Leaderboard

Yes many women have a height requirement on their profile! Just like some people have boob size, penis size, skinny, bbc, bbw, fit or whatever other size requirements on their profile. Some people are just very selective in what they are looking for in the lifestyle and that is their right. Just because someone likes to add someone else into their sex life doesn’t mean they want to add everyone else. If it is not what they are looking for then there is no point. For ourselves if we are looking at a profile and see that one of us doesn’t meet their requirements we can respect that and don’t bother trying to contact them. If they happen to contact us we point out to them that we don’t meet that requirement and they will have to look elsewhere. Not interested in playing with people that are just settling for less then they want. Also yes it is different for women in the lifestyle simply, because of supply and demand and due to most men just not being as picky about who they stick their dick in. Not always the case I know I am selective. There is probably 100 men to every woman looking for this kind of play so they are the ones who are going to have lots of options.

"if we are looking at a profile and see that one of us doesn’t meet their requirements we can respect that and don’t bother trying to contact them." I so agree with you. If I find a profile of people we might like and we're just a little bit out of their desires, I might make contact. For example, if I was 52 and their upper age limit is 50, I might take a chance, but one of the first things in my opening message is, "I realize we're just a little bit out, if I offend you, please just ignore us." But if we're a long way out, I won't make contact. On the other hand, we've been contacted many times by couples or singles where we're out of what they say they want. When I see that I chuckle, but go ahead with the communication. With one couple, we were 14 years above what they said they wanted; we wound up having a great time.

We STARTED swinging because Ms Gold told me about her sexual past...and hearing her tell it, it was very hot. Her ex and her tried to save their relationship but trying swinging (and it didn't) with friends (causing even more trouble), but even after a less-than-good experience, she said that she was willing to try it again...so we did...and it was AWESOME.

When we were considering what we were doing before we began swinging, I loved hearing of my wife's expeditions. How she dated a guy who had two roommates and one time visited all three bedrooms in a night. How she participated when a guy brought over another girlfriend. It helped us understand who we were, and encouraged our entry to non-monogamy.

I'm the wife. With me it has to do with my chemistry with my partner or partners. If the chemistry is great and I stay lubricated, I can multiple orgasm for hours and the longer it happens the more sensitive I become and quicker I orgasm and more intense and powerful the orgasms become. I have past out before because my orgasms were so fantastic and tense that I was breathing so little or not at all. A few times the chemistry was so bad, I didn't orgasm at all. Just wanted it over with.

Me?? Im just happy to be there and I try to react to HER reactions to what Im doing.

My experiences were pretty much the same. It is better when the 2 Ms have some sort of rapport then they work as a team and it means more fun for everyone. There was one time when the other M put on a show and took me for himself for like 2 to 3 hrs nonstop. My partner just stood there like a spellbound tree! After that we kept wondering if we missed some info on the M...if he was some sort of an ex pornstar ?

I have no doubt at all your GFs appreciate your attentions, Lioness. But when I once told a bi playmate/friend that I assumed women were better at giving other women head than men were, she demurred. She said that in her experience women just assumed that women they were playing with would respond to the same oral techniques they did. Which might not be the case. Men, on the other hand, were less likely to arrive between a woman’s thighs with a preconceived notion of what their new partner wanted.

I have been doing oral on guys for my whole sexual life. It feels so natural to me. There is something about the first time with a new guy. I have been told I am pretty good at it. Oral sex on a girlfriend is relatively new to me. I know I am now experienced doing it but I do overthink what I’m doing. I try to do things I know I like being done to me. I also worry what my partner is thinking. When having oral with a gf I feel I have to make her orgasm, with a guy oral is not always the end. A blowjob is foreplay, oral sex on a gf is an ongoing act.

"If you have an especially large endowed than I’d say that in the advertisement because some girls are specifically looking for that." Well, my wife has been with larger men from time to time. But we simply don't take it seriously when guys tell us they are large in their ad or before we play. They often either exaggerate or simply don't understand they are the same relative size most of us are. And you do know how easy it is to photoshop a picture, right? Basically, my wife assumes it will be a 'normal' size until she's holding it and says, "Ooooohh!" ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Oh, and to add to this. We find a correlation between men who brag about their penis size and their level of being an asshole. We won't play with many of the men who are like this, and from experience my wife knows that the guys who do brag aren't very good lovers - even the few that really do have a big dick.

My wife prefers something semi revealing rather than totally revealing. I think it’s sexy to show some but not everything too.

We agree with GoldCoCouple. Kids don't want to know. But in our case we have four boys. The two oldest is ours but the two youngest are racial mixed fraternal twins, an accident from swinging. Our boys were 11 and 9 when they were born. They wanted to know why their new brothers were black. They knew the facts of life. The oldest bluntly asked his mom if she F__ked a black man. She said yes. He asked why and she said she wanted to. He asked if we were going to get a divorce. We both answered hell no at the same time and told them we were not. They both smiled and sighed relief, hi-fives, looked up at the ceiling and said thank God. That was the end of that. Everyone assumed they were adopted. Our boys never asked anymore questions. My oldest is 46. I asked him about two years ago if he knows we are swingers. He laughed and said yes. His two black brothers were a big big clue. He said his brother and him just didn't want to know any more than that. We didn't want you two to divorce like a lot of our friends parents. We loved you so. Always be truthful to your kids no matter how embarrassing or hurtful the truth is. They may not like it, but they will respect you for it.

We do the same thing at parties with our snowbird group. We either know everyone there or those we don't have been vetted and invited by the host so I'm quite comfortable with Mrs Doc going off to a room with one or more of the guys. One or two of them are quite well hung and thick. I've watched her with one or more of them and am always amazed at how incredibly sexy she looks in that kind of setting. Once Im sure she's having fun, I wander off for some of my own. Occasionally, I bring a woman back to the room with Mrs Doc and her partner/s and join in and sometimes we'll just watch. The first time she did that with a well hung guy I watched till she rode him to her first very wet orgasm of the night. It was simply erotic, like my own personal porn. Yes, the guy was larger than I but I was neither jealous or intimidated, she cums like that when she rides me or pretty much anybody else who can hit the spot. Yes we did talk about it afterwards and even the conversation was arousing for us. There was nothing negative about it. In fact, the snowbirds start to arrive in mid October and we're already excited about our friends being back and the opportunity for enjoying the variety they represent.

Cpl has it right, ignore him. He is getting off from all the negative comments. He gets to post three more times for every negative post about him. Ignore him as Cpl said and he will do the best thing, play with himself. Let him have his ball and go home.

Wife owns some very sexy clothes already, but if we have a trip planned the HEDO or Vegas I will usually buy her something, and when we go out she usually goes without underwear., and before we go in public I play with her for a while to make her and I hotter.

We only have condomless sex with our very close friends, people we trust and know for years,we have had "sexual marathons" for entire weekends with our close friends, during the course of 2 days (and nights) the boys finished countless times inside me and my girlfriend, we both are on the pill and we all four of us are young and in theory fertile however we have never had any pregnancy scares or anything, so yes I think the pill is a very good protection method.