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We have never and would never use a pro ourselves, because it would be impossible for us to get turned on knowing someone is only fucking us, because we paid them! If that isn’t a problem for you then why not if that is what she wants.

I understand the well intentioned thinking but ultimately someone is being left out of the loop and eventually the truth will come out. It is dishonest and may lead to more problems. I think a better approach would be to agree to meet to see if there is any interest in future play but be clear it’s not going to happen at the first meet.

We never used a pro but I've heard of swingers doing it. And, she's probably correct about Vegas being a safer place for it. And, honestly, finding a non-pro for a FFM isn't easy.

My wife is the best lover I have ever had. Even though she says her sex life before me is boring and says that I’m far and away her best lover. She’s excited by literotica or my fantasies as I tell them to her. The past three years our second life has become even better. She has opened up about her turn on’s and kinks. I make sure to incorporate them often. She is shy and quiet and rarely ever talks to strangers And also a thinker always thinking through every scenario while I react when things come my way. So I was highly surprised when she said we need to schedule a trip to Las Vegas, I thought gambling and spa. Man was I wrong. She followed it up with a link to a brothel. FFM threesome and possibly her watching for a bit. All new to us. I asked why and she said she thinks it’s safe. They’re tested and non emotional. Being with a professional seems odd to me, as I would always rather be with a real person we’re comfortable with. Is this odd? We have zero experience in this area which is overwhelming and nobody to run these questions by other than each other. Any advice or tips?

This ?????? Same with us for the most part. We don’t advertise, however, we’re not going out of our way to hide it. We are who we are, don’t like it then adios amigo.

I can tell you after a number of years undercover in vice and narcotics, the reality of a hooker/escort will NEVER live up to the fantasy unless you're wealthy enough to reach into the "exclusive" category. Generally speaking, you get what you pay for and unless you're willing to spring four figures with a decimal after the last 0, you'd do better in a meat market at home or on a swingers site.

You can't do that legally in Las Vegas. You need to plan your "vacation" destination to be one of the counties in which your plans are legal. If you don't care about legality, you might as well stay home and look where you live.

Welcome to the Board. There is a TON of advise on starting swinging here and a great community to help. If FFM is your goal, a pro will save a ton of time and frustration. We haven't used one but have spoken with several who have. Come to find out, prostitutes are real people! A high percentage of couples feel ffm is the safest way to start swinging. Single female swingers are called unicorns, due to the rare sightings. Your system is set up to succeed. Congrats on the super cool wife.

We are a M38/F37 couple married and know each other for 20 years. We've been our only partners - from kissing to sex. Few years ago, I helped bring out the hidden sexiness and exhibitionist nature of my wife. Ever since, she's been ROCKING it with clothes, looks that are super seductive, inviting, teasing - even to normal outings like to a mall or grocery store. Not over the top for common places but sporting short shorts, mini skirts, definitely cleavage showing tops. She has very attractive DD racks and an athletic body. We've been having so much fun just doing that and I just simply love and get hard when other guys look at her. When we are having sex, we have dirty talk with me mentioning names of guys that constantly flirt with her... she tells me that she loves others playing with her tits, nipples, etc. I know it started because she knew I like to hear that, but deep down I think she loves it too! However, she maintains a strong position on nobody else fucking her or me.. and we are both ok with that... Recently, few months ago, took the plunge and went to a LS club. Very nice experience. She felt at home exposing her ass, boobs, nipples, getting frisky overall. After some dancing (just us) that put on a nice show to others watching, we went to a private room. Though the room had curtains, we kept it open. She isn't a huge fan of bright light during sex... however, managed it ok and I just LOVED it when guys were standing out to watch her...I would ram her from behind and with her on her knees and hands, the view that someone got of her boobs shaking and dancing while I fucked her made me SO hard. And then, she'd ride me giving those watching an amazing view of her ass. I'd constantly lick her boobs/nipples - both in the private room and in the public space.. In another visit, the private room was occupied and we ended up going to a room with other folks playing.. It was amazing to even enter... we did our thing, I ate her, she gave me a BJ and it was fun to hear others make sounds... i'd do it again.. after being in the play rooms, we'd walk around and she'd be close to naked and seeing other guys watch her made me so fucking hard.... she's very shy and doesn't flirt or make eye contact with many... very rare...some day, I hope to see her flirt and have some fun... I want it for her first. I wouldn't mind it either

I do care and I don’t care. I don’t want family to know. I don’t want coworkers to know. I don’t want neighbors to know even though I have friends stay when my husband is away. The most likely think I cheat on my husband. Oh well. I try to keep it a secret close to where I live. On the other hand my college friends know and I know they swing too. And that’s the fun of it, playing up at my alma mater. We Are...

Since we have a 'no play on the first date' rule, it's not as important to have a signal, but if we are on that first date and either of us mention that we forgot to feed the animals (we live in the country and have chickens, ducks, and several sheep in addition to the normal list of potential animals), it is a way of saying it's time to go...not a match.

I understand he is on a march to Moscow. He neglected to consider that winter is coming.

My husband has encouraged me to have his friend stay over when he travels for business. He asked why would I want to be alone at nights. He doesn’t stay as often as he first did even if we do enjoy our nights together. He is not my lover, he is a very good friend who I have relations with. I also have a girlfriend that stays over. My husband has a woman that he sleeps with on business trips. I am happy he isn’t alone all the time when he’s away.

Just have fun and don't push anything. There are many times that I'm not interested in having anyone join us. One of the things I like about our vlubsnis that I have a forum. We love fucking for an audience. I love watching the voyeurs with my legs spread and him inside me. Makes me cum every time.

I hope this doesn't look like I'm hijacking this thread... Last night's get-together was great! PebblesCanDo, we had our friend over at 5:00. We put out some cheese and crackers, and offered them a drink. We munched and sipped for a bit, while I flirted and hoped to encourage everybody to follow njbm's advice, and have round 1 before dinner. However, the rest of the room seemed to be more hungry for dinner than play at that moment, so after a drink or two and some catching up, we all piled into the car and went out to dinner. We took them to a restaurant near us that we like, and that they've not visited before. A great dinner and great conversation was had by all, including enough sexy discussion that we were soon clamoring for the check, ready to beat it outta there and get back to our house. Once we all got back to our house, it was just a couple of minutes before the women were getting naked, checking out each other's boobs and making out a little. Then, at the request of the other woman, we split up, with her and I retiring upstairs to our guest room, and my wife and the other guy using our master bedroom. We all had a great round of play fun! After playtime, we chatted for a few minutes while getting dressed, then we all said our good nights, promised not to make it so long between visits, and exchanged one last hot kiss! All in all, it was a great evening!