programs about serial killers, vampires, and other creatures. But the slightest shot of a nude breast or bum is offensive? To who? Is our society so repressed that we act more like the Inquisition, than the freedom-loving people we are supposed to be? The nude body is taboo , but a dismembered one isn't? WHAT THE FUCK!!!!!! Ok..... rant over.

Raises hand. Lol Star wars Star trek 40k LoTR GoT Scifi anything Medieval Faires Highland games Video games Etc Etc But still love outdoors, sports, hunting, shooting, etc. You could say we play for both teams

Alphabet soup it can indeed become. Especially after four people. With three there is the likelihood that one of the three will be the focus. It just seems to work out that way. I never make the assumption that MFM excludes MM interaction. That is why it always comes up in conversation. I do tend to make the assumption with MMF that MM interaction is expected. Gender-wise the same theory applies to FMF and FFM.

Fla-swing99; the way I think of it is this; If you have one child and love that child, and you have another...are you incapable of loving that second child? Most parents feel a deep love for their children, enough that they would willingly sacrifice their lives to save them. I know that I do. I have three children. I don't love any of them more or less than the others. It might be different with each, but the strength is there with each. Our hearts and minds are able to carry such love for multiple children. Similarly, most love both of their parents. That is a different sort of love, but the love one has for both parents can be just as strong for both of them. You can continue these comparisons to extended family and friends. So, if we're capable of having types of love for multiple people such as kids and parents, why would it be the case that when it comes to someone we are romantically engaged with we are incapable of romantically loving someone else with the same intensity?

As a single female I love MFM and prefer the men know each other. I recently put out an ad stating specifically what I was looking for, clear I was only going to meet both at the same time to avoid any bait and switch. We conversed through the app, met in a public place. I am just going to say I got just what I wanted and we discussed meeting again.

Just put yourself out there, but be clear that "above the waist" and same room sex with your own spouse is your limit. As you can tell from the responses here that you'll find other interested couples. Be sure to have an honest discussion afterwards, which means listen, not just talk. You may find something one of you may not like or other things you're willing to move forward on.

Thank you very much all for the responses, its been very interesting to learn everyones perspective on this issue. As I said, I was simply curious about the subject but please don't misunderstand that to mean I took issue with it or judged anyone based on it. I do not believe there are any right or wrong answers when it comes to how an individual feels. Again, thanks for everyone's input.

Shorecpl4u hit the nail directly on the head!

Trust me you and the husband will be watching intently and doing a lot of high fives lol. One thing I noticed, at least at first was, I couldn't remember a lot the next day. It's kind of like sensory overload. You're watching something that is so stimulating and over the top that it's hard for your brain to process and file away. All I can say is I never get tired of seeing my wife with another woman. High five hahhahaa

Violence has been proven to sell pretty well, and has a better lobbying crowd than nudity does. Also there is the aspect that violence can be attributed to "evil" and as such can be shown and said "see this is evil". Meanwhile you are looking for nudity to be put in a good light, which is a tough cookie since it's attached to sex, which is typically cast in a bad light.

Hubby & I don't look for single males b/c we have already had quite a few of those experiences. We are looking for some couple experiences. We are however considering looking for single males again. But the biggest is a single male that acts in ways he shouldn't. We have had a few that try to "get" me. Hubby hates those. Not for fear I will do anything, but for fear he might have to kick there butt!

Any advice on finding single males-other than the "personal ads" route? We would like to find some single guys "desperate" for sex. I think my wife would enjoy it. But the clubs here don't allow singles. Are conventional nightclubs a good way to find them?