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Just saying, seems a bit microagressive to me. The question wasn't asked if you were straight or bi. Settle down Napoleon the straight guy following the Bi post.

A few years ago on another site we included only pictures of the wife for many of the reasons cited above. After a while we started to get a few complaints (suggestions?) as there was nothing to go on for the wife of the other couple. Since then we've added a few of the husband (nude) together with the wife - seems to have solved that problem.

The first time we were in a hotel in Greece and met with another couple from the USA, we started to talk and we finished staying together in the bad doing a 4some. Awesome experience. Now we meet with them every year and enjoy the company. They are the best couple we had met ever.

Not all of us said the same thing. I understand David is choosing to keep his marriage. Before the talk as a foursome I think you and Amy need a big talk. Why did she decide to tell you now? I do understand some women don’t want multiple partners and not wanting to further explore. However a few red flags do stand out to me. Can she take a break from Ken? Ken and Amy already have a close working relationship, is this more poly for her? You use the term “making love”, I have passionate sex with my partners. Those endorphins can confuse things but it’s important to remember why everyone is there. Lesley may be fine with an open relationship as he comes back to her and it’s not cheating. She may be comfortable with them being alone but that doesn’t mean you have to be. Different strokes for different folks. What’s important is what will work for you and being honest with each other and those you play with.

There have been plenty of instances of relationships being salvaged after cheating. Both parties have to have the maturity and desire to do the work. I am not condoning cheating. If a marriage is not going to survive then a grown up conversation is a better way to handle the ending. I get it may be an absolute deal breaker for some people but “kicking to the curve” reminds me of a child having a tantrum.

We actually started with my girlfriend. We were experimenting with some casual nudity with my husband. She and I started to make out. We eventually asked my husband to join us. We shared his cock and she watched us fuck. After I climaxed she asked if she could fuck him as well. I watched her ride his cock and watched him cum all over her. I was totally hooked with the rush and so was he. That was about 20 yers ago and we are still going strong.

full Bush, i like hair

She scrubs her bush and maybe combs it. She has a bush that would make a psychology major proud. Certainly makes her proud.

Sorry, I'm old and body hair is part of the attraction. Bald would mean "not mature" and off limits.

True of the two guys in our poly family and the one guy who we play with. Guys seem to be in one camp or the other. Agreed - I and the two other women in our family have a strong Lesbian side but need what a guy has to offer. We women like both, but it doesn't have to be at the same time, although that is best. Agreed about the attractiveness of women, but relationships are what has changed for me. My Lesbianism started as fun, exploring the bodies of the women (the ones who would let me) who were playing with my husband. But after forming a family with Clair and Lora (and David and Red), then the three of us having children with those guys at around the same time (twice), cross-breastfeeding all of the children, the women's relationships are deeper than with the guys. The guys are great, love and take care of us, but the life intimacy among Lora, Clair and I is much deeper and more intense.

To answer a question you haven't really asked... male bisexuality and male-on-male sex is, in my experience, still very taboo in many swingers clubs. While clubs are usually fine with the behaviors of consenting adults behind closed doors, public displays of male-on-male are generally discouraged and finding a male bisexual encounter at a club is difficult and often closeted. Yes, it is a double standard (since female bisexuality is almost expected), and in my opinion a deplorable one, but it is a reality.

Brian and I are both bi. I love to watch him with another man either as he is being fucked or when he is fucking the guy himself. It is a huge turn-on for me I must admit.

My wife loves not just to watch but join in. It started after she wanted to watch gay porn, which may her so wet. Fantasy became reality after we did a MFM were he was orally bi, after he has sucked me with her I shared his with her. She had one of the biggest cums so far. We are looking for a bi couple to join us.

We have shared a number of penises. It is a huge turn-on for me. Mr OCC knows I love it and even though it isn't his favorite thing, he does it for me. He enjoys it too, just seems to have trouble acknowledging it. But his hard-on gives him away LOL.

Yes I'm looking forward to. I think it's not only going to be different but I think going to be fun for all three of us. My wife and I are already preparing for it with her using a strap-on on me! She is excited! Let you know how it goes. Thanks.

Don't expect much positive response here about this. Google women's most popular sexual fantasies and using a strap-on and seeing 2 guys ranks above 2 girls (though that is on the top 10 as well) but you would NEVER know that was even on the radar if you took the pulse in the LS. You are flat out told (as we've been) that if you list as a bi curious male here you diminish your chances by a 100. Then of course you get the whole homophobic tirades about how men who suck dick are really fags in denial and not really bi curious or sexually comfortable while the women (often the man's wife making this statement) ARE of course JUST exploring. What we can't figure out is whether this is just due to the men's insecurities or if the lifestyle simply for some reason draws women who are far more averse to this then the average vanilla female out there. What is really funny, in a sad kind of way, is that at the same time, I can out about 8 couples just this month who have contacted us who are listed bi female straight male with comments about well he really DOES have an interest or have played we just don't list THAT. Unfortunately the standard - that EVERYONE seems to talk about here but few seem to live up to (with regards to this issue at least) is be honest and communicate. We've declined these couples because if they're going to lie about this, then what else are they not telling us about.

My wife absolutely loves to watch me with a guy, and she has seen me suck cocks, kiss several, and top one of our regular lovers. She will usually lay back and watch us and masturbate while we play...it's pretty hot watching her too...LOL I have met with two of them several times without her and she loves to hear about it later...gets her sooo hot.

Probably more so (in this order) 1. You are a single guy (single guys don't get a lot of response in general because there are so many of them). 2. You have a girlfriend that lives 600 miles away which puts your singleness into question (even tho you say she approves how does anyone really know). In general as a single guy your best bet is probably to respond to other people's ads openly and honestly. Give them a chance to check out your profile and if they are interested, get back to you.