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PSU, I'm glad you said that. "I also don’t get why guys want to finish by their own hands and cumming on my body." It happens all the time in porn, I guess it's so that's the only way the filmmaker can demonstrate that the guy ejaculates. But in real life? I can masturbate whenever I want and come into the air. But when I'm with a woman I have my choice (assuming she's willing.) Inside her, in her mouth, even in her anus. Why wouldn't I want to come inside her someplace? Just doesn't make sense to me. If you're a guy who's into that, I hope you'll post the reasons you decide to play that way . . . No judgments, of course, everybody's welcome to do as they wish.

I am never surprised because I think I know when it’s going to happen. I am more surprised when a friend is put off by it. I also don’t get why guys want to finish by their own hands and cumming on my body.

I too have multiple orgasms more easily when I switch partners. The most intense is in a situation with at least one guy, David or Red, and at least one woman, Clair or Lora. It doesn't matter how it starts, who does what, or how it ends - that is the best for me. It has become that I have the most, and most intense, orgasms when I get jealous for seeing the other two and then satisfy both my hetero and Lesbian sides.

Orgasms happen or don’t happen for me. I am capable or multi though it doesn’t happen all the time. I am less likely to have multi if having sex with a second of third person at a party. Also less likely if I had sex with the same person more than once. I think it is more common for me during oral sex and especially if having mutual oral with a girlfriend who is having multi orgasms.

We are both bisexual so this is very much our thing. We play with a few other bi couples and singles so and in many cases prefer them. My personal favorite involves a very close friend that we have played with for a few years. My best orgasms with him occur when I am on top, reverse and my husband is attending to my pussy while his cock is in me. His penis is porn star material so we both enjoy it. My husband will guide him inside me and occasionally take him out and give him oral. I love watching and love the way his mouth feels on me while i’m taking one that’s a bit bigger than usual for me. After I’m done we both take care of my husband - they are amazing encounters.

My philosophy is that if you've gotten a man excited, he may cum at anytime, any place. I am always prepared, enthusiastically willing even, to accept that wherever his dick may be.

That’s like sexual assault by trickery. Dishonest and deceitful, throw their arse out and then some!

A married couple I know and have played with met through the lifestyle while married to others. I don't know if they divorced their partners so they could be together, but they have been together for many years.

We did our swinging before AIDs was a factor. In fact, I don't recall ever considering STD's at all. So we never used condoms and we never had a problem with ejaculating inside, where it's meant to be.

I've seen several posting from single women on SLS, that seem questionable. I'm sure there are 20 year olds looking for people in their 60's..but not totally convinced. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is.

If she didn't want him to come in her mouth, she should have said so to begin with. Especially considering that they were new and didn't know better. I don't understand how you all could have gotten naked without covering a few basic rules. Not judging, just confused. LC

Hi all, my very second post as a newbie. This is a really interesting topic, as it's a very cultural thing. My man is cut, and I've only been with one person who wasn't, and I'd have to say that uncut is very erotic, as they're more sensitive, but beyond that, sexually speaking, it really doesn't make a whole lot of difference to me, though I wish for my man's sake he wasn't cut, as I've heard the head gets desensitized, which is a shame. But as a woman, I don't really feel any difference except for oral, it's kinda nice to have the foreskin to play with! I researched it for months when I had my two sons, and found it's simply done for the sake of being done. And in fact, after reading about it, am now opposed to circumcision, and am advising my two friends who are pregnant against it. Don't know if anyone agrees or cares, but I happened to feel very passionate about this topic, so thought I'd throw in my two cents. Thanks!