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100% Submissive bottom!!!?

Bottom fo sho! Lol

Only happened to me once...because my cock was in my wife's mouth.

Would love to know the pros and cons of these situations from bi guys.

is this is a turn on for you to see a guy with another guy ? Giving blow Job? fucking? or?

I am open mindend and bi and i am into Swinging and threesomes. What turns you on ? threesome with two guys or two females?

So what's your preference on a threesome - MMF of FFM? We tend to go back and forth. Sometimes I'm really craving a second man and a really hot spit roast or DVP. Lately we have really enjoyed an amazing female that gives amazing oral while I'm riding him. What's your pleasure these days?

A topic that I did not find discussed here, how often do women with a Lesbian side engage in scissoring, also called tribbing? I do it with Lora and Clair (and they with each other) from time to time, usually as foreplay, but we also can orgasm from it. We are all, however, more into oral and finger fucking to make love and get our Os.

It's pretty accepted that the term for a lady who wants to join a couple in a threesome is 'Unicorn' because they're so rare. I just had a thought about what a male who wants to be with a swinger couple could be called, especially here in Florida... Python, because there are way too many! LOL!

Guys over 50? I resemble that!

You are not shallow in any way for not being attracted to someone! The people that throw that word around when they are rejected should not be in the lifestyle in the first place. You like everyone are the only one who should decide who you do and do not want to share yourself with. If people can’t respect that they are not worth any of your time. Your husband should support that in every way he can. Having to go hide in the bathroom to avoid someone is not fair to you and can’t be a whole lot of fun either. Simply say I am not interested in you in that way and that should be the end of it. You are not a piece of meat that anyone can use just, because you are in the lifestyle. You are a woman and you have the power in this game.

You're not shallow, just not attracted to someone. If they approach you, think back to high school...just tell them that you like them, but not in 'that way'. Just tell them the truth and it almost always takes care of the problem. Since they haven't approached you yet, maybe they are thinking the same thing about you. Don't stress on something that may never even happen and know if it does, a simple 'I'm not interested' usually will take care of it.

Really helpful stuff. On the coworker, it’s funny because my wife has suggested on a couple occasions that I talk to him to pick his brain on his experiences. He’s a good guy and I think if I was very clear how important my privacy was he would totally honor it. His bragging in the office was to two people he's worked with for decades... like the teenage boy who just got laid. He just couldn’t help it BUT he’s kept it under wraps for the past few months . I mean at this point our current plan is only to play on trips so it’s really if we decide we want more frequent experiences and as well stated earlier, I’m letting my wife take the lead there. Last night I asked her if she was cool with the fact that I’ve been the one doing the research and making the suggestions of sexy things to do and she was totally appreciative of it. “Hey what do you think about going to a nudist resort?” “What do you think about going to a sex club on our trip?” She’s been totally down for all suggestions. A few months ago we had some really good discussions about the potential future boundaries of our relationship and I just took the lead on finding activities in those areas. The app kindu was also a help. Ultimately I’ll always look for her direction first on any decision. Even after we discovered how much we loved nudism, and after this experience, we both discussed how it was important to balance our couples activities between “normal” dates and activities and the more crazy ones. Dinner and a movie with my love is still fun. I’ve been really struck reading through so much here how much love and care that everyone exhibits when talking about their spouses or partners. I mean I cringe in real life circumstances where people make jokes about “the wife” or their hopeless lot as a suburban husband or wife Exploring as a loving couple putting their needs first would seem to be just a best practice. I wish that our first two decades had such openness, honesty and desire but I’m grateful that going forward we found this direction of our journey. Kudos to all of you sharing the love... and the lust.

We almost always play in the same room, but lately we have experimented with separate rooms. I know that he loves to watch me with other men or couples, but I wanted him to feel like he could focus on his own pleasure. We were recently at a house party and he was getting the attention of two ladies on the couch in a back room. I left him alone and moved to another space with some friends. I returned about 30 minutes later and it was hot to see him curled up with his new friends. He was gently kissing one woman while the other was slowly riding his cock. He had no idea I was watching and I could tell he was completely immersed in the experience in a way he would never do if he knew I was there.

You are so right. Last weekend I played in the gloryhole room with another lady friend. We totally get off on the whole experience as the guys poke their hard cocks in for us to sample. It’s always fun to try to guess who belongs to which cock when we leave and see the guys out on the dance floor or around the club. One of the guys had a huge cock - honestly I could barely fit the head in my mouth. When we left the room, my husband introduced me to him and did he wanted to join us in one of the rooms. I agreed and we grabbed a room and sure enough i recognized the massive cock once we got undressed. My husband couldn’t wait to see me tackle that monster. After some fun foreplay I got in the missionary position and invited him to take me. My husband watched intently as he worked his penis around my opening. The guy really did nothing for me but to be honest i did want to feel what his big cock would be like inside me. Before I was really ready he steamrolled inside me. He was every bit of 10” and as thick as a beer bottle. My husband loves watching him stretch my pussy but it was nothing short of unpleasant for me. After a few minutes of thrusting he thankfully ejaculated and was finished. I never came close to an orgasm and my pussy was spent for the night. I have had some very big guys who know how to fuck and a big penis does feel very good - but so does a 5 or 6 inch cock that hits all the right places. I think got guys it is a thrill to see your wife take. big penis especially if they are on the smaller side but at least for me, I’m happy with any cock that’s attached to a great guy.

Not tried it yet. But had experienced receiving oral and finger from the wife, who I presume to be bi (or les?). Got a multiple Os from it.

Towel Shark: a single guy at a party or a club, walking around in a towel with an obvious boner under it. We heard the term first at Trapeze in Ft Lauderdale. Florida term?? I don't know.

My female partners all enjoy this. There is nothing hotter than feeling another wet pussy against mine. Makes for an incredibly intense orgasm.

That's where I started and what I moved to. I enjoy both the jealous buzz of another woman with my husband or boyfriend and Lesbian activity.

Though most of my threesomes are with my husband and his friend, both straight males, I prefer when a gf joins us.

I like being one of the women in an FFM, I get the best of both worlds, and the feeling that we are "using" the man.

Wife and I like it with another woman

I have been doing oral on guys for my whole sexual life. It feels so natural to me. There is something about the first time with a new guy. I have been told I am pretty good at it. Oral sex on a girlfriend is relatively new to me. I know I am now experienced doing it but I do overthink what I’m doing. I try to do things I know I like being done to me. I also worry what my partner is thinking. When having oral with a gf I feel I have to make her orgasm, with a guy oral is not always the end. A blowjob is foreplay, oral sex on a gf is an ongoing act.

For threesomes all we have experienced is FMF in all the years we have been in the lifestyle! She is bi and prefers playing with other women more then other men and I am 100 percent straight so it is what works best for us. Unlike many out there we actually have better luck finding single women then we do single men. Between the ridiculous cock pics, married guys, I am a alpha dom males and general stupid things guys say the pool of guys worth giving a try is non existent here at least. The truth is I would love to share her with other men for her pleasure. It is them that are the ones that are always cock blocking themselves not me. It is embarrassing how many dudes are just completely clueless when it comes to hooking up with couples.

FWB’s are the best. We have a long-time girlfriend that joins us regularly. She survived a horrible marriage and honestly I think she simply appreciates the escape and non judgement that we provide for her.

Do you think? That hasn’t been our experience. I love to flirt away with single women and the F half of a couple. We find that there are a lot of previously married women in the 35-55 age group that are totally comfortable exploring their bi side.

I got into swinging because I wanted to experience MFM. I do have FMF fantasies, but have yet to meet the right couple. MMI is always fun too, Me, Myself, and I.

Mrs Doc sleeps naked . Im just happy to be there!!

All three of us women in our family have a strong Lesbian side (I don't like the word "bi" to mean Lesbian. Bi means both homo and hetero) and we do take care of each other, and so long as the man can go at least twice, once for each of us girls, we're happy. MFMs are good, but I like women (softness, tits, pussy) too much. For most women, multiple men are easy to handle, either simultaneously or serially.

As a woman, I prefer FFM. I like one of each and the sense that we are "using" the man (he doesn't mind).

We enjoy newbies. There is something exciting about a couple that never played before. They are nervous, not knowing what to do. Most of the women have never been with a woman. We were new and nervous our first time and we enjoy trying to get a couple to relax. There is a downside as well. Women freeze up, we don’t push anyone. We go at their speed. Men also have problems. Too fast, too soft. And we have seen jealousy too. Every adventure is different.

Over the years I've transitioned from one-on-one MF sex to MFM, and since finding my Lesbian side, FFM. I don't think of FFM as the guy having two women, but us women enjoying our Lesbian selves with a guy to do what we can't.

I like to take a limp penis in my mouth and fell it get hard and grow so much I can't keep it all in. Usually this is after his first orgasm since guys get hard too quick before the first one. I like to eat pussy that is clean, but not fresh, if you know what I mean. Same above with cock after it's been inside my or another vagina.

My first time was with a girl that my husband and I were having a threesome with. It wasn't my first FMF, but it was the first where the girl was clear she had a Lesbian side. After my husband had just ejaculated into her I felt compelled to go down on her and loved it. After that I sometimes played with her alone and she was the first girl to do oral on me. I loved that too. The difference for me is that oral sex on a guy is usually either foreplay or postplay - although I do like a guy cumming in my mouth and like to swallow, I prefer he finish in my pussy. With another woman, the goal of me eating her pussy is always an orgasm. (Except I guess in those circumstances when I'm exciting her for a guy.)

There we were in the afterglow of the four of us having just completed the first round of group grope sex with each other. We, the two ladies laying side by side were enjoying a face-to-face embrace and nuzzling as our opposite hubbies were spooning us, when I felt a warmness that was way beyond sexual fluids of ejaculation and oral sex. It was pooling between the other wife and my crotches and, had grown to spread both upwards and downwards. Then I felt the fluid continue to spread back to my rear between me and her hubby. Pulling back, I exclaimed "who is pissing in the bed?" We ladies quickly yelled at the men and both men claimed it wasn't them. The other wife also exhorted it wasn't her and I sure as hell knew it wasn't me! She said, "If I were going to pee on you, it would be in the shower not a bed that can get soaked." Turned out, one of our friends that had been over earlier in the day and had used our bedroom to change her infant's diaper. She didn't even think...yup...it was 1972 and she had stabbed diaper pins right into our waterbed mattress. Guess the exertion of four full grown and highly charged sexual acrobats loosened the pin holes really well. We realized what happened and our military husbands were quick to grab the duct tape for repairs, towels and fresh sheets. After all the night was young...and so were we. By the way, she was telling the truth about the shower. We two ladies literally got into a pissing contest to see which of us could pull up our pussy and pee a stream like a guy. We never laughed so hard. (Ah the virtues of Jack Daniels)

Bottom.

My favorite position is to ride a guy reverse and have his wife or my husband servicing my pussy. It also works well if I am on all fours and taking it from behind while i’m getting oral from the bottom.

It's all a part of the game. All fun, no embarrassment. An erect prick is a joy to watch. Men are envious, women are desirous, why spoil a good thing by dipping into the pool. Never seen anyone trying to hide anything. Au Naturel!

I'm not sure how to tell you how to work your way into the act of your wife being "fuck-licked" since that probably varies greatly from wife to wife. If my late wife is an example, I can assure you that you won't have to talk her into it the second time. So, if this is her fantasy, talk to her a lot. Explore ideas. Keep your eyes open for partners. We preferred couples but beware! You will have two women who won't have to be talked into it the second time. After we found that magic couple, Laura and I (and the other couple) found the following description worked best. A couch works better than a bed. Start with the women sitting on the couch with the men kneeling between their legs. Don't get in a hurry. Laura liked to have me start at the bottom of her slit, using my tongue to gently spread the labia sideways, slowing working myself up until the labia was spread widely along the length and above her clit, which would be standing erect and anxious. After the ladies have had enough of this (may take awhile) both of the men should sit on the couch and lean comfortably back while the ladies climb aboard. Laura liked to start out face to face with her chosen fucker. (She liked kissing.) Eventually, the fuckee-lickee would turn around into reverse cowgirl position and reinsert the fucker's penis. Both would spread their legs and the licker would kneel between them. I've never questioned my sexuality so I wasn't put off by working around my friend's penis to (once again) spread the labia away with my tongue until her clit was once again standing firm at the top, easily licked. One challenge to look out for at this stage is that the fucker's cock tends to slip out when the action becomes enthusiastic. This can be avoided by the licker pursing his lips and tongue around the clit while using his chin to hold the fucker's cock in place. The lady who is not "It" can amuse herself by alternately kissing the fucker and the lady who is "It." After a sufficient number of orgasms, which varies with individuals, the other lady can become "It" and the fucker and licker can exchange assignments. One very pleasant variation is for one of the ladies to be the licker. Laura was fond of this as well because, at the proper time, she could help herself to a treat of man-cream. Keep experimenting and report back to this forum.

I have give discrete handjobs at haulover and wreck beach. Deb.

We've seen a few "chubbies" at Haulover but the only real erections we've seen was the occasional couple who got a bit rambunctious while applying sunscreen to one another. Once in awhile that leads to a surriptitous hand job which we've found fun to watch. All in all, those things are the exception, not the rule.

Actually I lied come to think of it. we had an experience that was not great at a local nude beach. Only us on the beach except for a few bi guys wandering through looking for hook ups. A guy came and sat near us and we chatted quite normally. Out in the water has asked me if we play and I said no thanks. But he sat there and stroked his dick, looking at my wife. I told him is was not cool but he didn't stop, so we left eventually. Just for the record, I would have been OK with it if she was - plenty of cover around there and he was hung like a horse. But she was not ready yet and not in those circumstances anyway.

I think I would like to try taking it in the ass. I'm afraid it will hurt though. The thought of a guy unloading deep in my ass is very arousing to me. Especially if my wife were watching!

Not tried yet but interested in bottom enough that I will try very first opportunity that arises.

I can be quadrupedal for a short time while doing having sex doggie style, but don't actually pedal much during it, just sort of rock back and forth.

Hello good people, I've seen this questions asked before I'm sure but here goes... After a date with a cute couple I'm left a little confused. Let my start off by saying that I think I'm straight and I tell people that I'm straight, and in our online profile it's written that we are straight. So we had a rather sexy evening with a nice couple, cute and fun. Now the male side of the couple was a little bit like a rabbit caught in the headlights and very very shall we say 'not in his comfort zone'. I got the feeling that he didn't really want to be there which was kind of a turn-off for me and I found myself more interested in what MR G was doing with her....I think I have a breast fetish too. I could not stop touching them and every time Mr G played with her, it turned me on. I wanted to hear the sounds she made and touch her as he played with her. There was also a moment when she was kissing me and he was going down on me and it was mind blowing! I've kissed woman in the past, I look at breasts all the time, just never been that turned on by one before. I have started fantasizing about them too, usually my fantasies were all about men, now women seem to be coming up...what does that mean? Has this happened to anyone else?

Hi, this is Petra. From my earliest sexual awakening until my mid-twenties I was 100% straight. Nothing about women turned me on, I only considered them rivals and looked upon them with jealousy (I have a lot to be jealous of). That changed with the right woman, Clair, and now I consider myself partially lesbian. Perhaps that makes me "bi-sexual" or "bi-curious," but I think those words evades the truth of it - that I can now be strongly attracted to a women. I agree that it is counterproductive to focus on labels, just go with what feels right... Also, BTW, I realized from a very early age that I am genuinely a bipedal, and don't plan on changing...

Sometimes 'straight' just means there has been little exposure to non straight stuff, you sound like you are on the border of bi-curious. Sexual desires can be very fluid. You may find yourself obsessing over breasts one week and not thinking about them at all the next. There is a rule we have when having sex. If it feels good do it. Best to not over think.

Oh yeah. I will go either way but I prefer to be face down, ass up with a guy dominating me. Even better is when the wife is on her back in front of me and I can give her oral at the same time. 69 w/ another guy is fun too.

Well we finally did it. The wife and I had our first threesome with a friend of hers. I had a great time (of course), but I was worried about how the wife would react. You know the after party "what did I do?" We had discussed this for a while and decided to take a chance on a friend of hers that was interested through several conversations we had had with her. After several discusions, we agreed on a time and place. The anticipation was brutal for both of us. More so for my wife who had never done anything like this. I had previous experiences pre-wife. Finally the day had arrived. I was excited and my wife needed some liquid courage (just two glasses of wine). When our guest arrived we didn't waste any time. We had agreed to all take showers and shave below. That was the ice breaker since we all had to be naked for that. I shaved myself and both women after our showers. Now the suprising part. My wife literaly took over the night. She got into it like I haven't seen for a while. It was fantastic!!! After an hour of massages, oral, and heavy petting, brought on mostly by my wife, we all finally got off by my wife and I doing doggie while she rubbed her clit vigorously with her freinds clit. We all came around the same time and then unfortunately her friend had to leave. The wife and I finished off the evening by ourselves.