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Maybe it was good that our entree was in separate rooms. I enjoyed that my first time with another man was romantic. I don’t want to feel that the man I am doing the most intimate things with is using me. I want the connection. I don’t remember the specific things that made that first night so romantic. Location, moonlight, soft touches and possibly words. I do know the romance was not there in front of my husband and his wife. The atmosphere changed, the sex changed. I told my husband that I enjoyed the romance, I told him I felt like I was being made love to. Not being in love but making love. He was happy for me and appreciated that our new friend respected me privately. We have met this couple again and again. There is a great relationship we share. My husband knows I am safe whether we are in the same room or different rooms.

Personality....personality.....personality. Personally I love giving pleasure. I have never turned away from a woman who I’ve spoken with....shared a few stories with....shared a few laughs with and there is mutual interest. It is always a gift. Everyone has their likes and dislikes. But for me.....it is a gift from the woman when she chooses to spend/share time and herself with me.

A long time ago, my girlfriend's cat admired mine. Missionary position, gently fucking the girlfriend with her legs wrapped around my hips and my balls softly bouncing off her butt. I felt several tentative taps on my right nut then 3 or 4 rapid whacks on my testicles. I still thank heaven that damned cat had been declawed. Both the whacks and the subsequent laughter caused an immediate deflation!

Do you or would you play with someone knowing they are cheating on their spouse?

It really depends. I love to look at guys and am comfortable with them looking at me although most do try to hide it. If we get to talking and it becomes clear that he or she are swingers, we will even comment about their “parts” if it comes up in conversation. I have told guys that I liked the way their cocks look or like the way they have groomed. If they are pure nudists we don’t go there.

I was dating a guy in college and he used to stay over quite a bit. I thought my roommate was asleep and we started fucking while she was in the room. When he pulled out and ejaculated on me, she was actually watching. I had no idea until the next day when she commented about his cock.

To take a dissenting opinion, I feel many people go into swinging because they want a warm or intimate gf-like/bf-like experience, compared to paying a sex worker or an escort for sex. As a woman, I appreciate it if my play partner treats me romantically as "gf", instead of a mere a glory hole. If the couple don't show up or won't commit to your next play, that's an indicator the wife felt disrespected by his hubby in your last play. That simple. But I feel she's just jealous that she was not treated the same way by you. Only my opinion, it's just me. :-)

Good for you (and your husband) and that you felt comfortable. That is how it should be. Why is it so easy for many people here to have their spouse have sex every which way with a near stranger, and men in particular enjoying the idea of their wife being "used," but any hint of romance or emotion is troubling? I don't get it.

Nice! I love the “Woman who admires Testicles” To this day I still have that vision of that night. Love watching a guys testicles move

When we have another couple we would like to get involved with we talk about what we would like to do with them. spices up our love making

Mr and I both totally agree with you on this. Personality can make a huge difference in how attracted we are to others. Grant it, the first step is usually what we visually see however that only accounts for so much once a conversation begins then the personality is the focus. We have seen some absolutely gorgeous/handsome people that suddenly become very unattractive the moment they open their mouth and the conversation begins. On the other hand, we have met folks that I guess you would consider overage looking, not neck break catch your eye sort of thing that become incredibly attractive through conversation with them where their personality simply shines. Also remember, like most, we are our own worst enemy on how we think we look ourselves. Also, society does not help in this area one bit. A person’s personality can make the difference every time. Just our thoughts on this issue.

First time for both myself and my wife was boring, probably parents basement like most ?. First time swinging was at friends of ours pool. The husband and I both got out, probably headed to the cooler to grab another beer. My wife was climbing the ladder and the other wife, standing behind her, pushed her finger into my wife. My wife stepped back with a look of shock on her face. She looked at me and said, “**** just stuck her finger in my pussy.” I told her to roll with it if she liked it. The other husband and I watched my wife get fingered for what seemed like forever, probably 5 minutes, until we heard their kid come through the gate. Great night that set the tone for many more with them.

The first time same room I honestly don't remember. My ex-wife and I had quite a few mfm experiences in our teens. Mostly me having intercourse and her giving oral. We had a full swap after we married and a few more mfm's after that. None of the experiences particularly memory forming besides the full swap. It was terrible and both women teased the other male about his size afterward (immature teenagers, 19 all of us) He was over 6 foot and smaller than me, and I'm not big. That experience was the sole reason it took me so long to come along with my wife on this adventure.

Thanks for this great advice...I have a person in mind to try this if it works on her. I really wish to add another woman to our polycule or a couple if the F will also like my guys and is willing to share and be shared. I'm not complaining but my bf's libido has been on an upswing and I dont live with him so there is an oncoming problem with time sharing. I also wish that the woman would be friend first with my SO so there will no problems with sharing. Bf has a tendency to be possessive.

I can honestly say that if I was ever attracted to a woman and got her out of her clothes, I never was 'unattracted' at that point. I really wouldn't worry about it.