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My favorite fuck lick story happened in the public room at one of our favorite clubs. We had a group and about 4 or five couples watching us go. I was on top facing him with my back to the group. I was so fucking turned on I decided turn around and ride him reverse so they could see me fully with my pussy open wide and wrapped around my husbands penis. I also loved that they could see him as well and I kept pulling his cock out of me would jerk him off. One of the women came in and joined us and started to suck my husbands cock while I held his shaft. After a moment, she guided his penis back inside me and then planted her face on my pussy. i held her head in place and had one of the most powerful orgasms of my life while our friends watched. There is nothing like oral with penetration.

We've had this discussion with various playmates and the consensus seems to be that the following rules apply. You can speak about a couple only if the people you are speaking to were there and involved in the action. Otherwise there are no names. With regard to discussing how play went we were in agreement that discussing what happened is only acceptable from a learning perspective. Boasting is in bad taste. The rule stands that if they are telling you about their last play partners they are going to be telling their next play partners about you. Mr. Nomad

I have one fuck-lick experience with a guy. After having his Viagra, he had his erection on for over two hours. We changed and tried every position. He pumped, slow, fast and furious but would not shoot his cum. I had already orgasm ed three times over. It was his idea that we do a 69 with me on top. Then he requested that my husband fuck me from behind while he was licking me. I loved the warmth of his tongue on my clit and the bareback fuck from my husband. When my husband signaled that he was about to shoot his cum, I asked my guy to stop licking me. But, he started to lick me more vigorously and after my husband had cum inside me, he licked up all the juice. I was surprised, but very pleased.

We have no problem with people posting nudes of their whole body at all! We enjoy naked people. We do however have no interest in just close up pictures of a cock, pussy or boobs. If we can’t see the body they are attached to we are not going to find anything attractive about them. We just assume they are attached to a fugly body. Won’t even give people the time of day if they just have close ups of their privates. Men or women.

Sorry for being off topic (but you started it with "Ladies: What’s your favorite play?"), has anyone noticed that Harold Pinter's Betrayal is on Broadway? I've seen it twice before elsewhere. It is sort of a lifestyle story, a woman with a husband and a boyfriend (the way I/we started!). But she is cheating, her husband has figured it out, stays with her and remains friends with him. The story is told in scenes that are reverse chronology, very clever. It is of of my favorite non-musicals.

"4-5% of those living in the United States" Did they pare that down a bit? Our household at one point had 5 people,living there. 3 of them where minors. People make assumptions on this sort of thing that are not warranted. It changes the narrative a bit if it is 4-5% of married couples lining in the US and again 4-5% of paired but unmarried couples,and again 4-5% of people in a sexually active age bracket who are uncoupled. This is a good 1/2 hr. Suggested watching.

I read this post and it made me wonder how Mrs. Toedipper would handle this problem. I thought she may have handled a not great looking male at a party the same as Lioness did. She never mentioned it to me but I felt she took one not to ruin someone else’s party. I needed to ask. I qualified my inquiry and mentioned the male who I thought would have turned her off. She to be honest, I hate when she says that, that she did not complain because she saw I was having fun at the party. She went along with playing when he approached her. I should have been with her to make sure she was fine with the contact. I blame myself for not protecting her. She said she handled him the best she can. We are both still learning how to handle situations. Her handling included or should I say did not include sucking. She said she got him hard and put him in her. She said she couldn’t suck that guy. She fucked him and moved on. If we are going to go to more parties we also have to learn how to move away from those that don’t interest us. When there are only a few couples it takes nerve.

Too funny! We had somebody send us a message yesterday on sls. IM was just a “hey there, great profile”. Ok, let’s check him out. His profile says he’s there to satisfy your wife when you can’t. You can watch her get the fuck of her life, or some bullshit like that. Delete message, block profile. We, like 99% of others in the lifestyle I’d guess, didn’t get into this because either one of us were unsatisfied. We got into it because we satisfy the hell out of each other and enjoy sharing that satisfaction with others.

This, unfortunately, reminds me of the guys who, after or during our first meetups, have made sure that I knew that they were going to make Angel feel something she's never felt before, be the best she's ever had, show her what she's been missing...etc. One even asked me, "Do you want me to go easy, or do you want me to show her what she's missing? Good grief. Those meetings ended abruptly (understated, but there you are). The lifestyle is for making friends who can share the sexual part of their personalities as well as their more forward facing personas. It's not for "rutting sessions", or bragging rights on who has the biggest cock or who can best satisfy someone else. These people need to grow up or get out of the lifestyle. This is simply pathetic. T

It's pretty accepted that the term for a lady who wants to join a couple in a threesome is 'Unicorn' because they're so rare. I just had a thought about what a male who wants to be with a swinger couple could be called, especially here in Florida... Python, because there are way too many! LOL!

I want to expand a bit on what Tricia said. We were at a party a few weeks ago, in the group was a couple that Mrs Doc thinks the husband is very sexy, me, not so much with the other wife. They wanted to go find a room with us. Mrs Doc was VERY enthusiastic. I decided in a split second to go along. My decision was based on several factors, 1. We like them both. 2. We see them out and about at parties and m&g's and even at our publix. 3. My wife was really in the mood and the other couple is adamant that they always play together. 4. While I was not overly attracted to the other wife, she is a nice woman and in effect, she offered herself to me. So, we found a room, Mrs Doc had a good time and the other wife and I had a nicer time than I anticipated. We too opened the Dorito bag so if we see them at another party or a club, I'd go along again. With swinging there is great sex, good sex, or comfortable sex. For Mrs Doc it was great, for me it was comfortable (I worked really hard to make it at least good for the other wife ). In the bright light of the following Sunday morning, we had a nice time, I didn't take one for the team, I didn't unnecessarily reject or hurt another person and my wife and I got laid. All in all, not a bad outcome.

About 5 years ago when we started Mike and I were going to a party of a few couples and saw pictures of the people going to the party. We knew that based on looks one couple was not for us. We almost didn’t go. You say you had sex with them before. I think I would just suck it up even if I agree that you control your body and shouldn’t do anything you don’t want to do. I’ve read many of your posts and I’m reading you are always pleasing everyone. Your first time you gave into your friend which is fine. Maybe you wanted to experience a woman deep down inside and then you allowed her boyfriend in you. You allowed your husbands friend in your bed because your husband wanted it. You were pressured to let your vanilla girlfriend in your bed when you first said no. My take is you are a pleaser who puts others first. Lioness you sound too smart to allow others to dictate who you are with. You need to take control. You know you do or you wouldn’t ask.

My husband was watching while i was reverse cowgirl in a special friend. I was getting off watching him stroking his hard cock while I was getting hit in the perfect spot by my partner so I invited him to eat my pussyfooted to take me over the edge. My husband started on me and to my surprise also worked on my partner’s shaft while he was sliding in and out. I pulled my partner out and held his hard penis and asked my husband to suck him. He took him in his mouth and started to give him an amazing bj while I held his head. Watching him made me climax. My partner said he was going to cum so I put him back inside me while my husband worked on his balls and cleaned the cum as he ran out of me. It was my first bi male experience and we have had many similar since.

Not tried it yet. But had experienced receiving oral and finger from the wife, who I presume to be bi (or les?). Got a multiple Os from it.

Towel Shark: a single guy at a party or a club, walking around in a towel with an obvious boner under it. We heard the term first at Trapeze in Ft Lauderdale. Florida term?? I don't know.

At least in our case, casual intercourse has always been a hurdle for her. There have been times where we've managed to connect with someone for her to play with and she is having fun and wants to fuck, but is not really ready for positions that involve a lot of skin-on-skin embrace and eye contact. Aside from her legs getting tired, reverse cowgirl turned out to be something she can do easily where she's in control of the pace but can feel a little more anonymous and just focus on what she's trying to do. I think we both prefer regular cowgirl, but where it's a choice for her between the slightly less comfortable position and not getting up the nerve to do it all, it's been a good one.

I'm more comfortable in a normal cowgirl orientation. It is a position of least resistance especially if the man's tool is too big for me (I'm petite). I can control the depth and movement to make it less painful at the start. It is usually the man who requests a reverse cowgirl pose to get a closer look of my bum in action or to see me stretched while entering and leaving me. Sometimes, I find it painful and uncomfortable. I suspect it depends on the shape of the penis. A curved or "banana shaped" tool doesnt work for me in reverse cowgirl. For me, there is definitely an emotional difference between the two. It is in the way the man looks at me. If it is affectionate, I prefer facing him. If he looks "too hungry", I feel shy and would rather do a reverse.

Call me a perv, but I don't see anything wrong with appreciating what you see, as long as you aren't all creepy about it. If it is obviously being put out there to look at, then you aren't supposed to look? If she was dressed to turn heads, and turned heads, then isn't that mission accomplished? Having said that though, I have seen many women dress to turn heads and catch eyes, and then when they do (big surprise), they start the constant fussing with the clothes moving it a millimeter here and a millimeter there, all to no avail, which they knew it would be when they put that on that morning and thought yep, my cleavage and tits look great in this. But, I'm a man who knows his limitations so I don't pretend to totally understand women either

What's the best position for DVP? Have you tried King of Clubs?

I have been doing oral on guys for my whole sexual life. It feels so natural to me. There is something about the first time with a new guy. I have been told I am pretty good at it. Oral sex on a girlfriend is relatively new to me. I know I am now experienced doing it but I do overthink what I’m doing. I try to do things I know I like being done to me. I also worry what my partner is thinking. When having oral with a gf I feel I have to make her orgasm, with a guy oral is not always the end. A blowjob is foreplay, oral sex on a gf is an ongoing act.