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Wow I hate this topic, but here goes... My husband and I have talked about this a lot along with many of our lifestyle friends. I made the mistake of telling my husband a few years back that he was the smallest of all of my partners. Truth - his penis is statistically average or maybe a bit below - honestly I have no idea. It just happened that most my partners had bigger cocks. No big deal to me and honestly I never really thought about it, but it was a major deal to him so I felt the need to really talk it out since I opened Pandora's box. I tried to relate to him and put it like this - we go to nude beaches, nude resorts and play with a lot of couples and singles. I have seen and played with many naked men. Do I like the way a fit guy looks with a thick, long well-shaped shaped penis - hell yes. Do I like the way a fit guy looks with a smaller well-shaped penis with a tight set of balls - hell yes - actually the second one a little better TBH. As far as sex goes, I think it's like explaining the difference between a well oiled perfect handjob, a long slow blow job with lots of attention to every part, and a nice long penetration session. Each feels amazing and ends with an incredible climax - but each is unique and special in its own way. Do I love the way a long hard thick cock feels as my pussy relaxes, accepts it and it slides all the way in - hell yes. Do I love the way an average sized cock feels as it enters and hits my spot with a nice swollen head - hell yes. Do I love the way a smaller cock feels as it rubs my opening, my clitoris and slides inside me with balls pressed against me - hell yes. Can I climax, and quiver and even squirt a little from each - hell yes. Does each feel different - absolutely. Is one orgasm better than the other- absolutely not. Am I more concerned about the mans passion, attentiveness to me and his stamina - absolutely. Do I love seeing or feeling the cum flow from any shape or sized cock knowing that I helped make that happen - absolutely. Every cock is unique - every one is special. The only thing that matters is having a partner that is willing to give every inch of themselves to me to pleasure and enjoy. I hope this helps guys - your cocks are amazing. Whip.them.out, get them hard and make somebody happy! Keep it clean, keep it groomed and keep it hard!

Don't be concerned. The LS embraces all levels of participation. A simple "no thanks, we're not at that point yet" is just fine. Some never get beyond your current stage. Everyone else passed through your stage on the way. Just remember to keep your minds open. Your comfort zones may change.

I can't say this was true from everyone.....when we went to a club with a group we met off of Kik, a couple of the men (from couples) wouldn't let up after we were there--even after I let them know we were there only to watch....this kind of put off both of us for the last couple of years...hopefully I can get my wife interested again.

Not true: In his play The Clouds (c. 419–423 BC), ancient Greek playwright Aristophanes summed up the ideal traits of his male peers as “a gleaming chest, bright skin, broad shoulders, tiny tongue, strong buttocks, and a little prick.” http://https://www.artsy.net/article/artsy-editorial-ancient-greek-sculptures-small-penises

Not picking a fight but flat-out disagree with the above generalization that most if not all start out soft swap. Many people view it all as 'sex' and draw no artificial boundaries. We were full swap from the jump, as were many of our couple friends. Also, we play with these 'full swap' couples regularly and often come home completely satisfied with our hot evening only to reflect and realize that everything we'd done was 'soft swap'. Point is - it all can be hot.

Love or afraid of his new in-laws. He may have been circumcised before, I never saw his dick. My understanding is even if you were circumcised you still need to be cut again. Religion has crazy rules. Can you imagine a God telling a father who was about to be sacrificed “only kidding, just cut his dick”.

I wouldn't lie about it. But, I also see a strong sense of control coming from the daughter here. I'm sorry, but my kids don't have a right to control my life beyond the obvious impacts children have on our lives. I would not stop swinging because my kids found out, even if they were upset about it. It's none of their business. Would I stop because my kids happened to find out? Would I get rid of our sex toys? Would I tell my wife (or she me) to stop making noise when we make love? The answer to all of these is a resounding NO. I think it's important to convey to the kids that you have a healthy, strong, stable, deeply loving relationship. My wife and I do not hide our affection (appropriately) from our kids. They know full well mommy and daddy are deeply in love. We will always make sure they understand that, even if they found out we swing. To the therapist, I would say "Our sex lives are none of your business". To our child, we would say "Our sex lives are none of your business. We love you, we love each other, and that will not change. We always have, we always will." In the future, keep your swinging communications methods, uh, more private I know, hindsight's 20-20 and all.

You basically have three choices. You can continue to lie to your daughter and keep swinging. You can quit You can be honest about it and let it go. Just because she talks to her therapist should in no way effect you swinging or not. Do what you have do to. We choose the honest route, we did not feel we could do something we had to lie about.

I learned in high school that putting perfume in the right places is putting a finger or two in your vagina (or any vagina, I guess) and rubbing it behind your ears. I still do it sometimes. I like to see the reaction when one of my guys says, "You smell great." and I say, "That came from Lora's/Clair's pussy."