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Towel Shark: a single guy at a party or a club, walking around in a towel with an obvious boner under it. We heard the term first at Trapeze in Ft Lauderdale. Florida term?? I don't know.

Fascinating Hearing from and seeing you guys. It's all about taking risks,good self-confidence and letting got of old "shoulds" to say Fuck it, Let's do it!! Laura Laura and Dave vegasnudecouple

Agree about complicated, there’s a lot going on there. My take is that she has 2 boyfriends that don’t like each other. I’d guess that doesn’t go over any better in the swinger world than it would in the vanilla world.

is this is a turn on for you to see a guy with another guy ? Giving blow Job? fucking? or?

I'm sorry, this made me giggle. I can't do that bouncing up and down thing but I do a grinding motion that tends to make me squirt because things hit just the right places. Have you tried that?

It's pretty accepted that the term for a lady who wants to join a couple in a threesome is 'Unicorn' because they're so rare. I just had a thought about what a male who wants to be with a swinger couple could be called, especially here in Florida... Python, because there are way too many! LOL!

Not tried it yet. But had experienced receiving oral and finger from the wife, who I presume to be bi (or les?). Got a multiple Os from it.

Would like to try mfm. Pleasuring the woman would seem to be the whole point of a 3 sum. At least in my mind.

The primary way to have an orgasm is me on top facing my husband. We can kiss, he plays with my breasts and I can control where I need pressure. Yes we do other positions the least of which is missionary. We do reverse at times. In swapping I have do more reverse. My primary swap partner after many other positions will lead me to reverse. He will lean me back, reaching around to my clitoris and he does feel different in me. He will also play with my rear and will finger my rear. As the Doors song goes, he’s a back door man. I think he enjoys that view too.

ViSexual. Sigh . . . In the fairly recent past there was a poster here with the handle, 'Napoleon.' He seemed to specialize in making comments to threads that many of us thought were inappropriate. Happily, he is no longer with us.

The older Irish Catholics in the parish in Philly as I was growing up had an adage that said, "the older and closer to death we get the more we go to Mass." With all the deaths your wife has suffered recently might serve to remind her of her own mortality. The adage might apply to her.

That's probably not going to ever happen. Lesbians seldom admit they're bisexual and try to show no sexual interest in men. I had a very close lesbian friend who let me know that. She also confided in me that, if she could be with my wife, she'd be OK with me being part of the fun. But I had to promise to never tell any of her lesbian friends.

Hi all, this is Rico! Thank you for all the great comments! My wife Jenni initially posted here as newbies. We actually have people in mind but are trying to “feel” whether there is interest. My wife is only interested with women (bisexual curiosity), so this may be awhile before we can actually play. But thanks for all the comments!!!

We are not particularly concerned about who knows. Our oldest daughter suspects. Both sets of parents are dead. Mrs Doc's sister can never know, a more judgmental woman has never walked the earth and yet they look very much alike (what a shame!! A fantasy that will NEVER happen)… Most of our friends are swingers, a lot of our vanilla friends either know or suspect. Due to our fabric free pool and the fact that voices carry well over the lake water that backs up to the pool, some of our neighbors can't help but know. Our only major concern is our employers. We live on the Gulf coast, a very religious area compared to the more cosmopolitan MIA/FLL. So we try to be very careful talking about our weekends to colleagues and around bosses. Most people can think what they will of us but we believe that we've really broken the code to a successful marriage and a fun life.

Sounds complicated. A lot to manage.

Cowgirl is my favorite position in general and I enjoy the eye contact. I do notice at times my partners seem to get even more excited when I turn around for reverse cowgirl. Does it feel different for the man? I am trying to figure out the being shy about a partner comment - can you clarify that? For some reason the use of the word shy makes me think of being uncomfortable in some way.

I'm more comfortable in a normal cowgirl orientation. It is a position of least resistance especially if the man's tool is too big for me (I'm petite). I can control the depth and movement to make it less painful at the start. It is usually the man who requests a reverse cowgirl pose to get a closer look of my bum in action or to see me stretched while entering and leaving me. Sometimes, I find it painful and uncomfortable. I suspect it depends on the shape of the penis. A curved or "banana shaped" tool doesnt work for me in reverse cowgirl. For me, there is definitely an emotional difference between the two. It is in the way the man looks at me. If it is affectionate, I prefer facing him. If he looks "too hungry", I feel shy and would rather do a reverse.

Well, speaking as one half of a Lifestyle Couple, both Dave and I had Gay encounters when younger, and when I imagined him with another guy, got me going. My lesbian encounters were also in college, so we have openly LGBTQ friends that we play with. We invite our Bi couple friends over and we can openly talk about our likes.

The guys in our family as well as Lora, Clair and I are all grateful that we easily separate sexual recreation, controlled reproduction, and parenting from each other. Well, mentally we have no problem, but time-wise it requires work and planning. Being in a poly family makes it a little easier for one or two of us to take care of the children while the others enjoy themselves. What was a surprising effort, however, was to control our sex activities when one of us was wanting to conceive with one of the guys. It became a matter of both not doing anything to accidentally get the wrong sperm in there, but also for the guys not to do anything that would reduce the amount of sperm available for the goal. Surprisingly, there is no problem whatsoever of each of us treating all of the children as our own, regardless of biological parentage.

100% Submissive bottom!!!?

There we were in the afterglow of the four of us having just completed the first round of group grope sex with each other. We, the two ladies laying side by side were enjoying a face-to-face embrace and nuzzling as our opposite hubbies were spooning us, when I felt a warmness that was way beyond sexual fluids of ejaculation and oral sex. It was pooling between the other wife and my crotches and, had grown to spread both upwards and downwards. Then I felt the fluid continue to spread back to my rear between me and her hubby. Pulling back, I exclaimed "who is pissing in the bed?" We ladies quickly yelled at the men and both men claimed it wasn't them. The other wife also exhorted it wasn't her and I sure as hell knew it wasn't me! She said, "If I were going to pee on you, it would be in the shower not a bed that can get soaked." Turned out, one of our friends that had been over earlier in the day and had used our bedroom to change her infant's diaper. She didn't even think...yup...it was 1972 and she had stabbed diaper pins right into our waterbed mattress. Guess the exertion of four full grown and highly charged sexual acrobats loosened the pin holes really well. We realized what happened and our military husbands were quick to grab the duct tape for repairs, towels and fresh sheets. After all the night was young...and so were we. By the way, she was telling the truth about the shower. We two ladies literally got into a pissing contest to see which of us could pull up our pussy and pee a stream like a guy. We never laughed so hard. (Ah the virtues of Jack Daniels)

Bottom fo sho! Lol

We used the cowgirl for a long time before we learned how to do it right. She likes this position for the flexibility of going from oral to penetration and back every 30 seconds or so. Bouncing is a great porn visual but ineffective in home use. I grab her hips and hold her tight to me and grind and thrust into her. This will bring a very wet orgasm, very quickly. Cowgirl looks like a female dominate position but really the guy has to be the driving force.

Cowgirl-Miserable failure for this klutz, can't keep up a rhythm and I try to change positions as quickly as possible! I've found that cowgirl can also be very successful is the woman doesn't move much and the man thrusts upward. It can take a little shifting to get the angle right but I've found that I can maintain the rhythm while my partner straddles me. Just another thought on the subject.

We normally play in same room,but a few times when at a house party we have been in seperate room's,we like watching each other playing

straight up, we prefer same room.we wouldn't have it any other way.we are just to excited about each other. honestly,we were talking about this yesterday.i doubt things will ever change. mr.fun