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My husband was watching while i was reverse cowgirl in a special friend. I was getting off watching him stroking his hard cock while I was getting hit in the perfect spot by my partner so I invited him to eat my pussyfooted to take me over the edge. My husband started on me and to my surprise also worked on my partner’s shaft while he was sliding in and out. I pulled my partner out and held his hard penis and asked my husband to suck him. He took him in his mouth and started to give him an amazing bj while I held his head. Watching him made me climax. My partner said he was going to cum so I put him back inside me while my husband worked on his balls and cleaned the cum as he ran out of me. It was my first bi male experience and we have had many similar since.

For us, it was my wife who first suggested the possibility of two men massaging her at once, which started the ball rolling towards swinging. It took about four months or so of talking after that. We had two soft swap experiences, then an MFM that went ok but not stellar. We'd already agreed that we wouldn't judge the lifestyle from just a few encounters, but would keep at it a bit so long as nothing bad happened and just wait and see how things worked out. It was the fourth encounter that did it. I was happy in the lifestyle, my wife somewhat ambivalent. On the fourth encounter, my wife had a fantastic time. She just absolutely LOVED having sex with this particular man. We got in the car to go home, and she had this funny grin on her face. I said "Well? What did you think?" She said, "Ok, NOW I'm a swinger!" and we've been at it since. That was ten years ago.

I, Mrs. Flswing, prior to meeting Mr. Flswing always wore shorts and a T-shirt to bed. I unfortunately was not in a happy marriage at the time so I felt sleeping naked would prompt some unwanted attention. My first night sleeping with Mr Flswing I slept naked. It was the first time in 15 years I had done that and although it initially made me feel uncomfortable that quickly changed that very same night as we spooned each other through the night. Since that night, it’s been naked all the way and the same for Mr Flswing. It’s been 10 years now and we both still very much love being able to cuddle up to each other through the night, feeling each other’s warm body next to our own, the warmth of the skin, the feeling of comfort and relaxation. We would not want it any other way.

So we have hung out with a cool vanilla couple for a few years. Many of our cocktail filled evenings end with a nude soak in their hot tub. There is never any touching or sex in any way - we just enjoy the nudity and drinks while we wind down. Last week, I got out and went inside to pee. When I came back, much to my surprise I saw my husband sitting on the edge of the hot tub and the guys wife was giving him a blowjob. i looked at her husband and asked “are you okay with this?”. He said he has been asking her to go for it for a while and they had discussed it many times as they did know we are swingers. I asked her if she was okay and she said to me do what you want. So I got back in the tub and stood in front of her husband. I guided his hands into my tits and the other into my pussyfooted. i could feel his erection on my ass so I started stroking him. I lifted one leg and rubbed the tip of his penis on my opening. He felt good so I let him penetrate and I sat on him. We watched my husband finish in his wife’s mouth and then he got on the edge and I finished him off while they watched. It turned out to be an incredible and unexpected experience. After a couple of days,I decided to make the move and give her a call and I was relieved to know she was cool with the whole thing. I knew it could go either way. We are supposed to hang out tonight so we’ll see if we definitely have some new swinger friends.

It's pretty accepted that the term for a lady who wants to join a couple in a threesome is 'Unicorn' because they're so rare. I just had a thought about what a male who wants to be with a swinger couple could be called, especially here in Florida... Python, because there are way too many! LOL!

After we started playing with others, my wife found it very easy to have multiple orgasms. Before that she often didn't have orgasms at all.

In 1986 we were the vanilla couple that our best friends 'initiated' into playing. We were all nudists and me always got together nude in our house. We would always flirt a bit. That time our male friend started massaging my wife on the carpeted floor and I started massaging his wife on the floor across the room. I was very careful where my hands went but also sensual. A few minutes the wife motioned for me to look across the room and my wife and friend were having intercourse. Since she was smiling, my massage became much more than sexual and we had intercourse too. It was a wonderful experience. When we woke up the next morning all my wife and I could talk about was if it had really happened or was just a dream. All we could talk about for the next week was wanting it to happen again, and very soon.

Well like everything in this lifestyle it is just her personal preference at the age of 35 not to play with men over the age of 50! She is the woman and she is the one who has the power in this lifestyle to make the choices she wants to. Just like a lot of women in their early 30’s are not interested in playing with a guy that is 48 like myself. I don’t take it personal and can totally respect and understand that. If they clearly say on their profile an age limit and I don’t meet it I don’t message them hoping that I am going to be the exception. No reason I should be. I am lucky enough to have someone who is so much younger then me as my partner in life, but I by no means looked for that. It just happened. It does however have an effect on our swinging life finding compatible couples with such a big age difference between us. Doesn’t seem to have near as much of an effect finding singles that are interested in joining us which is pretty okay with us.

My wife and i were in our hot tub, drinking, nekked with friends; a MF married couple, from church. (we had previously partied nekked in their hot tub once before but didn't swap partners). This night, in our hot tub, the girls were making out, touching each other provocatively, sucking tits and showing off for us. This got us two guys very aroused. My buddy announces; "lets see you two gals eat each other, on the side of the hot tub". They said "ok, but if we do, you guys will have to BJ each other!" "Do you still want us to go down?" He and i looked at each other and said ok, what the hell. Never thinking that they would go through with it. Well the girls took turns going down on one another and it was so hot and steamy. None of us could believe it. hawt hawt hawt! When they stopped they said "ok; your turn!... a deal, is a deal. Who's going to go first?" I decided to go first, but i called in a favor and asked my bride, to do it with me. After she began to blow him, she moved his dick over toward my mouth and we shared it together. After some sucks, she moved away and i was on my own. I was shocked that: 1) it was nothing like i thought it would be ; it was like velvet 2) i didn't feel guilty 3) it was damned good and turned me on 4) most importantly, the girls got hotter than hell and continued to play. My buddy took his turn and it was fairly un-eventful. His wife was proud of him and turned on. It felt good to me and again i didn't feel bad about it.

We really don’t understand why so many people that have on their profile must be drug free still contact us even though it is clear as can be by our profile that we are not drug free! Is it selective on which dirty druggies they will play with and which they won’t? Had another squeaky clean drug free couple hit us up today online wondering what we were up to tonight. We replied that we were going to be smoking a whole bunch of pot and hanging out with a friend. Then pointed out that they were only looking for drug free and we are not. Yes we still have the ability to read profiles with all that pot we have smoked that is supposed to make us stupid. It amazes us that all these drug free people can go through life without ever having caffeine, alcohol, pain killers or prescription drugs which are all drugs. All the power to them for being so toxic free, but that kind of life is not for us.

Guys over 50? I resemble that!

Really helpful stuff. On the coworker, it’s funny because my wife has suggested on a couple occasions that I talk to him to pick his brain on his experiences. He’s a good guy and I think if I was very clear how important my privacy was he would totally honor it. His bragging in the office was to two people he's worked with for decades... like the teenage boy who just got laid. He just couldn’t help it BUT he’s kept it under wraps for the past few months . I mean at this point our current plan is only to play on trips so it’s really if we decide we want more frequent experiences and as well stated earlier, I’m letting my wife take the lead there. Last night I asked her if she was cool with the fact that I’ve been the one doing the research and making the suggestions of sexy things to do and she was totally appreciative of it. “Hey what do you think about going to a nudist resort?” “What do you think about going to a sex club on our trip?” She’s been totally down for all suggestions. A few months ago we had some really good discussions about the potential future boundaries of our relationship and I just took the lead on finding activities in those areas. The app kindu was also a help. Ultimately I’ll always look for her direction first on any decision. Even after we discovered how much we loved nudism, and after this experience, we both discussed how it was important to balance our couples activities between “normal” dates and activities and the more crazy ones. Dinner and a movie with my love is still fun. I’ve been really struck reading through so much here how much love and care that everyone exhibits when talking about their spouses or partners. I mean I cringe in real life circumstances where people make jokes about “the wife” or their hopeless lot as a suburban husband or wife Exploring as a loving couple putting their needs first would seem to be just a best practice. I wish that our first two decades had such openness, honesty and desire but I’m grateful that going forward we found this direction of our journey. Kudos to all of you sharing the love... and the lust.

Been lurking for a loooooooooooonnnnnnng time, used it to educate my self and wife...but wife does not want participate at this time, maybe in future (she says)...I respect her wishes and I envy everyone who does enjoy this lifestyle...it must be difficult to find 4 people that like each other..or at least respect each other's boundaries...I haven't given up hope that she'll get motivated soon. Thanks for listening

You're really into what you were doing, and your wife appears to be eager, including girl play. My advice would be to let her now take the lead while you facilitate. Let her choose your next play sessions and choose the couple. Or maybe she would like to have an MFM with you and a guy of her choosing. Or an FFM. Or if you are daring, she can play alone with a guy, woman or couple. In my experience, nothing helps a couple go down the swinging path faster than letting the woman take the lead and do whatever it is that gets her excited while keeping her comfortable.

I appreciate your play on words.

With so many relatively significant losses, it’s possible your wife is suffering from depression. Loss of libido is often an aspect of that illness. Does she maintain an interest in having sex with you. And she is still responsive to you, has her receptiveness stayed the same or diminished?

For my wife and I, swinging together and alone are both acceptable. Alone happens more than together if only because scheduling is difficult. We have kids, and working out schedules of myself, the kids, my wife, and then add on play partners to boot...it can become a logistical nightmare to organize a time when we can play with others together. We don't do swing clubs anymore, as my wife gets sleepy far too early in the evening for swing clubs, since swing clubs usually kick into high gear around midnight. A fun experience my wife and I had was one time a long term boyfriend of hers who lives out of town was able to come to town but only during the day; he had a prior commitment in the evening (no, he wasn't cheating). She was off that day, the kids were at school, so they had a date planned for during the day. I got to come home at lunch thankfully, and when I walked in the door I was was treated to the joyous sounds of my wife getting a good fucking. We had a great threesome for about half an hour, and then I had to go back to work, leaving them to enjoy each other for the next couple of hours before the kids came home from school. My wife has done two trips with a boyfriend where she spent nights with him. If we had considered this early on in our swinging, it would have been a definite 'no'. Over time, we've become more comfortable with the idea. I agree with Hotwifeswinger; I trust my wife fully, and enjoy her fulfilling her sexual desires. The important thing is to know that she is safe. I enjoy being with her in same room situations for many reasons, not least of which is I really enjoy how her vagina feels after another man has just been inside of her. I also enjoy hearing her tell me stores of an encounter she had with another man earlier in the day. Both are hot

Mine was during a mmf I was eating her pussy while he was fucking her and his dick slipped out as he was thrusting and I figured while It was there I’d give it a try and sucked his cock. Then I slid it back inside her. He had discussed previously that he wouldn’t be opposed to son male male action and that he’d experimented before. He also stroked my cock and fingered her while I was inside her then pushed both our cocks together and we double penetrated her pussy. I came almost immediately feeling our cocks rub together inside her. It was pretty hot.

Our play is mostly at parties and we many times split up and just have fun. Most of the guys are just normal guys. I think in any group there are big boobs and small(I’m small there ) The same can be said about the men, dicks not boobs. I may not sound shy even though I am. I am not aggressive at these parties. There is one guy everyone of my friends know is unusually large. Girls talk. I had shied away from him. After a few parties my friends urged me to approach him. I built up my nerve at one party. He is such a nice guy and we had fun. Later my husband said he saw me and asked me about it. I didn’t know he watched. He said he watched and was worried at first. He wanted to make sure I wasn’t going to be hurt, I wasn’t. He watched me laughing. I said it was a nervous laugh. He said I looked like I was having a good time, and he was happy the guy was treating me well. One of my girlfriends saw him watching and dragged him away but it was after my new friend and I were at it. We are now all friends and laugh about our first time.

The image that conjures up in the mind...

Don't get it complicated. Marriage, sex, friendship are all discreet singular items, we make it complex by putting them together. If she wants a fuck-lick , that is what she wants. I can only give our experience. We are also 3 hours away from any club and never been to one. That is why we are not member sin any club. No one in our vicinity knows what we are up to and will never know. We found Hedonism and fulfill all our fantasies there. No need to build towards anything make elaborate plans with ulterior motives , just be open to receive and give and you will be flooded with offers that you may have to decline.

my wife has pegged me with her strap-ons for years and I have fucked her ass. With men I'm total 100% submissive. I love sucking cock and swallowing (fave is the classic on my knees). For anal my fave is prone boned. I have also dressed for a few men too. Never done it (or should say been done) in front of the wife but would love to. I'm also interested in cream pie cleanups but doubt that will ever happen. Not even got to actual swinging yet. However a nice man about our age we met a couple of times at a local nude beach and chatted with last summer just emailed to say he is in town tonight and asked if our invitation for drinks was still on. I asked my wife and I was surprised how enthusiastic she sounded. The look on her face was priceless. She definitely remembered him. No hesitation. Said his name and "Are you inviting him here or going out somewhere?" I called him and we are meeting for dinner and drinks tonight. He told me he is going to be in town one night a week for a while. Trying not to get my hopes up too much!!! I'm thinking....... we have plenty room, why pay for a hotel every week? (He's self employed.) I would so love it if she would do it with him. 3 way would be cool, but frankly I think I prefer to watch. Maybe, just maybe, we can get the ball rolling finally.

We've yet to wash during playtime unless something gets messy. We were in a small group setting once and one of the men came over to kiss me and he smelled like pussy and it was a complete turn-on for me. I agree that the smell of sex is part of the total experience. Too many people are too concerned with washing away the natural scents the body emits. If you wash away the pheremones, what's the point? We do wash up after the activity has ceased for the night though.

Thinking about it, no. Unless it's really messy for some reason we just continue playing until done, then wash-up. We haven't had any playmates that clean-up between "rounds" either. Probably because part of the whole experience is the smell of sex.

We always shower after play!! We're still very much newbies and we believe that even if were not playing again then a shower is always a must...