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My experience has been that as I got older the intensity of my orgasms increased. I liked sex before, but even more so after 50! I was celibate for several years and first discovered this playing with myself. Eventually I had a partner that made me squirt (not pee, I have smelled my sheets and usually go before and after sex.) The eyes rolling back, stars around me, out of body orgasms can happen with single or multiple partners, and on occasion by myself with both oral and PIV. I think it has more to do with how comfortable and relaxed I am in the situation.

Hi All, This question is directed towards the wives experience, but guys feel free to comment on their behalf. Has anyone found that they’ve become (for the women) or that their wives have become multi-orgasmic since taking on multiple partners or the excitement from encounters? If not multi-orgasmic, found they had the desire for more orgasms or were able to have second and subsequent orgasms more readily? If you already were capable of multi-O’s, did the frequency or intensity change. Any thoughts on what caused these changes if there were any? How do you have the most intense and satisfying orgasms now? With hubby or play situations? T.I.A. PS, come to think of it, hubbies if you’ve found that you’ve been able to regularly recover more quickly, it’d be interesting to hear about your experience also.

What the fuck is wrong with American culture? We can watch men, women, and children butchered in various vile manners, watch seemingly endless parades of programs about serial killers, vampires, and other creatures. But the slightest shot of a nude breast or bum is offensive? To who? Is our society so repressed that we act more like the Inquisition, than the freedom-loving people we are supposed to be? The nude body is taboo , but a dismembered one isn't? WHAT THE FUCK!!!!!! Ok..... rant over.

Can't honestly remember the first time skinny dipping. Grew up in the country in WA state and had lots of friends with pools and lots of lakes to skinny dip in. The most recent was with our good friends in the l/s. No playing that night, just hanging out nude in the smallish pool we have in the backyard talking with each other and teasing our own spouses.

I was with a man for the first time since I was married, not planned, it just happened on a vacation. It happened a few years ago and I still think of that first time. I love my husband and trust him to love me. I did feel a little jealous that he was with someone new. Didn’t want to know all the details of his night and thought he might feel the same. Our second day with the couple was more trying and almost gave up on the the thought of ever doing it again. Alone with my husband I explained my feelings. I even used the word Love in our friend made love to me. I never said we fucked. I said we made love. My husband was understanding after I told him that the second day I felt like I was fucked by a stranger. The man I was with was both a lover and a stranger. The second day I was a sex object, in front of my husband. The first night I was loved and reacted as a woman making love. My husband enjoyed the fact that I enjoyed. Since that first day we have played a few times mostly in separate rooms and a few times in the same room. I have seen him enjoy and he has watched me play too. He certainly knows when I orgasm and has watched me have some intense ones.

For us in our poly family, it was a matter of accretion. Two men, both of whom I love, sharing me; a female friend Clair joining hubby for sex and I discovering my strong Lesbian side with her; Clair getting accidentally pregnant and all of us deciding it was time so I quickly followed; hubby's ex Lora (those two still in love) joining us for sex and ending up staying with the family; us women having more children. For me, I can't say that I love one more than another, but I do love differently, especially between the men and my female family members. If forced to choose, I would stay with Clair and Lora over Red and David. The bond of having children together with the same men, nursing one another's babies, running the household together is incredibly strong. So we love one another differently, but it is love. (We each have a physical relationship with the other, except the two guys.) All I know is that if I had to do it all over again, I'd do it all over again.

That's how I started. Our family formed from my MFM V by recruiting friends and acquaintances for hubby to play with. From that I discovered my Lesbian side and two of the women joined us to form a family and have children. So, just start with people who you know and like.

My philosophy is that if you've gotten a man excited, he may cum at anytime, any place. I am always prepared, enthusiastically willing even, to accept that wherever his dick may be.

Lionheart, just to nitpick your nitpicking. (Of course, no offense intended.) Although your quick summary of 2,000 years of history is mainly correct, it leaves out much subtlety. For example, although the property laws you suggest for the Romans is true for unmarried women, once a woman was a widow she was able to marry pretty much whoever she wanted at that stage, or remain unmarried assuming she wished to and had sufficient monies; also, divorce was rather easy to come by. Both of these differ severely from Christian Europe during the middle ages. Although the 'publicized' rationale for Henry VIII's defection from Catholicism was his wish for a male child which Catherine couldn't give him, the desire for the riches of the Catholic landholdings and the paucity of his treasury may have been as much or more of the impetus. History is very subtle, and should be treated very carefully.

I was referring to the history of Western culture, which from between the fall of the Roman Empire until at least the Enlightenment self-identified as Christendom. I intend no judgements on anyone's personal faith or religious experience.

Many good points here. We enjoy meeting single guys from time to time but our biggest problem is, in our experience, 80% of them don’t know how to act. They are rude, dominating, predatory, and can’t take a polite no thank you for an answer. There are good ones who know how to act and understand their place when engaging with a couple. But, again in our experience, those are almost as hard to find as the the unicorn single females.

All The time. We go to a clothing optional beach near Orlando, Fl easily once a month. Almost every weekend. Plus friends pools and the hot tub. Who needs bathing suits!?! Lol

Congrats on making your first full swap experience a great one! I say thst way because it is true, the lifestyle is what you make of it, and good things rarely if ever happen just out of sheer luck. You guys had a plan that you developed together, and were patient and gave all the pieces time to fall into place. They did and a great time was had by all!

Congratulations on your breakthrough! Our first time was the same as yours, i.e. it left us with no post-swap bad feelings either.

Fun to think about, difficult to act on. I thought I could do it. A poly mmf relationship was within my set of reasoning. Then it started happening. I found that seeing J literally run into another man's arms with "OMG I missed you SO much" was beyond my level of comfortable security. But I think if the comfort level was better, I may be able to do it. With the other man being richer than god, world traveler, too charming, huge dick and hours of stamina, I just saw myself living in my van by the river. We don't see him any longer. He became a dick when we distanced ourselves from him emotionally.