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I have joked with my husband that he notices the size of the guys more than I do. We decided after a few parties that we don’t need to play together. If he finds someone fun to be with I am fine with him having fun. Our comfort level is great when it comes to playing alone. Our private joke is he sometimes finds new men for me. He’ll give me a nudge when he sees an endowed player. I have hinted to him that it’s his hidden bi side showing. He said it is exciting watching me with a larger one.

This is an old thread revived but am glad it was. Some very good info though thats been informative reading. From a fantasy and role play experience perspective, I can’t imagine just sitting back watching, but who knows when the moment comes (at least for part of it). Ideally, we’d both be focusing on her, either one in her Pussy whilst she’s giving oral, or one in her Pussy whilst her clit is being sucked, or her nipples or kissing her mouth or neck and stroking the rest of her body. Just because one penis is inside her doesn’t mean that the rest of her body can’t be stimulated in some manner or other. Ultimately - what do the women find they enjoy the most? Both guys actively working on them? Being fucked and sucking a cock at the same time? being watched whilst being fucked etc, or a mix of all of the above ? Cheers

For both my wife and me, it's not the size of his dick that does it for us, it's the size of her orgasm.

You said that nobody asked you to play, but you also said, "We had a hot tub encounter with another couple." So what exactly was the encounter?

Sorry it wasn't all that you hoped it would be. After making that sort of time and money investment, I can see how it would be disappointing, but sounds like you managed those expectations well so still had a great time. Good for you! I have to say I'm sort of surprised. We've never been on a swinger cruise, so completely talking from perception and not reality here. But back to the time and money investment thing, I would have thought that people who went on a cruise would be more serious (for lack of a better word) about it. Instead, it sounds more like a club, where it's easy to go and be a looker instead of a doer.

We would both prefer the other to be there, and usually in the same room. However, if there is an opportunity and the other can't be there, (traveling, meeting, etc.) then we will gladly allow the other go solo.

we had a man join us this weekend. He was openly bisexual and asked if he could join us after chatting at the nude pool all afternoon. He wanted to please both of us so he went down on me while I rode my husbands cock. His oral skills were amazing and had me cumming repeatedly. In return he wanted my husband to himself for a bit. Watching him suck my husbands cock was one of the hottest things I have seen. He wanted more so I watched my husband fuck him. I masturbated hard and had an incredible orgasm with my husband as he pulled out and ejaculated all over him. His cock was perfect so I asked him to finish i me. I offered up my pussy to him. It only took a few strokes and his huge cock emptied inside me. I guess we are hedonists - we don’t get hung up on labels and are all about the pleasure. Fortunately we have friends that are into the same with no judgement or weirdness.

Definitely good advice. May I ask, what are you looking for in a single male? Is it just a sex partner to explore other aspects of the lifestyle, or a more serious relationship with swinging as one aspect? I would suggest more traditional dating services that allow you to hint at your liberal beliefs about sexuality, then when you find someone you live you can express your desire for nonmonogamy within a committed relationship. Best of luck and keep us updated.

We have a friend in NYC who has hosted multiple man parties where it is about 5 to 1 men to women. He doesn’t call it a gangbang because he thinks that term has negative connotations. The parties vary with the attendees. You can check on SLS or other sites if GB parties are available. It is difficult to set it up yourself. A lot of no shows and flakes.

How bisexual are you and the husbands you know? Is it oral sex only or anal intercourse with another guy? Our experience, and Mr. A is completely bisexual too, is that many husbands are ok with receiving oral sex from another man, especially when it's the a tag team from both husband and wife. As you go from that to giving a blowjob and to anal sex, the percentages decrease significantly.

we do EVERYTHING together. no hall pass for either of us, but we run into it a lot.. some are liars, some aren't, but it's not our problem. As my Mrs says "that's not our concern or care.. that's for them to handle and work out.. we're not hall pass monitors."

I would hope that applies to everyone! I know it does to me, as well.

How do I feel about black women? Easy. The same way I feel about every woman. 1.) Is there a spark there that attracts me to her? 2.) Is she digging me as much as I'm digging her? 3.) Can we establish the rapport we need to move beyond talking? 4.) Is she thinking what I'm thinking? (Namely - any phrase that ends with "our brains out...") If we connect on all of the above levels, I really don't care what your shoe size is. We seem to have something going, let's go. You're black, I'm white - so what? I hope you can get beyond that, because I already am. And I'm thinking about what you're hiding there between your legs...

We have ran into other black females in the lifestyle but primarily through groups directed more towards black swingers. But, we find that these groups are often poorly ran or VERY cliquish. We find it difficult to meet other black people that are interested in black people when in groups that are majority white because it seems in those groups the focus is on interracial fantasies primarily with black men. But, we are two black females and tend to get approached almost always from non-black couples and singles which is just fine (as a fantasy of never having been with a black woman or "trying" black). Being approached from that POV is actually quite the turn off because we don't want to be seen as something "to try." We are not a hobby or thing we don't view others that way no matter their race. Getting off soap box. But, the DC Metro Area definitely embraces diversity through and through

Wow, I think the general concensus around here would be that there isn't enough single black females in the lifestyle! I wouldn't listen to those you've talked to, I don't think they really know what they are talking about. Mr. WS

She like to be the center of attention. She likes to feel like a Queen. I tell her she's blosssomed into the GODDESS is always new she was. She likes to let go of control, to be submissive I guess. Be taken by more than 1 guy and used (in a good way) She like to have multiple cocks around, touch them, feel them, look at them, tasate them. She truly loves cocks. She likes to feel sexy and loved. She likes to know others besides her adoring husband find her attractive. (She IS beautiful by the way) She likes having a cock in her mouth and one in her pussy and sometimes 2 in her pussy. She likes be sandwiched between two men. She likes the men to compliment her. (this weekend our new friend noticed her nice all over tan and commented about how nice her ass looked and how nice her skin color was) She loved that. She loved that he noticed. She likes to flirt with a stranger, play with him a bit. She likes it when I finally offer her up to another man. Like when I tell him to come over and taste her sweet pussy, or some other very personal jester. I like to see her have those screaming intense orgasms that she mostly only has with two or more men. No I don't take offense at this. There is something about all of the above for her that really gets her mind in a place to experience incredible orgasms. I like to share her. I like to watch other men lust for her, get excited, play and then go home. (sounds mean but its not) When all is said and done, I like to know that this GODDESS is mine. I like to be in control and direct her actions with other men. I like to make her cum after shes been with others in a way nobody else can. The home court advantage. I know her better than anyone ever will. Hope this helps. I highly recommend MMF encounters and I highly recommend being open to whatever she wants.

My lady likes the attention, of course. She also likes when we talk about her and what we are doing and how she is reacting. What I get out of it is seeing and hearing her receive more pleasure than I could give her by myself. The day I met her, I told her that my full-time job is to see to it that she has as much fun and pleasure as I possibly can. This is one way. There are others.