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It really doesn't take that long before you notice that since everyone is nude, there really isn't that much to look at. After the first 30 minutes, it's just more of the same. Only hard rule is if you are talking with someone, look them in the eyes.

My wife and I have a satisfying sex life, we love to screw each other. But sometimes, to enhance our experience, we use dildos, vibrators and other sex toys. We also enjoy MFM threesomes, where we bring another man into our bedroom for Mary’s pleasure. It occurs to me that, in a sense, we treat them as another sex toy, enjoying them for what they bring to the mattress but not expecting them to be more than that. Let me digress for a second - we know we won’t ever see most of our single men partners again, significantly more than half the men we meet don’t have a repeat with us. There are many reasons, but they can be winnowed down to two: either they don’t satisfy my wife enough to be invited back, or they choose to be simply one and done guys. That’s fine with us, we’re not looking for FWBs but simply an erotic encounter. And thus, particularly the first time, we treat them as a sex toy. Mary likes feeling his body rub against hers with new sensations, she likes the sight and sounds of someone she’s unfamiliar with, she revels in the new smells and tastes. She’s out to get screwed. We make the assumption that the basic reason he's there is he wants to screw Mary. Now, having said that, we also try to respect our new ‘sex toy.’ We always meet the man at a bar first and try to have a pleasant talk. (If we don’t have a nice talk, or there’s no chemistry between Mary and the guy, it won’t go any further.) If we invite him home I open up my craft beer, a nice bottle of wine or fix him the drink of his choice. We try to make him comfortable. If he has a sexual request we’ll try to make it happen, assuming it’s something we’re into. We want him to have as good a time in bed with my wife as she’s having. But, in the end, it’s ‘just sex.’ We don’t expect he’ll turn into a regular, but when it does we then take it to the next level, showing him that we care about him as a person. Does this make us bad people?

We are a M38/F37 couple married and know each other for 20 years. We've been our only partners - from kissing to sex. Few years ago, I helped bring out the hidden sexiness and exhibitionist nature of my wife. Ever since, she's been ROCKING it with clothes, looks that are super seductive, inviting, teasing - even to normal outings like to a mall or grocery store. Not over the top for common places but sporting short shorts, mini skirts, definitely cleavage showing tops. She has very attractive DD racks and an athletic body. We've been having so much fun just doing that and I just simply love and get hard when other guys look at her. When we are having sex, we have dirty talk with me mentioning names of guys that constantly flirt with her... she tells me that she loves others playing with her tits, nipples, etc. I know it started because she knew I like to hear that, but deep down I think she loves it too! However, she maintains a strong position on nobody else fucking her or me.. and we are both ok with that... Recently, few months ago, took the plunge and went to a LS club. Very nice experience. She felt at home exposing her ass, boobs, nipples, getting frisky overall. After some dancing (just us) that put on a nice show to others watching, we went to a private room. Though the room had curtains, we kept it open. She isn't a huge fan of bright light during sex... however, managed it ok and I just LOVED it when guys were standing out to watch her...I would ram her from behind and with her on her knees and hands, the view that someone got of her boobs shaking and dancing while I fucked her made me SO hard. And then, she'd ride me giving those watching an amazing view of her ass. I'd constantly lick her boobs/nipples - both in the private room and in the public space.. In another visit, the private room was occupied and we ended up going to a room with other folks playing.. It was amazing to even enter... we did our thing, I ate her, she gave me a BJ and it was fun to hear others make sounds... i'd do it again.. after being in the play rooms, we'd walk around and she'd be close to naked and seeing other guys watch her made me so fucking hard.... she's very shy and doesn't flirt or make eye contact with many... very rare...some day, I hope to see her flirt and have some fun... I want it for her first. I wouldn't mind it either

I look at the whole package, women and men. I'm a people watcher. I'll sit for an hour on a flight layover or delay and just watch folks. I find people very interesting. I find naked people interesting and erotic. I like to see genitalia in all forms. I do try NOT to stare.

We only have condomless sex with our very close friends, people we trust and know for years,we have had "sexual marathons" for entire weekends with our close friends, during the course of 2 days (and nights) the boys finished countless times inside me and my girlfriend, we both are on the pill and we all four of us are young and in theory fertile however we have never had any pregnancy scares or anything, so yes I think the pill is a very good protection method.

Just the other night, it was 2AM, my wife woke up from a dream that had make her really horney. She ended up waking me up searching for her toys. When I was fully awake she told me she had to get off, so we masturbated together. Then back to sleep. Awesome.

I still wrestle with emotions from time to time. Although my husband often gets amazing treatment from me ND another woman, I am often the one gettingNg all of the attention. We are often engaged in MMF and MMMF situations and there is no doubt that I leave the room much more satisfied. If I have two or more really fit or really well hung guys working on me, Ill sometimes catch a hint of what I think is jealousy and I don't know how to feel about it.

Seattlecple, congrats on the progress! Sounds like you both had an amazing time! I had a feeling it wouldn't be too long before she would have someone playing with her in one form or another. It sounds like this guy was very respectful, and a delight for her to play with. I imagine it would be nice to do that again with him. Is your wife interesting in giving oral sex to another man? I ask because I know how incredibly horny my wife is when she's giving oral sex and having vaginal sex at the same time. On the monogamy point; did you know that almost all bird species are lifetime monogamous? There are a few exceptions, but generally it's the case. Not so with mammals. Somewhere around 85% of mammals are not monogamous. Humans, of course, are mammals. It stands to reason there a very high chance that humans are non-monogamous as well. There is a very strong evidence that monogamy is a social construct.

Sharing a few updates here reflecting on some recent experiences Few weeks ago, we were at a LS event and it was a good evening. Lots of exhibitionism from the Mrs that was much appreciated by the crowd that evening. In the last couple of visits, we had "progressed" from playing in a private room to a play room with others watching.. It was AMAZING!!! Last visit, we were getting ready to leave. Honestly, not much action in terms of others seeing us, and I was itching for that. So, we were intentionally sitting at a spot where folks can get a really good look at her topless view and with a pair of DDs, it's kind of hard to miss I'm already excited at others checking her out and then one gentleman approaches her. Gives her some really nice compliments and sits next to her. All along, super respectful and asking for permission before doing anything or even saying anything. After asking for permission to give her compliments, he asked if he can get a hug. They had a nice, long hug with her tits tightly compressed against his chest. Some oohs and aaahs already. Few more compliments later, he asks if he can feel her breasts. I tell him it's up to her. She says yes. He takes his hands to her boobs, feels it nicely, cups it and enjoys thoroughly along the way. He whispers into her ear few more compliments and asks her if it's ok for him to suck her boobs. All along, she's honestly in a state of shock. No other guy has ever touched her boobs. She says yes to sucking her boobs. He goes on to suck her right boob. I'm all crazy horny at this time. I couldn't control and went on to suck her left boob. So here we are, in a very visible spot, with two guys taking on each side of her boobs and she's just closing her eyes and taking it all in... It was already everything I wanted... EVER... He then asks, what we like - see, be seen, etc. She said both. We proceed to one of the playrooms. I begin to take her from behind. she's completely naked of course. he is seeing her DD boobs bouncing and moving erotically as I take her on in doggy position. He immediately pulls his pant down, and begins to stroke at us having sex. I dont even know how to react at this. Overwhelmed is an understatement. He asks if he can take a look at her pussy. She shows him. No touching involved. He indicates to his dick and asks her if she wants to give him a BJ. She wasn't ready. Instead, she grabs his dick and strokes him. He is in another world, clearly! We then tell him this is the first time ever she has been sexually involved with another man.. He just couldn't believe it and passes a comment about being a forbidden fruit, etc. We finish up and leave. She was stunned, shocked and definitely a feeling of guilt was seen in her. WE've been talking. all good and she kinda wants more now Still very clear guidelines on being "soft". But been thinking of creative moves/experiences... Let's see how things go I can't even explain my joy and feelings on seeing my wife being enjoyed by another man... I know she was more shocked and in awe and so perhaps didn't "enjoy" as much.. hopefully second time around, that shock element will be absent and she can enjoy Would love to hear your comments

You are exactly like me! My older sister, who was attractive by traditional standards (including her neat pussy lips), made me feel like less than a woman because of my small tits and a freak because of my big clit and full labia. It eventually just made me proud of my athletic build and determined to keep it. It also happens that men (and women) find my "ugly cunt" a turn on. I am now very happy that I have a large clit for partners to play with and inner labia that protrude. After you get pregnant and push a baby or two out of your pussy and feed them with your lactating breasts, you'll have no doubts about your womanhood. I had gotten over my body image issues by the time I joined here, what I needed reassurance on was the fact that I was in an intimate, sexual relationship with two men, who were both ok with it. Was any other woman in the same situation? I found out that I was far from the freak that I had expected.

Just have fun and don't push anything. There are many times that I'm not interested in having anyone join us. One of the things I like about our vlubsnis that I have a forum. We love fucking for an audience. I love watching the voyeurs with my legs spread and him inside me. Makes me cum every time.

Definitely same room for us!

:bowing: :thumbsup: Another fan of the 9" brigade!! You go girl!!!

My wife doesn't like anal. She doesn't like semen in her mouth. I have to be careful when fondling her breasts because they are very sensitive and feeling them can be painful and they will be sore for days. When I'm coming she will just lay there and let me shoot. But when she is with other men and in gang bangs, she will their cocks anal all night long, suck them, jerk them, and swallow their cum and she allows them to squeeze, slap, bite, and suck super hard on her tits. When the guys are cumming, she will raise her ass of the bed and grab their butts and pull them close to get them as deep as she can and you can see her vaginal muscles squeezing hard on their penises. She has a great time. Go figure.

That exact scenario happened with us fairly early in our swinging careers. The Mrs. was having a fun MFMM encounter at a house party (I was not one of the M's, I was playing elsewhere at the time), and one of the guys came in her mouth in the heat of the moment. When she told me about it afterwards, I was impressed, astounded, strangely proud, and a teeny tiny bit jealous. We talked it over later, and we also had a very hot romp where I came in her mouth- thinking about that still affects my breathing a little!

We had similar bouts of jealousy in the beginning of our marriage. For me, it was porn. Mr. intuition had a few magazines laying around and he didn't think anything of it. I, on the other hand, was 19 and 8 months pregnant...so I thought a LOT of it! Great, I get to lose my once svelte teen figure with this giant belly, stretch marks everywhere, feeling like a beached whale, and he's looking at goddamned Barbie dolls?! THIS is what he wants? This is what I'm supposed to compete with? It was heart-wrenching. When he realized how much it hurt me, whether it made any sense or not, he literally burned the magazines. It was something, but it didn't erase the fact that he was attracted to those women. This is what I was freaking out about. This is the crux of it. In the vanilla world I grew up in, a standard-issue vanilla relationship is about pretending that you are one another's one and only, that when the rings go on, our lust for anyone other that our spouse is supposed to die, and if it doesn't it means we are weak. So the fairytale goes. But when you venture into swinging, you are both purposefully going hunting for those very monsters under the bed. Sometimes you don't like what you find. Usually you find out that - surprise, surprise - your partner actually is attracted to other people, that you're not the only one who is able to get him or her off. This can be as devastating or as trivial as you decide it needs to be. Ultimately you will simply need to look at it objectively and ask yourself two things: Do my partner's other desires really make me worth less or make me less desirable than if he or she desired only me? And second, do these desires mean that he or she loves me less? When we realize that physical desire - that inexplicable chemistry that we feel with others - is part of our biology, part of being a human animal with strong physical drives, we understand that it is something we can't really control. How, then, are we to blame our partners for something as natural as feeling hungry or sleepy or frightened? Instead of assuming the worst of their intentions, perhaps we can sympathize instead: what if they feel ashamed of their supposed weakness? What if they hate themselves for what they perceive as selfish impulses? And, too, their frustration becomes understandable. What I have found so far is that any perceived wounds that I suffered during swinging were entirely wrought from my own imaginings, and not from any real hostility on Mr. intuition897's part.

I never understood using the term 'sloppy' seconds. Yes, it does make her well lubricated but I don't think sloppy at all. I've always considered that the other man simply got her in the mood and lubed up for me. I, too, love being second, or even third! But I'd like to think that I'm always last!

I'd be tempted to introduce his face to the business end of a baseball bat. At a high velocity.