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Oh come on! 80%, 20% 99%. Tell the truth, you have no sources, you just pull these numbers out of your ass and throw them out there as if they were facts. You write fairly well, so I'll assume you that have some education. Consequently, you should know that you ought to provide documentary evidence or research to support your numbers. Otherwise, much like what I suspect of your social life, the percentages are but a figment of your overactive imagination.

I am going to give the man credit for knowing not to reproduce nor get involved with women with children. Too many people do because they think they should. When I was younger I was concerned some men wanted me for my uterus. When I was raising a child alone I made a point of not becoming involved with men with children, I knew my limits. But somehow I detect a negative tone from Nap. But then again his sweeping negative statements...really. Waiting to see sources of his information. Easily replaceable girlfriends shows little value for them as individuals. I am unique. There is only one of me. I would like to invite Nap’s girlfriends to please read and post here.

??? gotta admit dude’s hilarious!

Couldn’t agree more. My wife and I get a kick out of his posts. We had a good laugh yesterday when we were discussing what he really looks like and his fat bank account ???

The reason he is here is to provide comic relief. My wife sometimes just rolls her eyes at his comments but often it is extended laughter.

I think Napoleon may just have a complex...

Sonny, I don't question your preferences, I question your lack of respect towards 99% of the people on this board and 99% of women. Women, by the way, allow and chose men to enter their bodies, a way more important choice than who you boink. Their preferences in that regard should be paramount. Answer enough for you kid??

Perhaps Padoc has learned how to use the ignore button so he hasn’t been able to see your question. Not a bad example of why someone would use the ignore feature.

We actually loved this response. My husband and I have had this as a long standing rule. It’s not a trust issue with each other as some may assume because we both have a tremendous amount of trust between us. It’s simply a good way to never have any misunderstandings with anyone. I always communicated with any and all females (Single or wife) we have played with or have an interest in playing with and my husband communicates with any and all men that I have played with or have an interest in playing with. This has worked very well for us for a number of years now.

I don’t mind answering your question, if I may. When and if a woman comes on here and says she won’t date men that are not gorgeous, rich, handsome, well endowed and under 25, I’ll call her a shallow pig. If a woman were to say that, my guess would be she’s overweight, poorly educated, struggling financially and was dumped by somebody very similar to her. 99% of the time that’s the case when somebody tells you how great they are and how great their life is.

99% of his posts on here are disrespectful to 99% of swingers. Which begs the question: WHY do you bother?? Perhaps its a need for attention or maybe it's in retaliation for the rejections you suffered before you became such a wealthy and therefore much more attractive man to the segment of young women who become more tolerant as your bank account increased. Im 99% sure that Im close to 99% right about this.

Do you have a link to this study? I know my wife wouldn’t play with a man that there’s no attraction whatsoever. The other women we’ve met in the lifestyle seem to feel the same way. Maybe we’re just getting lucky and meeting all of the 1%ers. Hopefully our luck stays intact.

Just curious as to where you come up with your “facts”? Which polls did you take to come up with the 99% “fact”? Just because you believe your own opinions, that doesn’t make them facts. You say women want to be around you, even after they get to know you. Either your persona on here is a complete act or I can 99% guarantee that very few women would like to be around you after they get to know you. You don’t swing. Your alleged 3 girlfriends don’t swing, not even with each other. You are disgusted by women that swing. You have very little free time because of your vast business endeavors, hours getting buff in the gym and entertaining 3 girlfriends, however, you’re the most frequent poster on a swingers site. You honestly don’t find that to be a bit odd?

Napoleon: I see you tossing the statistic 99% in many of your posts but no real reference to where you are getting your numbers. I see it as more an opinion than any validity. You state limited experience in the lifestyle so for any single male that walks into a club knowing he is in good physical shape, is used to only very attractive young single women and is also wealthy the others around you may pick up on the Carly Simon song playing in the background and just find you arrogant and have no interest. On the positive side you know you and are upfront and have no room for compromise.

Then exactly WHY are you here? In case you missed it, this board is about swinging. In fact, the first clue you should have noticed is the title, SWINGERS Board. If you and your little harem find swinging and swingers so repugnant, why do you continue to grace us all with your presence and your comments? You're not part of the hobby and many of your posts particularly denigrate the women who ARE involved in it. I wonder why you seem to be compelled to share your questionable wit and warped wisdom with people about whom you so obviously feel superior? Oh, and I have a bit of news for you. Most "high quality" single guys tend to look for and eventually find "high quality" single women and create relationships and families. And later, a very small percentage of those "hi quality" couples find their way to swinging. Yet those are the people you find repugnant. You seem to be a very troubled young man.

1) Fuck his wife, 2) take my wife back, sloppy seconds.

It’s a mixed bag for us. From watching and photo taking...video etc to participating, just a afternoon or evening rolling around, playing, rest and start again. Sometimes she likes to be in a room all alone with the man toy. She has had one on one, another and myself, three or four extra males, for her birthday several years ago I arranged a six hour fuckfest for her with 12 men. A high point for her. Totally wasted by evening but she managed to enjoy me two more times before falling asleep for ten hours. She doesn’t care what size as long as the man/men function...have some skills and can cum for her. When she wants size it can be a challenge but usually can find available men with 7” to 9”. We have from time to time had a few with 9” to 10”. Ten inch seems to be her max, preferably thick. Have not found any men with over ten inches she was willing to play with. The very few at parties had an attitude or air about them that was a total turn off. One was nice enough and very large soft but just could not get very hard.....as much as she tried.

I don’t see anywhere in the OP where the wife is insisting on sleeping with other people. So it seems to me advice on getting a divorce from someone who plans on never marrying is off base. The comment on never being afaid of losing any woman feels like little value is placed on the individual or the relationship. Different strokes for different folks but at least you know yourself well enough and are upfront on your limitations. To the OP welcome and lots of good advice here. Encourage your wife to read too, continue talking, enjoy the fantasy.

From the time I was in my early twenties, I and my SOs have had our experiences in what has come to be known as the LifeStyle. I never had any problems with it, I was very accepting of it. There was a time when I was monogamish for over twenty years. I didn't miss what I didn't have, but later jumped back into it with both feet. You ask, "Can you be successful in the LS if you aren’t a non-monogamous person by default?" I wouldn't know. But it seems to me that if you don't like lobster you probably shouldn't be ordering it.