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Busy year for you and you have so much more to experience. It is great to see you post and question. You will see that you experience normal things that we have all experienced along the way. Isn’t it great that everyone is different? Growing up in NJ most of the men I have met are circumcised. I do remember the first time I saw one that wasn’t. It was my third guy I had ever been with and he was on the football team. I had no idea it was what it was. I knew it was different from what I saw before. I thought it was fun that it was like peek a boo. I just figured everyone has different shapes. A friend of mine who knew I hooked up with the guy asked me what I thought about sex with an uncircumcised dick. That’s when I learned she had been with him before me. If you continue meeting new people you will see many new things. My take is that you will notice the uncut men because there are less of them where you live. Orally it is different. I personally can’t tell the difference when having sex. To this day I still say Peek a boo when I play with one.

My hubby is uncircumcised and I can tell you that the big difference is when they are inside (although only without a rubber). You can feel the sensation of the foreskin moving and after that you want nothing else...

Hi All, This question is directed towards the wives experience, but guys feel free to comment on their behalf. Has anyone found that they’ve become (for the women) or that their wives have become multi-orgasmic since taking on multiple partners or the excitement from encounters? If not multi-orgasmic, found they had the desire for more orgasms or were able to have second and subsequent orgasms more readily? If you already were capable of multi-O’s, did the frequency or intensity change. Any thoughts on what caused these changes if there were any? How do you have the most intense and satisfying orgasms now? With hubby or play situations? T.I.A. PS, come to think of it, hubbies if you’ve found that you’ve been able to regularly recover more quickly, it’d be interesting to hear about your experience also.

I have had many firsts this year. My first bi experience. My first 3some. My first sex party. Oh and I got married. Being brought up in suburban NJ, going to school in PA, I am consider myself not that sheltered. I had been with a number of guys in my life. I have most likely doubled that number this past year. Last night I was chatting with one of my friends and we were having girl talk about a party we were at a few weeks ago. We were saying who was fun and who wasn’t and she mentioned one specific guy and I wasn’t sure who she was talking about and she said you know, the uncircumcised guy. I laughed to myself. I knew who she meant. I just never saw an uncircumcised guy before. Another first for me. I didn’t have any direct contact with him. I asked her if it’s different or if she could tell. She said you can tell orally only. Makes sense. Just made me wonder why I never saw one before. I have been with a number of different nationality guys and race.

Swap partners, kiss and see what happens.

Ok that sounds fun Alura.. what’s the rules ?

Unlike 30 years ago, Im happy to have one orgasm per session. I recognized awhile ago that my recovery time was getting longer and the 2nd orgasm most times didn't happen. At the same time, my wife was fully exploring her multi-orgasmic abilities. As a result, I've kind of retrained myself as a lover to spend way more time on foreplay and once boinking starts to not allow myself to go over the edge until she's had multiple orgasms or until she's squirted. For me, giving that kind of pleasure over an extended play time is way better than a quick fuck, a nut and a nap. I DO however, miss being 25 and able to cum 2-3 times in an evening. If I knew then what I know now…….

Maybe expecting a man to be able to have more than one orgasm in a session is unrealistic. If your experiences to date has been multi orgasmic men, congratulations. On a first encounter, in a very erotic situation, the odds would be better. If these are guys are regular playmates, I'm betting on a lack of erotic newness, if that makes sense. Concerning them getting off before you, well, wtf? How long is foreplay? Are you getting them close to orgasm before they get inside you? Is it taking you longer? Something changed and it seems unlikely that suddenly all the guys started sucking at sex.

It doesn’t sound like it was handled well. I would have asked him to return the favor now.

My husband is usually the top but last week I got to finally watch him get taken. I watched while another guy was inside me. The guy was definitely bigger than average so it took a bit of time to get inside him. When my husband got fully erect I took him in my mouth. He came very quickly and so did I - absolutely amazing experience for us. Afterwards he said the guys penis hitbhis p-spot perfectly.

My experience has been that as I got older the intensity of my orgasms increased. I liked sex before, but even more so after 50! I was celibate for several years and first discovered this playing with myself. Eventually I had a partner that made me squirt (not pee, I have smelled my sheets and usually go before and after sex.) The eyes rolling back, stars around me, out of body orgasms can happen with single or multiple partners, and on occasion by myself with both oral and PIV. I think it has more to do with how comfortable and relaxed I am in the situation.

I was with a man for the first time since I was married, not planned, it just happened on a vacation. It happened a few years ago and I still think of that first time. I love my husband and trust him to love me. I did feel a little jealous that he was with someone new. Didn’t want to know all the details of his night and thought he might feel the same. Our second day with the couple was more trying and almost gave up on the the thought of ever doing it again. Alone with my husband I explained my feelings. I even used the word Love in our friend made love to me. I never said we fucked. I said we made love. My husband was understanding after I told him that the second day I felt like I was fucked by a stranger. The man I was with was both a lover and a stranger. The second day I was a sex object, in front of my husband. The first night I was loved and reacted as a woman making love. My husband enjoyed the fact that I enjoyed. Since that first day we have played a few times mostly in separate rooms and a few times in the same room. I have seen him enjoy and he has watched me play too. He certainly knows when I orgasm and has watched me have some intense ones.

This something I never told my husband and reading the post brought back a memory. The first time we did a swap I had an orgasm I only had a few times before. I don’t know if it was the newness or the excitement or what he was doing. I told my lover that night that it was one of the best orgasms I had in some time. I must have had four orgasms and very intense ones. I felt foolish telling him that or even admitting that it was great. When my husband asked me how that night was I told him it was plenty of fun and he knows I had a great time. I never told him exactly what I said during sex. We don’t swing that often. There is a certain excitement when we do play.

My philosophy is that if you've gotten a man excited, he may cum at anytime, any place. I am always prepared, enthusiastically willing even, to accept that wherever his dick may be.

If you're currently engaging in MFM than you're at least comfortable with sharing a sexual encounter with another naked man in the same room. It seems to me that you're already father down the road than Napoleon. (I am not judging just making an observation.) I also sense that you're not interested in giving to another man, but maybe just receiving and being in control is ok? I've been thinking about what holds people back from experiences outside our comfort zones, including myself. A friend suggested it's just fear. Generally, the actual experience isn't going to kill us, but our fear, or thoughts can certainly hold us back. In this case, I'd ask myself: What's the worst that can happen and what is it that is holding me back? If I go through with it what is the likely outcome and how can I deal with it? Do I trust my wife to love me even if a man sucks my cock? Do I really think it will change anything between my wife and I, for the worse. I suppose one possibility is that it opens a door that you may not want to pass through again and that's part of the communication. If you try it and your wife LOVES it but you don't, can you say no to future encounters? If you wife loves it and you find it bearable, you may have provided a new way for your wife to experience a level of bliss not avaialbe before, How great is that. Giving her, helping her live a more erotic life. If it just isn't fun, then never do it again. If you wife finds it less provocative than her fantasy, then just don't do it again. I doubt the worst case scenario will forever change you. It sounds like you have a strong adventurous relationship.

As an uncircumcised guy, I can tell you that I often feel like a novelty and sometimes like an outcast. I am originally from Holland but live in the U.S,, that is why. In Europe it is quite common. Being uncircumcised, I have heard it described as the difference between driving a Hugo (circumcised) and a Cadillac, for me and now I read also for the ladies. I keep the head of my penis clean by pulling the skin back every time I shower and rinsing it. Hygiene is a must!

Maybe I'm not as aware of you, but I cannot tell a difference based solely on circumcised/uncircumcised. The overall differences among dicks and guys is greater.

It sounds like 2017 was a banner year for you! Congratulations on your marriage! Concerning circumcision, I bet if you keep up the pace you are on, you will shortly find an uncut guy. Where I grew up, we were 100% cut. I had joined the service before I ever saw a foreskin. But,that's the northwest. In New Jersey, circumcision is a little more rare, a little.

I note with just the slightest hint of sarcasm that it's only the folks from Georgia and Alabama who have listed "missing teeth" as amongst their deal breakers. Wonder what one could read into that? ::P: