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PaDoc, I agree with you. My wife has, very occasionally, gotten into the mood at house parties where we were comfortable and let it be known that anyone who had a desire was welcome. Her maximum in one night was about seven or eight, I think. But because it was a social event where most people knew each other, there weren't any problems at all. She never had any desire to open herself up in the common room at our Swing Club. She felt it wasn't 'controllable' - her word. The few times she was into more than an MFM in that situation, we'd get a few guys we trusted into a private room.

Hmmmm, a picture may be one answer. I actually went to Las Vegas a few years ago and stayed at the SLS Hotel and Casino (no link to SLS/swinging...it formerly was the Sahara). I bought one of their T-shirts - SLS in big silver glittery letters. Could be just the type of hint I'm looking for Thank you...had a solution right here!

I have only experienced SLS as a single female. There is a lot of wading through but there are men there looking for relationships too. I was on a vanilla site that had the option of non monogamy but at the same time felt targeted as an easy lay. I will say I have better luck when I make the first contact. Be clear on what you are looking for. Some men will say what they think you want to hear. I meet in public and say I don’t play on the first meeting, but it has happened. It can be frustrating, it can be fun. Best of luck and keep us updated.

A lot of people don't know this, but i am famous.

Words mean things. Often in a "gang"bang you get exactly that, gang behavior on the part of the men. Human beings recognize relative safety in numbers and also non-accountability in a group activity, that's how riots happen along with other forms of aberrant behavior. What the OP described is illustrative of the point. Mrs Doc has enjoyed multiple partners (3,4,5)on occasion but none of the men were random guys picked off a website. They were respectful and attentive to her not to their dicks and it was fun to watch and participate unlike the scene described above.

As a single female I love MFM and prefer the men know each other. I recently put out an ad stating specifically what I was looking for, clear I was only going to meet both at the same time to avoid any bait and switch. We conversed through the app, met in a public place. I am just going to say I got just what I wanted and we discussed meeting again.

Well I never per say guided another man´s cock into her but I did wink and nod and watched closely as it happened. I do not think I could get the courage to grab someone else´s cock and put it in her.