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Ladies, just wondering if there are others out there that have a glory hole fetish? We frequent a club with a G-hole room and I absolutely love it. I love the anonymity. I love seeing, stroking and sucking so many different cocks. My friend and I will actually have orgasms from the experience. Any other g-hole sluts out there?

Something strange and can I say uncomfortable occurred a few weekends ago. We are not very involved on a regular basis in swinging. I like to say we enjoy swapping and have been to a very limited number of full swing parties. Our regular swap partners live far enough away that it is real special occasion when we visit them or they visit us. I am still not totally into girl play and as we say I am at last open to some play. We were invited to visit our friends, they told us we would be just the four of us one night and asked it was fine with us to have two other couples the next night. I hesitantly agreed. I do enjoy our friends and their house parties we attended had fun people. It does bring out a side of me I repress. Night one was everything I looked forward to. We did some play together and then swapped for the night. Next day two couples joined. The evening was a normal night of meeting new people. Knowing more was going to happen it was great that we all melded. The new couples gave a vibe of knowing themselves very well. It turned out the husband of one couple and the wife of the other couple were brother and sister. I didn’t believe them at first even when I saw a resemblance. I know I must have looked shock. They made many jokes about their relationship. Their spouses said they both knew from the very beginning and has made for interesting family get togethers. To them it was funny and made jokes about rural trash and everyone does it where they are from. I knew they were pulling my leg. I thought incest was not a real thing up to then.

We got invited to a "Jack and Jill" party, this was years ago. It was in a couple's apartment in lower Manhattan, they were older, maybe mid-60s, and super cool. They would invite couples and singles over, it was a masturbation party. There was some light touching allowed, but it was really just people getting themselves off. We went because the husband told me that there was absolutely no pressure to join. Sure enough, we got there and there was a bunch of people watching (get this) a black and white TV in the living room (this was mid-90s). The whole room was full of marijuana smoke. A large BBW came out naked and sat on the couch, spread her legs and started working on herself. People around her were still chatting but slowly, the conversations died as they turned their attention to her. We really admired how brave she was. A bunch of strangers were sitting around dressed and she just came out and bared absolutely everything. Fantastic. Well, that broke the ice, didn't it? Pretty soon, everyone was touching themselves. I ended up sitting with this old hippie chick, long grey hair, great tits, we sat across from each other and just played with ourselves until we came. Had a small audience. Meanwhile the wife got off with the BBW while a few others joined in. It was great fun, a lot of people of different ages, different nationalities, body types. Completely safe and non-judgmental. We never went back and we regret it, had a great time. Anyone else ever been to one of these parties? the action would be spread out all over their living room, bedroom, kitchen LOL

SLS site is not always user friendly. Not wild about the updated chats. Email function especially when accessing the site from a mobile device. (I won’t install The App because I don’t want anyone to see it and do most browsing in Private mode.) Looked at Hot Date for events this coming weekend and it’s all goofy. No more events, only a handful of postings near me(that can’t be right). Zero events?!?! Even when directed to the events page. Come on, we do mostly clubs, house parties, and the occasional hotel party and rarely meet 1:1 these days. Come on, bring it back or make it more user friendly again.

I have mentioned Club Relate previously in threads on this board. For more than a decade I have regularly attended several Club Relate parties a year and enjoyed myself at every one of them. (It’s a bit of a commitment for me because I live in New York and for each party I attend I need to fly to Central Florida, book a hotel room for at least two nights and rent a car.) For me, Club Relate has been an important part of my engagement with the lifestyle. And not because masturbation is a particularly important aspect of my sex life. It’s important to note that while jacking & jilling is one feature of these events, it’s far from the sole activity that takes place – actually individuals masturbating as a show for others is only a small part. Perhaps when Tom & Lynda Gayle started out more than 20 years ago self-pleasure was a more prominent aspect, but in my experience the range of activities is far broader. Whatever your lifestyle interests I probably participated or at least observed most of them at one or more of the parties I attended over the past decade. Each party tends to have a different mix of attendees – regulars who been coming for years, people such as me who come from a distance – including quite a few from overseas who are in central Florida on vacation – and attend only a few parties a year, and newcomers – and that seems to lead organically to emphasis on different activities. But in general, there is group erotic massage, couples both playing with each other and with other couples, threesomes, foursomes & puppy piles, playing with toys, light BDSM and – as advertised – masturbation as exhibitionistic and voyeuristic activity. The parties take place Saturday evenings (7:00 p.m. until about midnight or a bit after) in suites at upscale hotels in business parks outside Tampa and Orlando, one in each location each month. Typically it’s a two-bedroom and living-room suite, but if a sufficiently large number of people have signed up for a party a third connected bedroom is added. Typical attendance ranges from 25 to 30 individuals, perhaps skewing older, but ranging in age from their 30s through 70s, comprised of couples, single women and single men. You need to confirm your attendance several days in advance and if you’ve not attended a Club Relate party previously, attend an orientation with Lynda Gayle late in the afternoon prior to the party. The evening begins with a social hour that includes first-name only introductions and general or specific recitations of what each individual or couple would like to experience over the course of the evening. I wouldn’t say that the parties are “curated” but every aspect is well looked after by the organizers. Participants all behave respectfully and I’ve never seen and on toward incident. (Otherwise, I can’t imagine this going on successfully for two decades.) Club Relate isn’t for everyone. If you are looking to connect with a single playmate or a couple and enjoy private sex, that’s not going to happen at one of these parties. While they are spacious, there are only two or three bedrooms and a maximum of six queen or king beds. (I’m not sure I’ve ever seen a single couple unaccompanied on a bed unless it was quite late and most of the attendees have already departed.) You can always go back to the living room or another one of the bedrooms, but if you are uncomfortable occasionally seeing transsexuals (both pre-and post op) playing, light BDSM (spanking, paddling and the like) or lesbian and bi & gay male activities, Club Relate probably isn’t your cup of tea. On the other hand, if you view human sexuality as a vast smorgasbord of pleasure, you might want to check out clubrelate.net and get in touch with Lynda Gayle. (There is contact information on the website or you can PM me.)

Life is full of bumps, especially who we love and who we have sexual relationships with. It's how you handle it that makes all the difference. Realizing how someone responds to a less than ideal situation, including one's own mistakes, is important because we will face bad situations and all make mistakes. In both of our cases we have wonderful men who helped us understand, and achieve romantic and sexual lives where we share control over our situations. Viewing other men and women's marriages from my perspective now brings Thoreau's quote, “The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.” to mind. Thanks for posting and especially for responding to my posts. I appreciate you sharing some of what your husband sees in you, and you in him.

Well I hate you lol. Just kidding. I fall into the guidelines too because my boobs. If I was larger it would put me outside. My point is a guy could me built athletic and would be considered overweight and a girl can be big on top and boom she’s off the chart. I am hippy but thin. Also I have a flat butt.

Looking back we did move fast. I’m sure it looks from my posts that everything went perfectly. There were bumps from the very start. Some of it was my guilt complex. Funny it led to marriage lol. You can say my cheating on him and then letting him be with my girlfriend led to us talking about our relationship. Talk led to marriage. All of our play was based on my friends. He went along with my wants. He had no place to discuss what we were doing. He begged me to let him tell his closest friend. I said absolutely not. Again it was my guilt that gave in. It led to much more with him. It was much easier doing it with guys not in my everyday life. My first time with him is burned in my brain. I can’t say I wanted him in that part of our lives. I needed to put myself in my husband’s head. I was controlling our play. He had fun for sure. I think I took something away from him. I shared my husband he wanted to share what we have with someone who meant something to him. Don’t get me wrong, I liked our friend very much. I had to wrap my head around that he is in our everyday life. And it’s not that my husband needed to watch me have sex, he had watched for a year. Ingrained in my memory I was not very active that first time. He was very nervous even if he was encouraged. From that first time things changed. I got very comfortable. I used to say my husband was happy because he knew where I was when he traveled. Yes I feel safe when he stays. We are not poly like you. I don’t have two husbands, I don’t have two lovers. We do have a special bond that is too complicated to explain.

I get that, and not every couple does this. Some do, some never. There's no right answer, only what works for you two. My wife has done this. The first time was a bit unnerving, but not as bad as the first time she played solo period.

As a woman who likes both men and women, I like getting the best of both worlds, so it's FFM for me - having a dick in my pussy while I am licking Clair or Lora - there's nothing better. Or being licked while jealously watching one of my men fucking her... But I can see MFM being practical if you're a couple looking for a third. Guys are up for anything so long as they get their turn with a woman.

I think there's a fear some people have that your wife getting to play with a far bigger man will result in her leaving you for the other man. Any woman that I cared to be in a relationship would not be as shallow as that. Sure, my wife enjoys a man with a large cock. But, let's say she found some incredibly well endowed man who could barely fit comfortably in her, who gave her unbelievable sex 10x better than anything I ever gave her, who was able to make her cum over and over again...should I be jealous? I don't think so. Personally, I'd be very happy for her that some guy sent her over the moon that much. She makes an active choice to be with me, to be married to me. It's not a choice she made just on the day we got married; it's a choice she continues to make all the time. She could leave me if she wanted to, but doesn't. We constantly work on our relationship to make sure it stays very close, and very stable...because we both like being in our relationship. We don't to lose that. Some gentleman with an enormous cock who gives her phenomenal sex isn't going to change that. Sex is not the bricks of our relationship; just some of the mortar. If you're insecure about your own cock size (relative here; assuming significantly smaller than theoretical large-cock play partner), you shouldn't be. Your wife chooses to be with you. She's coming home with/to you. If you're worried that once your wife has an enormous cock she will never be satisfied with yours again, be at ease. It is highly unlikely this would ever be the case. Women's vaginas are quite capable of passing a baby and then very much enjoy a normal size cock, so it's not a question of your wife being irreparably stretch out or something. It's also not a question of a huge cock making it impossible for your wife to enjoy a normal size cock. If you're worried about how you might react to seeing her with a man who had a huge cock, I wouldn't worry about it. If you're into swinging for the right reasons, you very likely enjoy your wife getting great pleasure from playing. This is no different; if your wife enjoys it, likely so will you. Of all the men my wife has played with in swinging, just one had a truly enormous cock. A couple were large; 8 inches and reasonably thick, but just one was truly huge. This guy's cock was enormous. Quite long, and very thick. She only got to play with him once, but it was all of an afternoon and early evening, with multiple breaks, and multiple sex sessions. She spent a lot of time with his penis in her. An issue we ran into was that condoms were difficult for him, in that it was hard for him to maintain an erection with a condom. It wasn't a story; we saw this in action. This was one time where we agreed to relax our rule about the use of condoms for someone so new to us. He agreed with not using a condom, and things got better after that. The first time my wife took him inside her without the condom, the sounds she made we absolutely delightful. She was thoroughly, thoroughly enjoying his huge penis inside of her. It took some time for her to adjust to his size, and further still for her to adjust to taking his length, but that was part of the delight for her. He was very gentle with her. Later on he was able to thrust inside of her quite vigorously without worrying about hurting her. For my part, I found it incredible to watch that huge penis thrust in and out of her. I'd never seen such a huge penis, and it was fascinating to watch, even though I'm not bi (well, maybe a slight twinge, but 99% hetero). At the end of it all, my wife was thoroughly spent, and slightly sore. She had a very good time. Years on, I still fantasize about that memory, and even now find myself getting hard thinking about it. I asked my wife recently which play partner has been her favorite over the years. Interestingly, this fellow did not enter into the top three. Her number one was a fellow whom she got to play with for a couple of years who had a cock that was a bit smaller than I am. Sadly, he has a girlfriend now who isn't interested in swinging, or for him to have my wife as a girlfriend as well. He respects that, and so my wife doesn't get to play with him anymore. So, the take away from this is that a huge cock shouldn't have a negative effect on you or your wife. If it does, I'd suggest having some very open conversations with her about it, to discuss your feelings and thoughts and work them out together. If a huge cock causes issues, there some heart to heart talk that needs to happen about swinging in general, and not just about swinging with me who have huge cocks.

Now you are going to question moral ethics? As shocking as siblings having sex is to many, I think it’s just another taboo the morality police put on you. Swinging is a taboo to most people. I am still learning that taboos are created by religion. Oral sex is a taboo to some. I could go on and on about morality. That is not to say I condone or would have sex with my sister. I was shocked or should I say more than willing to listen to stories when I was a teenager that so and so was fucking his sister. Don’t know how the story began or how anyone found out. A story I do believe was a friend of mine was with two sisters. I heard of more than one friend being with them. I was afraid to ask the one sister I knew if I could do it. Maybe I was just too nerdy to ask. Now I know it happens more often as I have seen siblings at our parties. I make no judgements.

Shore, I can understand your shock at learning that your new sex-play acquaintances included a brother and sister. I would have been surprised as well, despite the fact that more than 40 years ago one of my male friends played with a pair of sisters he and I both knew. (As a matter of clarification, I knew one of the sisters but not the other.) According to my friend, the two ladies often went out to bars looking for a man they could play with together. I had another friend who was dating a mother and daughter pair. I cannot myself as fairly pervy, but I don’t think I would have engaged in sexual activities with either of those pairs of women. You don’t mention if the brother & sister at the party you attended played together. Morally and intellectually I find it difficult to object to two adult sibs being at a sex party together, given the qualifiers others have noted. Indeed, in other threads on this board members have posted about running into close relatives at clubs. But, like the other commenters on your post, on an emotional level I find the whole idea at least odd and perhaps even weird. But, if the brother and sister play with each other, that would be a whole other level of weirdness for me to get my head around.

Okay, this is probably going to get some comments. Incest is wrong for several reasons: If one person 'controls' another. If it's done at a young age. If there is any chance of pregnancy (and thus defects). But . . . when you are adults and there is no chance of pregnancy, is it really wrong for a brother and sister to have sex? There's a part of me that says, 'not really.'

We have been complemented on many of our photos and have found the best to be hidden among multiple shots. Take a lot of pics once you start and you're not wasting film, only pixels. Our problem is that even when our goal is taking pictures, we're often distracted by the sex and the damned camera ends up on the floor or under a pillow or in a pile of discarded clothing. This setting was a wonderful idea but the camera somehow ended up under the sofa because the other wife started a blow job and I suddenly had other things to do with my hands…

My wife and I play a little in the swinging lifestyle. We have had threesomes and played with other couples. I am straight and she is a little bi curious. Recently she has expressed to me a fantasy of giving me oral with another guy, orally sharing my cock with him. I have no interest in male-male sexual play. The other day she pulled up a video of what she was fantasizing about, a wife was passionately giver her husband oral with another guy. This video very much turned my wife on. Seeing how turned on she was by the video was a surprise to me to say the least but also a turn on at the same time. Not at the guy but at how much it turned my wife on. Has anyone else come across this sort of situation with their wife, what sort of experience was it for you if you went thru with it. The idea of another man giving me oral holds no interest with me however seeing how turned on my wife is does. What's everyones thoughts on this sort of situation especially if you are someone on my position and have gone through with it. Not sure I would be able to myself. Just looking for advice and/or opinions. Thanks.

The first time she was with someone bigger than me she was really enjoying, but it didn’t bother me until his wife said to me that he was going to ruin her for me. I thought that was a rude thing to say. I’m not in this lifestyle to compete with anyone and I can satisfy my wife thank you very much! Lol Anyway she doesn’t get upset when I enjoy someone with bigger tits than hers, so why should I get upset if she likes someone with a bigger cock than mine? That’s kind of the fun of it being with someone that isn’t the same as your partner.

We had been to a few clubs and a couple house parties. The guys were pretty much the same size wise. We then attended a private party and we knew about half the guests. One gal who recognized my wife pointed out a guy to her that she described as 'packing' and energizer bunny stamina. Later in the evening, I went looking for her and found her with the guy and another couple in an upstairs bedroom. He was between her legs performing oral on her. By the look on her face she was really enjoying his attention. He then moved up and positioned himself above her and I could see he had a huge cock. I thought OMG … the head was the size of a fist. I had immediate concerns/anxiety and jealousy. He was very careful as he entered her going slowly and in total control. I'll always remember that scene and the gasps my wife let out as he filled her completely. I watched as they began thrusting but turned around and left as I suddenly felt uneasy watching. We later talked about it and all she would say was that it was different and she was worried that he wouldn't be able to cum as he took so long.

Mine was during a mmf I was eating her pussy while he was fucking her and his dick slipped out as he was thrusting and I figured while It was there I’d give it a try and sucked his cock. Then I slid it back inside her. He had discussed previously that he wouldn’t be opposed to son male male action and that he’d experimented before. He also stroked my cock and fingered her while I was inside her then pushed both our cocks together and we double penetrated her pussy. I came almost immediately feeling our cocks rub together inside her. It was pretty hot.

If you're currently engaging in MFM than you're at least comfortable with sharing a sexual encounter with another naked man in the same room. It seems to me that you're already father down the road than Napoleon. (I am not judging just making an observation.) I also sense that you're not interested in giving to another man, but maybe just receiving and being in control is ok? I've been thinking about what holds people back from experiences outside our comfort zones, including myself. A friend suggested it's just fear. Generally, the actual experience isn't going to kill us, but our fear, or thoughts can certainly hold us back. In this case, I'd ask myself: What's the worst that can happen and what is it that is holding me back? If I go through with it what is the likely outcome and how can I deal with it? Do I trust my wife to love me even if a man sucks my cock? Do I really think it will change anything between my wife and I, for the worse. I suppose one possibility is that it opens a door that you may not want to pass through again and that's part of the communication. If you try it and your wife LOVES it but you don't, can you say no to future encounters? If you wife loves it and you find it bearable, you may have provided a new way for your wife to experience a level of bliss not avaialbe before, How great is that. Giving her, helping her live a more erotic life. If it just isn't fun, then never do it again. If you wife finds it less provocative than her fantasy, then just don't do it again. I doubt the worst case scenario will forever change you. It sounds like you have a strong adventurous relationship.

I can often feel the difference between getting a BJ from a man or a woman, but in the end its not important for me.

If you close your eyes a BJ is just a BJ , lol.

I personally wouldn’t mind if my wife wanted to share my cock with another male, sometimes she will ask me when we are heavily into what we doing to each other she will mention like, what if somebody else was sucking you at this moment, would it matter if was a girl or a guy?? My reply would be NO I don’t care,if she is comfortable seeing that, fine with me, once I did asked her before our play time with a SM I wanted her to suck both of our cocks at the same time, she said yes she would,,, but never happened that night ☹️☹️ Hopefully next time .

Napoleon, thank you for your reply, I do appreciate all replies, views and perspectives on this issue. The good thing with my relationship with my wife is we are very big on communication with each other and we are both brutally honest with how we feel about things. We do not hold back and we never "take one for the team" as they say. I would rather my wife, and she feels exactally the same about this, tell the absolute truth about how she feels about something regardless of the issues and I want her to be the same with me. I would much rather feel, "well I did not like that answer but at least you did not lie to me". Neither one of has ever expected the other to do anything they were not comfortable with. One of the worst things that could happen we both feel we need to avoid at all cost is learning from the other one after something happens, "I really did not want to do that but I did it because I wanted you to be happy". That would be incredibly upsetting for either of us to learn after the fact. I do appreciate everyone taking the time to share their thoughts and experiences on this topic and would encourage other to please continue sharing theirs as well. Thank you.

No one can advise you on this. Everyone has their morals, standards, inhibitions and everything else that aids in these decisions. In my opinion, this would be like you taking one for the team. If you're cool with that, go for it. If the whole situation is too sketchy for you, let her know.

We have been told that we should do porn, that our style is energetic, uninhibited and dirty as hell. But at home, it's way more sensuous, slow, less sexy and more 2 people melding. Basically 180 degrees out.

We are swinger/nudist outliers as well. Fortunately the beach we frequent has a wonderful representation of all types. The trick is to read them well if you want to "go there." Last weekend I couldn't take my eyes off of an amazing looking man that was there with another couple. After some innocent talk I began to hint that we were both swingers. As he seemed comfortable with the conversation I "went there.". I told him he had a beautiful big penis and asked him if I could see it nice and hard out in the parking lot. We all left together and ended up in our room. Being naked around a hundred other people is a sexual experience for me and many other I expect. I'm not going to lie about it or hide behind it. I love watching guys look at me, I like seeing their naked bodies and I love the feeling of being naked outside. Not sure what that makes me...

My first was with a couple that started off as a hotwife/threesome but rapidly progressed to the husband being a sub cuckold. We had planned my first sleepover with them which started with me fucking her while he watched and after I blew my load in her pussy he wanted to eat her but she was kinda uncomfortable with it. She cleaned my cock and as soon as she was done he kissed her before she could react, and said she tasted good. We went out for drinks and dinner and on the drive back she got in the back seat and after sucking and fucking I left another load in her pussy. We got back to their place and did a few rounds of shots and were nicely buzzed and naked messing around. He asked me if I had cum in her pussy and the second I said yes he went down on her while I kinda sat on her face with my cock in her mouth. After a few mins he got on top of her in missionary while she was still sucking me and he put his head by hers. For a while she alternated sucking me and kissing him and then he asked me permission to suck my cock. She moaned when she heard him and I said yes and they both started sucking me while kissing each other. The dominance was HOT and we had many evenings of him sucking me ready, cleaning me up etc

it was fantastic. I love being watched.

at Haulover beach in Florida. My husband and his wife sat between us and the other people on the beach while her husband fucked me anally from behind. I think if you saw us it would have looked like he was just spooning close to me. Also on stage at an audience participation sex show in Amsterdam Holland. Deb.

I could not agree with you more!!! Bi men are still much less accepted in society than bi women. Hell, they are barely accepted in the swinger community that is supposed to be “open minded” and “nonjudgmental”. I was just telling a swinger friend of mine that I’m interested in exploring my bi side. She asked if my wife would be open to it, and sadly enough that answer is no. I hope you ALL get the chance to take your sexuality to wherever you would like it to go!

As a Lifestyle Wife for 15 years, of course I am Bi and been so since college, when I took up bodybuilding and met other sexy gals like me, so we naturally hooked up. My first Husband was insecure about my Bi side, and I then met Dave, who had done adult entertainment around the same time I did for extra money of course LOL. He embraced my Sapphic side and joined many of my girlfriends with me. One day Dave told me about how popular he was in college, and being a Nudist like me when growing up, fell into mags and film including gay porn which paid much better. So now we a Bi Swingers who are both secure with our sexuality and open to share without jealousies and insecurities. There are other couples like us for sure....we make new friends all the time. Laura and Dave vegasnudecouple

I liked fiona response. I wish I could explore more of my bi curious side with my fiance. She hasn't brought it up but do like viewing attractive men. I guess I'm situationally bi as well. I hope as time evolves that women are more comfortable with men exploring with other men.

Pegging should be against the law. It is just far too much pleasure. Is so intense it does not last anywhere near long enough Gives toe curling orgasms. Yes, toe curling and I never believed that was a reality. and as we all know anything that good should be illegal.

We had one male third that had a problem getting comfortable with me being there, but with others, there have been no inhibitions at all. She loves being the center of attention and two men sucking her nipples drives her wild. I also enjoy watching her and another man going one-on-one and it's the same for the other man, since he also needs rest and recovery time. I think nature has physically designed the female body to easily accomodate two men and it seems perfectly natural once you get past any jealousy issues. MFM is our favorite combination for recreational sex, but she would also like to try three men, to see what it's like.

I agree with Vespertine. This is not swinging, it is Rape. What happened after the fact?

This is called RAPE. Where did this happen? Was it a club, a house party? Did you kick this guys ass, or what?