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The first time she was with someone bigger than me she was really enjoying, but it didn’t bother me until his wife said to me that he was going to ruin her for me. I thought that was a rude thing to say. I’m not in this lifestyle to compete with anyone and I can satisfy my wife thank you very much! Lol Anyway she doesn’t get upset when I enjoy someone with bigger tits than hers, so why should I get upset if she likes someone with a bigger cock than mine? That’s kind of the fun of it being with someone that isn’t the same as your partner.

We have found that we are comfortable playing either way. One night the situation arose where we ended up in separate rooms and it was very sexy and intimate for us. We could still hear each other and could tell we were both having fun, so it was a good experience. Once we found we were comfortable with that, we started meeting others alone and found we were cool with that too. What you are looking for in the lifestyle is ever changing I believe as a couple starts getting more and more comfortable.

Thats why there are extra towels.

We would take the two queens. There's more room for a foursome or six some.

It really is a turn on.

My wife is straight so she prefers a threesome with two guys. I'm open to both.

If you're currently engaging in MFM than you're at least comfortable with sharing a sexual encounter with another naked man in the same room. It seems to me that you're already father down the road than Napoleon. (I am not judging just making an observation.) I also sense that you're not interested in giving to another man, but maybe just receiving and being in control is ok? I've been thinking about what holds people back from experiences outside our comfort zones, including myself. A friend suggested it's just fear. Generally, the actual experience isn't going to kill us, but our fear, or thoughts can certainly hold us back. In this case, I'd ask myself: What's the worst that can happen and what is it that is holding me back? If I go through with it what is the likely outcome and how can I deal with it? Do I trust my wife to love me even if a man sucks my cock? Do I really think it will change anything between my wife and I, for the worse. I suppose one possibility is that it opens a door that you may not want to pass through again and that's part of the communication. If you try it and your wife LOVES it but you don't, can you say no to future encounters? If you wife loves it and you find it bearable, you may have provided a new way for your wife to experience a level of bliss not avaialbe before, How great is that. Giving her, helping her live a more erotic life. If it just isn't fun, then never do it again. If you wife finds it less provocative than her fantasy, then just don't do it again. I doubt the worst case scenario will forever change you. It sounds like you have a strong adventurous relationship.

No one can advise you on this. Everyone has their morals, standards, inhibitions and everything else that aids in these decisions. In my opinion, this would be like you taking one for the team. If you're cool with that, go for it. If the whole situation is too sketchy for you, let her know.

we had a man join us this weekend. He was openly bisexual and asked if he could join us after chatting at the nude pool all afternoon. He wanted to please both of us so he went down on me while I rode my husbands cock. His oral skills were amazing and had me cumming repeatedly. In return he wanted my husband to himself for a bit. Watching him suck my husbands cock was one of the hottest things I have seen. He wanted more so I watched my husband fuck him. I masturbated hard and had an incredible orgasm with my husband as he pulled out and ejaculated all over him. His cock was perfect so I asked him to finish i me. I offered up my pussy to him. It only took a few strokes and his huge cock emptied inside me. I guess we are hedonists - we don’t get hung up on labels and are all about the pleasure. Fortunately we have friends that are into the same with no judgement or weirdness.

My first time was with a couple who wanted to have a 3-some with an uncircumcised guy. Once she had me in her mouth she all the sudden stopped and asked if her hubby could have a taste. What was I to say? I've been fine with it ever since and had a taste myself.

My first was with a couple that started off as a hotwife/threesome but rapidly progressed to the husband being a sub cuckold. We had planned my first sleepover with them which started with me fucking her while he watched and after I blew my load in her pussy he wanted to eat her but she was kinda uncomfortable with it. She cleaned my cock and as soon as she was done he kissed her before she could react, and said she tasted good. We went out for drinks and dinner and on the drive back she got in the back seat and after sucking and fucking I left another load in her pussy. We got back to their place and did a few rounds of shots and were nicely buzzed and naked messing around. He asked me if I had cum in her pussy and the second I said yes he went down on her while I kinda sat on her face with my cock in her mouth. After a few mins he got on top of her in missionary while she was still sucking me and he put his head by hers. For a while she alternated sucking me and kissing him and then he asked me permission to suck my cock. She moaned when she heard him and I said yes and they both started sucking me while kissing each other. The dominance was HOT and we had many evenings of him sucking me ready, cleaning me up etc

I guess my first experience started at a gangbang party I arranged for a couple I met online. The husband contacted me and asked if I had a few friends that would be interested in playing with his wife. I contacted a few guys and gave them the details. We arrived at the hotel and the wife was dressed sexy and ready to go. After a couple of drinks, the wife hopped on the bed and signaled that she was ready to start playing. One after another we took turns with her. Lots of sloppy seconds and thirds that night. Just as the last guy moved off the bed the husband dove in head first and started cleaning his wife up. At the time, there was so much adrenaline flowing I don't think anyone stopped to consider whether or not what we had just done was bi or not but it happened and we were all cool with it. The same couple contacted me again a few months later with a similar request. Except this time, the husband asked me to come over early before the other guys arrived. He said he and the wife had smoked a joint and wanted to get really freaky tonight. I headed over there and we started drinking and smoking. Out of nowhere, the wife told me to have a seat and ordered her husband to get on his knees and suck my cock. She came over, grabbed him by the neck, and pushed his mouth further down on my cock. Next she kneeled down and started to help him with the task. Once again, my adrenaline was flowing and I didn't dare ask them to stop. Plus the look in her eyes was one of pure lust. Later that night we did another gangbang and I remember that was the first time I saw her squirt. After my experience with that couple and seeing how turned on his wife was I have been hooked on couples that share cock ever since.

TxSwinger - I totally get where you're coming from and I thank god there are others like us. We are not very active in the lifestyle, but have found it difficult as well to enjoy our particular interests. IE, me the man is bi and my wife isn't. We have had many MMF or even a couple of MMMF and found that men who claim to be straight, willingly enjoy a bit of bi activity when the opportunity arises. In our case, the "straight" men haven't reciprocate, but are happy to have my lips on their cock. Since, my wife gets off on watching men play, this has worked well for us. So maybe, just a bit of adjustment to your strategy may produce opportunities for your to enjoy you're interests. I do think it's harder to find a couple that fits this scenario, but two men and one women where the men can enjoy each other and the women can have two men (her preference) seems like an ideal situation. Now, if you're like me and want to have a bit of variety in the woman department, then I think you need to adjust your listing, lose the bi part and just play straight. On to the bigger point which is that you feel like there is a double double standard at work. You're bi, strike one and you wife isn't, strike two. I agree this is an issue when presented as the only option for you guys. There are plenty of straight couples to enjoy. Whatever, it seems that our preferences are in the minority. I like to think of it as a challenge that we can overcome, that's all. At the end of the day, we all have our preferences and although you may not have been welcome a in Austin, it may not be due to them being closed minded or even trying to ostracize you. They just want people around them that are all in. If you're looking to have fun, I strongly suggest you consider MMF and be open and honest in your requests of the men. I think there are a lot of closeted bi-males in the world and given the opportunity in private (not at a club) they would gladly participate in some fashion. I've heard many men say no unless there is a women in the room, or participating.

Tex,everytime padoc appears on the bisexual section, do not argue. Just send him a dick photo. That's what he wants.

I have never been with more than one man at a time. I have found that 69 with a good match is the best oral.

I love to watch. I guess I'm a true voyeur. When my wife and I swapped, I always enjoyed watching her and the other husband just as much as I enjoyed savoring the other wife. I've had MMM threesomes with friends and what I enjoyed just as much as sucking the two guys was watching them do each other.

And everyone is bi? Males and females? Or just the males? I can do the bi thing if that is what it takes but I am way more into the bi males thing and the sharing with hubby if we can get him motivated enough.

Oh MY how I'd love to sitting in a comfy chair naked, fingers and toys going at it, while two men took my husband's holes... OOOOHHHHHHH I am so turned on now, thanks a lot Jackdav!

Did it once w/a gay couple and it was very fun. Both were non-jealous, respectful and a truly committed couple looking for extra spice. My favorite position while we played was bottoming for one while performing oral on the other. After he finished topping me, I took the 2nd one and then one of them finished me off orally. I've always wanted an all male orgy and have yet to experience that dream. I want to be the center of attention and take turns with about 8-10 that are in a circle.