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Keep in mind that over 50% of married couples break up, it only makes sense that some of those couples will also be swingers, but I think the number of swinger couples that split is substantially lower than average.

Laura and I hosted "Meet-Ups" in Tulsa. People who got into town on Friday (twelve of us that time) went to dinner at a local Tex Mex place. We filed in and sat at what must have seemed to be random. The waitress wanted how to how she should arrange the tickets. I told her my wife was the lady in purple at the end of the table. The lady next to me said, "My husband is sitting next to her. Put mine and his together." She finally got it right by asking married couples to raise their hands. Later she leaned over and whispered into my ear, "Is this a swingers club?" "Who wants to know?" I asked. "A swinger," she whispered. She and her husband joined us at our vanilla party on Saturday night after she got off work.

Lionheart, just to nitpick your nitpicking. (Of course, no offense intended.) Although your quick summary of 2,000 years of history is mainly correct, it leaves out much subtlety. For example, although the property laws you suggest for the Romans is true for unmarried women, once a woman was a widow she was able to marry pretty much whoever she wanted at that stage, or remain unmarried assuming she wished to and had sufficient monies; also, divorce was rather easy to come by. Both of these differ severely from Christian Europe during the middle ages. Although the 'publicized' rationale for Henry VIII's defection from Catholicism was his wish for a male child which Catherine couldn't give him, the desire for the riches of the Catholic landholdings and the paucity of his treasury may have been as much or more of the impetus. History is very subtle, and should be treated very carefully.

My wife likes circumcised men to have intercourse. But uncircumcised men are easier to jerk off and the foreskin feels so cool. She is amazed at how many different kinds of foreskin there are.

Mrs Doc is fairly tall (5'7") and likes guys who are taller than she is with broad shoulders so her choices tend to be 6'-ish and around 200 lbs making them generally on the larger, more muscular side. Surprisingly tho, the male of our favorite couple is about 5'9 and 160 and she says he's the best swinger sex ever. If I live to be 100, I'll never figure that woman out.

We've had a great time with this with the right (very trusted) couple.

Even if it did/does happen, it's not uncommon in vanilla life either. Probably happens less with swingers because if they have crazy desires for someone they can act on it and get it out of their system rather than breaking up or cheating.

So far, this ^^, has been the most intelligent post in this thread.

If pussy to ass is an issue, we're all in trouble.

Getting the order right would mean vaginal to anal and not vice versa. Lots of bugs in the rectum that can wreak havoc in the vagina. It’s always necessary to change condoms when going from anal to vaginal intercourse. (I’ve also been told there are organisms in the vagina that can be problematic in the anus/rectum, but I’ll leave the answer to that to the medically qualified on this board.)

I've only done this once and I was left a little sore. I wasn't expecting this to happen, there are certain obvious variations in guys that I wasn't prepared for.

He's not better. Just different. And I enjoy you and him in different ways. You are both unique and special to me. I love you. He's something we do for fun.

Maybe I'm not as aware of you, but I cannot tell a difference based solely on circumcised/uncircumcised. The overall differences among dicks and guys is greater.

My hubby is uncircumcised and I can tell you that the big difference is when they are inside (although only without a rubber). You can feel the sensation of the foreskin moving and after that you want nothing else...

Trust me you and the husband will be watching intently and doing a lot of high fives lol. One thing I noticed, at least at first was, I couldn't remember a lot the next day. It's kind of like sensory overload. You're watching something that is so stimulating and over the top that it's hard for your brain to process and file away. All I can say is I never get tired of seeing my wife with another woman. High five hahhahaa

We have enjoyed this as well, not as some cuckold experience, but between two couples. Early on we met a couple that was about our same age. They new to the swinging thing so we were eager to play with them. It was the first time either guy had the chance to guide another man's cock and it was a huge turn-on for each of the guys and the girls. A very wild time.

oh... I don't know... I find swinging is much more about the PERSON than the PENIS and it isn't something that comes up in conversation ordinarily for us anyway... I think it is closer to 50/50 in the guys we meet anyway... I just never gave it any thought one way or the other...