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I have to agree! I've seen profiles that state "no kids, water sports or animals". Are those people somehow racist? Would it be racist to NOT have sex with a pedophile or a puppy, especially a black puppy?? Or is that spinach too? Wait, Im confused. Maybe we CAN have sex with a black puppy because we're NOT racist or maybe the puppy wasn't cooked properly. Who the hell knows? How much more ridiculous can political correctness become. Maybe it needs to cook some more!

Stranger things have happened in the world I’m sure. We both know it’s not about the spinach or who wants to eat it. Just infuriates me when you have these “tolerant” whackos throwing around insults. That person said in no uncertain terms that if a man doesn’t want to have sex with another man then they are homophobic and racist. Honestly one of the dumbest comments ever made on this board.

Put swinging on the back burner. You have plenty to deal with now, adjusting to being single again, mostly. Would you like to be married again? If so, armed with what you learned in your marriage, start looking. I've always thought one who would like to be married to a woman who is stable, knows how to communicate, and would consider swinging would do well by joining a single's intro service and putting exactly what he wants (including swinging) in his profile. There might be fewer interested ladies, but you only need one. I'd take my own advice, but I'm too worn-out to care. Good luck!

For some reason, I feel compelled to clarify my response. By "One at a time," I meant one in me at a time. I actually prefer when they take turns sharing me going back and forth. It's exciting not knowing what's going to happen next - Are they getting ready to switch? Will he want to flip me over or stay the way I am? Does he want me to get on top? Which one will cum in me first? Is it going to be this time? After the first guy cums, the second is quick to follow. We've had variations on this where they would be in and out of my bum, or switching off but with one guy going in my pussy and one in my bum, or after the first guy cums he switches doing oral on me until he's hard again. I've also done this with three, and once four men, but there were other women there too, we were just swapping quickly for fun and all of the cum wasn't put in me. (Makes me sound like a real swinger, but I've only been with five guys in my life; and yeah, and more women than that.) DPs can be nice, but the positions are not that comfortable or conducive to good fucking.

You should marry that woman.

I'm not bi but both are fun. But like someone said, MFM is just more practical. We have 100 MFMs for every 1 FMF so it's probably hard for me to judge.

I just don’t understand the no kissing rule. I mean are you going to tell me it’s ok to go down on your lady or fuck her, but kissing is crossing the line? It’s just weird to us, and we would definitely pass on a couple with that rule.

Mine was during a mmf I was eating her pussy while he was fucking her and his dick slipped out as he was thrusting and I figured while It was there I’d give it a try and sucked his cock. Then I slid it back inside her. He had discussed previously that he wouldn’t be opposed to son male male action and that he’d experimented before. He also stroked my cock and fingered her while I was inside her then pushed both our cocks together and we double penetrated her pussy. I came almost immediately feeling our cocks rub together inside her. It was pretty hot.

This is almost always true. However, a woman I knew through the lifestyle engaged the noted erotic photographer Vivienne Maricevic (most famous for her erotic male nudes) to photograph herself and her husband with another man. She shared some of the photos with me and they were stunningly beautiful as well as really sexy. And Karen said the sex with her bi husband and their bi boyfriend was also really good. Vivienne didn’t stage direct, she just made sure the lighting was appropriate and then photographed the interactions among the three of them. As an aside, I am personally acquainted with Vivienne through my daughter, who is also a personality in the art world. I didn’t share that fact with Karen.